Women Call The Shots In The Bedroom, Says Study

First Posted: 18/10/11 12:58 BST Updated: 18/12/11 10:12 GMT

Women Get Their Own Way In The Bedroom

It’s an argument many couples encounter at bedtime, but when it comes to deciding which side of the bed to sleep on, it's women who call the shots, a new study reveals.

The research, led by psychologist, Donna Dawson, found that women insist on sleeping on a particular side of the bed each night and usually get their way as only one in ten men care what side they snooze on.

So is this proof that it's women who wear the (pyjama) trousers in the bedroom? Not according to Dawson who suggests that the man allowing his partner to have her way could be his way of subconsciously protecting her.

“Men are naturally designed to want to protect their female partner and that means, more often than not, they will allow her to call the shots over ‘disputed territories’ like preference for a certain side of the bed,” she told the Express.

“Women are far more likely to insist on things going their way than a man too. Men are generally happy to adapt,” she added.

So why do women have a strong preference when it comes to sharing a bed? According to the findings, it ranges from avoiding their partner’s breath, to wanting them nearer the door to fight off potential burglars.

“There are lots of reasons why a woman prefers a certain side of the bed – being furthest from the door and danger; being closest to the door so she can deal with a crying baby; wanting to be nearer the window for fresher air,” Donna concluded.

“The underlying message is women wear the trousers in the bedroom and men generally don’t put up much of a fight when it comes to bedroom-related disputes.”

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It’s an argument many couples encounter at bedtime, but when it comes to deciding which side of the bed to sleep on, it's women who call the shots, a new study reveals. The research, led by psyc...
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owlafaye
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06:55 PM on 10/24/2011
We are practical about it...line of defense (burgular/intruder), my frequent bathroom trips, access to weapon and the fact that I am perfectly willing to get out of bed and do those things we fordot to do before retiring.

Acquiesence on the part of both partners in most all things is quite simple..."It Just Doesn't Matter" is our slant on just about everything. Most frictionable aspects of a relationship just don't matter. The arguing and picking, the petty and picayune Just Don't Matter in the long run.

I have also found out that when I go along with something, in time it changes favorably or quite disappears altogether...or...it becomes apparent that we made a wrong decision that we can now change or modify.

The important thing is to have someone with you so you might as well work a little extra on seeing that they are happy and comfortable so that the same happens for you.
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jeromettaylor
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05:46 AM on 10/24/2011
Every good man knows that she must satisfied first.....
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Now and Zen
10:47 PM on 10/20/2011
To say "who wears the trousers" is the winner is itself a misogynist statement, since the trouser-wearer is traditionally the man.

The battle of the sexes is ridiculous, in my opinion, and apart from socio-political equality in the financial world, very last century already.
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
04:11 AM on 10/19/2011
Women win all these things, 10 to 1, like the article says. In addition to women always getting their own way anwyay, in many areas, just so they can win, women pretend to have strong preferences for things that don't actually differ. It's also supposed to give them more personality or something. "I'm just a right-side person, always have been." "You were a strong left side person last year, honey." "Well, times change."
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John Di Saia
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03:30 PM on 10/18/2011
Bed war? Maybe a bit of hyperbole here? :)
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01:06 PM on 10/18/2011
and I would guess most men say who cares.
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ILoveTheUSofA
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12:53 PM on 10/18/2011
This is why the round bed was invented. You just wait until she's asleep, then rotate.