National Stress Awareness Day 2011: How To Make Stress Work For You

The Huffington Post UK   First Posted: 03/11/2011 11:32 Updated: 03/01/2012 09:12

From financial fears to the pressure of balancing a stressful job and domestic responsibilities, modern life is fraught with everyday anxieties.

When stress becomes a way of life it can play havoc with your health and wellbeing. But in small doses, it can can be harnessed in positive ways, such as helping to boost your motivation levels and to perform under pressure.

In light of National Stress Awareness Day, we spoke to Mike Clayton, author of Brilliant Stress Management, for advice on how to reduce, prevent and cope with stress and turn it to your own advantage.

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  • Stress Is Part Of Success

    "We all need something to spur us along, so recognise stress as a part of the process.  Only when you cannot escape it at the end of the day is it time to really worry.  So make sure you plan treats and fun or relaxing activities for your leisure time."

  • Give Yourself Some Contingency 

    "Allow extra time to get there early or finish before it's needed to reduce stress levels from the start."

  • Walk Around

    "Doing nothing more than getting up from your desk, having a stretch and walking about a little will reduce your stress levels.  If you can take fifteen minutes to take a walk outside, the effect will be even greater."

  • Focus On Your Achievements

    "Often when we are stressed we focus on failures and things we have yet to do.  Focus on success and what you have done, to give you a sense of control.  Celebrate your successes to replace feelings of stress with a sense of pride."

  • Have A Rant... But Choose Your Timing Carefully

    "If you need to let off steam, do it with the right person at the right time: a trusted friend, outside of work hours.  Remember, if you spend too much of your home life moaning or being angry, you will damage one of your most powerful stress-busting assets: your family relationships.  So invest time in strengthening them."

  • A Problem Shared

    "If you do feel the first signs of stress, talk to others around you.  If they are stressed too, then you will know you aren't alone. If they are not, then perhaps they can help calm you."

  • Tidy Up

    "For many people, an untidy work space increases feelings of stress.  Deal with it.  The delay will more than be compensated by subsequent increases in your efficiency, and getting your area tidy will give you an immediate sense of control."

  • One Thing At A Time

    "Not only is multi-tasking inefficient, but it adds to your stress levels.  Do one thing at a time and you will be calmer and do better quality work."

  • Start Snacking

    "If you cannot take the time for a nutritious and relaxing lunch break, at least choose healthy snacks, so you can feel virtuous.  Plenty of fresh water, nuts, fruit, dried fruit and raw vegetables all help you to keep your body well, and enhance your resilience."

  • Build In Planning Time

    "Time to plan and prepare will leave you feeling calm from the start."

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Drmhp
06:41 AM on 11/05/2011
After suffering the most stressful year of my life and contracting psoriasis, exema and hives, I can say without a doubt it will kill you dead over time. Turning 50 has it's downfalls. Taking DHEA may protect you body from the devastating effects of stress as you get older and may save your life.
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Nina Sutton
Founder, One Smart Mother
03:44 PM on 11/03/2011
Thank you for your helpful suggestions - women in CT can relate! With power outages and school closings, women are facing the additional stress of trying to balance family and other responsibilities. The holidays are right around the corner. Sometimes, no matter how proactive we are, life puts another challenge in our path. From my own experience, tackling things as soon as possible yields its own rewards, but with little ones under foot, it is not always easy. Our extended support systems can be a big help, because one of the worst assumptions we can hold onto is that we can do it all under any circumstance.
03:13 PM on 11/03/2011
I wish I knew who the girl was in the featured photograph.
12:09 PM on 11/03/2011
These are okay suggestions and can make us feel a little bit better temporarily (or not), but they DO NOT actually resolve the issues stressing us.

It is my experience that virtually all physical and mental illness -- from colds to cancer, insomnia to infertility, depression to schizophrenia, is the result of debilitating stress. The stress is generally lingering hurt, guilt, resentment, fear, poor self-esteem or troubled relationships, and can date from any point in our life, not simply the present.

I say: Take care of your stress, and let the healing take care of itself. I use a powerful technique for pinpointing and resolving stress and have seen good success in helping people recover physically and emotionally. www.MindBodyStressMgmt.com.
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Drmhp
06:42 AM on 11/05/2011
Sometimes it is spiritual based not physical.