The Perfect Man Does Not Exist, Survey Finds

The Huffington Post UK   First Posted: 15/12/11 15:52 GMT Updated: 15/12/11 19:20 GMT

Three quarters of British women believe there is no such thing as the perfect man with most seeing their partner as only 69% perfect.

The poll of 2,000 women revealed the top flaws that leave men falling short of perfection.

Among the biggest bugbears were failure to get on with his partner’s family and friends, using her toothbrush and general laziness. Other shortcomings included watching too much sport and a cavalier attitude to personal grooming.

Bathroom habits were a sticking point for many couples. While one in five women were prepared to forgive their partner for leaving the toilet seat up, using the toilet with the door open, or worse, leaving it dirty were deemed intolerable.

The survey found that the ideal man is clean-shaven, good with children and even-tempered.

More than a third (35%) rate good personality as the most important attribute one in four saw a good sense of humour as the top quality.

Other major failings included leaving nail clippings lying around, driving like a boy racer and being a mummy’s boy.

Nikki McReynolds, marketing director for Remington which commissioned the research, said: "It seems that women are actually quite realistic on what they look for from their partner.

"While they might happily overlook a few common flaws from their guys, there are certain behaviours that men just won't get away with."

The top bedroom gripes were not of a sexual nature but rather leaving clothes on the bedroom floor and snoring.

Miss McReynolds added: "It's clear that while guys may not be completely perfect, there are plenty of things they can be perfect in, in order to please their partner.

"As long as guys take the time to look after themselves, be attentive and keep up appearances then their partner will be willing to overlook the smaller pet peeves."

David Beckham came top in the poll of perfect celebrity man.

"The average guy may not be able to compete with the image of a David Beckham, and their partners don't expect them to – but there are still a number of small changes they can do to make a big difference," said Reynolds.

These statistics paint a bleak picture of the average British man. If Remington commissioned a similar survey among men, no doubt it would reveal that Miss Perfect is just as elusive as Mr Right.

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10:54 PM on 01/27/2013
OI! what's wrong with imperfection or are most people too shallow! i don't mind what a guy does, but my rule is that he accepts me for who i am and try and not to change me! i mean they may not be perfect but surely there must be something that attracts them, or are people chasing after figment of imagination that doesn't exist! and as for women wanting to have the best possible genes in procreation, Jesus Christ, we're not savage wild animals! sorry, but I'd take an imperfect beta male type any day to the fictitious perfect man, even if he leaves the toilet seat up! :P
11:12 AM on 05/07/2012
The definition of the Perfect Woman should be amended to read Perfect Women....Several for your exciting sex life before marriage, one for bringing up the children and at 50.... a woman twenty years your junior to look after you in your old age...............perrrrrrrfect!
12:10 PM on 04/06/2012
the perfect women? is actually several different women the mom the care giver the sex machine the adventurer...to find that all in 1 woman is near impossible
05:45 AM on 12/22/2011
Where's the perfect woman? These male bashing articles are so stupid..
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
01:05 AM on 12/22/2011
This is silly. "Mr Right" isn't the same thing as "perfect". Humans aren't perfect, we've all got foibles and failings and just attitudes or habits that are going to annoy someone. If someone was perfect that way, it'd probably be annoying too! None of that equates to the idea of "Mr Right doesn't exist." There are plenty of couples, people I know, who have found Mr Right and Ms Right. The big stuff, the things you've in common, the things you love or like about each other, outweigh the small stuff - and for that matter, when you care enough about the other person, you're more likely to be considerate and avoid the small irritations.

None of the stuff in this survey really sounds like it's about Mr Right. It's more like basic hygiene and social skills.
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
04:45 PM on 12/22/2011
David Beckham. Not noted even for basic hygiene and social skils.
11:03 PM on 12/21/2011
What is perfection anyway?
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BruntLIVE
Deal with my fullboreness
04:38 PM on 12/21/2011
Think There's No Such Thing As Ms. Right? You're Not Alone

34% Bipolar and don't alert the guy
12%Bad credit
5% Poor self-esteem
3% Unintelligent
46% Afraid to show the real you (behind the makeup, weave, surgery, manish)
02:45 PM on 12/21/2011
The perfect man doesn't exist. In other news, cotton balls are white. Obviously there's no such thing as a perfect anyone. People wouldn't feel so depressed about dating if they didn't have such high expectations for others.
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Palaver
Men make laws, but the people follow custom.
03:48 PM on 12/20/2011
Young British women are the most promiscuous in the world--more than their male counterparts. You shouldn't expect their standards to be too high:

http://uscmediareligion.org/theStory/1980/
Randybostonterrier
Calling Republicans down on their BS
12:34 PM on 12/20/2011
Men don't know how incredibly boring they are when they talk of sports and stats. It puts most women to sleep.
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Amadahy
loves peanut M&Ms and Whippoorwills
04:13 AM on 12/21/2011
It puts most of my male friends and I (I'm male) to sleep too. We don't follow sports.
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
04:47 PM on 12/22/2011
But women voted for David Beckham.
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Willie12345
05:50 PM on 12/19/2011
The only perfect man wasn't married. Guess he knew better. (Wink, wink)
05:34 AM on 12/19/2011
There is no such ting as the perfect man or woman. What there is to me is the person who you're most compatible with. You will never find the perfect person for we are not perfect and to hold someone to that standard is unrealistic.
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nix28
Ignorance stirs my inner demon...Sorry.
05:25 AM on 12/19/2011
I want the man that is perfect for me, not perfect. Meaning that we love and accept each other, flaws and all. Seeking a perfect person is ridiculous and fruitless, as there isn't a person in the world that fits that description.
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
01:05 AM on 12/22/2011
That's the distinction this article/survey seems to miss! :)
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squirrely girl
Assistant Professor ~ Developmental Psychology
09:54 PM on 12/18/2011
Holding men to the impossible standards of the guys in romance novels and romcoms makes about as much sense as men holding ladies to porn standards :/
Randybostonterrier
Calling Republicans down on their BS
12:35 PM on 12/20/2011
I think it's much easier to be a quality person then have an expectation of a perfect body that has been made by plastic surgery.
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sensimilla
Lead with your heart, and your mind will follow...
06:39 PM on 12/18/2011
Show me a Ms. Right, and I'll show you a Mr. Right, and i'll hate them both immensely because THEY ARE NOT REAL.