Don't Get Divorced, Urges Government

Divorce Government

The Huffington Post UK   First Posted: 06/01/12 10:23 GMT Updated: 06/01/12 10:41 GMT

The government is urging couples who are sick of the sight of each other after Christmas to not get divorced, and consider mediation instead. This latest attempt at fostering social cohesion comes from justice minister Jonathan Djanogly, who made the plea to couples as the seasonal post-Christmas breakups begin in earnest.

In a press release Djanogly said: "New Year is a time when couples can decide to part ways - but by turning to mediation instead of the courts people can take charge of their own futures and work towards a better outcome for everyone involved.

"Mediation is a quicker, cheaper and more amicable alternative, particularly where children are concerned as it gives parents the skills they need to think about the best interests of the child - not just in the short term, but for the future too."

The government says it has increased spending on mediation, and also introduced rules last year which mean couples wanting to contest the terms of their separation in court will first be required to consider mediation.

It seems part of the Tory agenda within the coalition to encourage the institution of marriage. Tories would still like to introduce a married couples tax break, something they pledged at the general election. However Nick Clegg is on record as saying government should keep out of people's private lives.

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The government is urging couples who are sick of the sight of each other after Christmas to not get divorced, and consider mediation instead. This latest attempt at fostering social cohesion comes fr...
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08:38 PM on 01/07/2012
Family mediation has come to our community's social services. My friend has done the social work training in that field and now works in it. While the Brits may be talking about marriage mediation, they are totally correct to get a third party in there to negotiate something, whether it be stay together or split up and decide how to look after the kids and the assets. The important thing is to keep it out of the courts where both parties will spend money they don't have, and lose control of what they want most, and turn what could have been a civil and respectful ex-partner into an absolute enemy. Courts don't make friends, they make winners and losers, but in the case of family courts, mostly losers. mediate first.
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12:28 PM on 01/07/2012
WEDDINGS SHOULD BE BANNED, people cant cope with it anymore, its a burden for most, not just that though, what about all the poor girls from muslim familys that dont get to fall in love, they get a husband weather they like it or not, some old man on a teenager, yuk. what a messed up race they are.
04:08 PM on 01/06/2012
We beg the Govt. but they never listen!
02:02 PM on 01/06/2012
January is the most busy month of the year for divorce lawyers - people usually spend Christmas and New Year constantly in the company of their spouse and after 10 days many realise they can't stand them.

So those who do get along together plan their summer holiday together - others choose divorce - generally if you don't want to spend a lot of money the holiday is cheaper .

Divorce solicitors should invest in a travel agency business - either way they will make money !!!
01:33 PM on 01/06/2012
I have to admit I would be far better off financially living with my partner and her 2 kids. I think its very hard these days living on your own with all the bills repairs and maintenance if you have your own property, plus probably running a car.
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12:50 PM on 01/06/2012
Did you know that if you are both on the dole and divorce you will get more money. And if you have both retired the same thing would go to you. Just live together and get more from the state.
11:30 AM on 01/06/2012
I think people in general can't survive finacially without a partner so there are alot of marriages that probably will end because of this. I don't know if that is good for children when the spouses fight and if they don't love eachother I imagine the fights can have some harsh words. I think people would stop getting married for the wrong reasons if everyone could afford to live on there own and not be forced to marry someone just to make it, I think the goverment should look in that direction if they want to stick their noses in it.