Stephen Lawrence Murder: Family 'Torn Apart' By Son's Death

Neville Lawrence

First Posted: 06/01/12 07:04 GMT Updated: 09/01/12 17:02 GMT   PA

The father of murdered teenager Stephen Lawrence has described how his family was torn apart by his son's death.

In an interview with the Daily Mail, Neville Lawrence said the murder of 18-year-old Stephen in 1993 spelled the end of his marriage to Doreen, which had until then been a "normal, loving relationship".

He told the newspaper: "Our world began falling apart from the moment the hospital staff told us our son had died.

"For some reason that I've tried to understand - and I still don't - we couldn't reach out to one another.

"We stayed together for another six years, but from that day we never physically touched one another again."

Despite their long campaign for justice for their son, which involved much group discussion, Mr Lawrence said he and his wife would discuss "absolutely nothing" as a couple.

He told the newspaper: "You know, in 18 years, me and Doreen have still never once talked about what happened to Stephen that night. About how and why he died and how it affected us."

Gary Dobson, 36, who is already serving a five-year sentence for drug-dealing, was sentenced to at least 15 years and two months at the Old Bailey on Wednesday for the murder.

David Norris, 35, was given a minimum of 14 years and three months for the murder, which the judge said was a "terrible and evil crime".

Britain's top law officer is reviewing claims that jail terms for the two men are "unduly lenient".

Several formal requests to the Attorney General have been made since an Old Bailey trial judge suggested he would increase their minimum sentences if the law allowed.

The development came as police assessed fresh information in efforts to hunt down other suspects in the 1993 racist murder.

Scotland Yard has denied claims that investigations were being scaled down after Commissioner Bernard Hogan-Howe said other suspects will not be allowed to "rest easily in their beds".

A spokesman for the Attorney General said he had been contacted by several individuals requesting a review after a member of the public made a first formal application within hours of the killers being jailed.

The Attorney General has no choice but to review the sentence as part of his public interest function.

"Anybody can request that we look at the case," the spokesman said. "We will consider it in the normal way."

Mr Justice Treacy urged police not to "close the file" on catching the rest of the killers after the court heard that a gang of five or six white youths set upon A-level student Stephen in Eltham, south-east London, in 1993.

Police are following up new information they have received since Tuesday's guilty verdicts.

Detective Chief Inspector Clive Driscoll, who has been the senior officer in the case for a number of years, has said officers would be visiting Dobson and Norris in prison to see whether they would be willing to assist the inquiry and said he remained "optimistic" about further progress being made in the case.

Mr Justice Treacy said the murder was committed "for no other reason than racial hatred".

Referring to the length of sentence, he said: "In short, the law dictates that I must sentence you by reference to your age and maturity at the time of the crime. I cannot sentence you as the mature men you now are.

"In addition, I must sentence you in accordance with the practice in force before the coming into force of Schedule 21 of the Criminal Justice Act 2003 which now governs sentencing for more modern murders...

"It may be, therefore, that the resultant sentences are lower than some might expect, but the law as laid down by Parliament must be applied and I am constrained by it."

It is understood that a decision will be made on whether to keep the men at Belmarsh prison, south-east London, where Norris has previously been beaten up.

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05:16 PM on 01/07/2012
johnnygash is right , and that is why such crimes should face the same punishment whatever the motive and whatever the reason whether it be colour, religion, culture, sexuality and so on. it is that inconsistency that is such a grievance for all of us. it appears that there are double standards for some and not others
10:31 AM on 01/07/2012
Dear Huff as a poster that has earned some respect on these boards can I please make a request to you? Can you develop within your software can ignore button that will hide the posts and comments of posters that have been chosen to ignore by a poster? It is high time a facility was created thus giving freedom of speech back to posters. May be then you will encourage posters to your sites thus increasing the popularity of Huff Post and AOL. Striking off Posters or TOS Warnings alienate members. Please take this on board as constructive criticism. I am sure that many posters will agree with me that Hard Line tactics to members and posters will only alienate people and make them more determined to find another IP. Freedom of Speech will win back members and posters. To my friends and followers, thanks for reading and answering my posts and also a big thank you for awarding me my badge too! Please keep writing and answering fellow posters in the ways you feel. Posters say things from their hearts, no matter how much we disagree with what is written we don't have a right to report it no matter how bad it is. It is up to the monitors to remove swear words etc so monitors please, just remove the swear words I don't mind being called a White - B...... as I will retaliate lol.

Thanks for reading

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05:05 PM on 01/07/2012
whilst i support the idea of free speech censorship is widespread it is not purely limited to 'indigenous' people, whatever you might define it as
10:03 AM on 01/07/2012
The ignorance of the monitors of these News Boards is apparent. People are now seeing the evidence of censorship being bias towards the indigenous people of this country. People are becoming frustrated and angry regarding the lack of their freedom of speech. The simmering pot is about to boil over and it’s the Press, Radio, TV, Weak Government, PC and silly little News Boards like this that will cause it!
04:58 PM on 01/07/2012
or people like you i might add with these nonsense posts. there is far wider censorship towards more than just what you might call the indigenous, whatever that is.
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10:57 AM on 01/06/2012
Another of my comments have been removed , huffington get a grip , there was nothing in it to remove
10:04 AM on 01/07/2012
All adds to the frustration. Frustration breeds anger and anger breeds riots.
05:06 PM on 01/07/2012
interesting link there, would suggest that there are few stages in between the latter for most people, perhaps you have spent too long amongst the far right to notice
10:56 AM on 01/06/2012
Whatever the state of the Lawrence's marriage before during and after the death of Stephen, it has absolutely nothing to do with us. It is personal to them and their family only. It should not deflect from the horrendous death of their son and the result we have seen this week.
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10:30 AM on 01/06/2012
this article is very interesting and at odds with the reporting of their marriage in other publications. the most interesting point being that the marriage was effectively over long before the death.(Black News) the contributors to the article state that his wife was a very difficult woman to live with. there was also reference to comments made by Brookes at the time and the fact that a book he wrote had to be removed when Mrs Lawrence threatened legal action . yet again there is more to this then is being revealed.
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10:11 AM on 01/06/2012
Difficult to comment cogently on this very personal story as everyone/couple will be affected differently in such vile circumstances.

There can be fewer things more traumatic than the brutal, mindless murder of a child, and it shouldn't surprise anyone that relationships come under extreme pressure - and some simply don't survive for a multitude of reasons.

I only hope that both Doreen and Neville Lawrence - and not forgetting their surviving son - can now move on with their lives and find a degree of peace.

However, with the case still open in pursuit of the other mindless morons in the marauding mob of youths, they are unlikely to attain the peace and balance they seek any time soon.

I wish them all good fortune, and admire their dignity and poise throughout this torturous process.
10:07 AM on 01/07/2012
Good morning. I hope you are angry too regarding the removal of posts that should not have been removed. People have taken time to create these boards and its high time we expressed our feelings. I hope that we can see eye to eye on freedom of speech. I look forward to your reply.

B4E
10:10 AM on 01/06/2012
So, Timberwolf942, 18 years of bringing those animals to justice is the 'British bending over backwards'? Are we in a parallel universe or do you not read the newspapers? Probably not from the crass statement that you have just made.
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10:27 AM on 01/06/2012
These posters are pushing a narrative, what I find interesting is the names they come up with to compare with Stephen Lawrence. There is simply no equivalence as you have rightly pointed out.
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09:30 AM on 01/06/2012
How much publicity does this case need? And the fact that the press constantly describe his as "Black Teenager; Stephen Lawrence". Why does his colour have anything to do with it? Its like the shooting in Salford. They immediately made a huge deal of it being a "hate crime" because the suspect was white. All murders are hate crimes, surely? I think this kind of reporting is sensationalist and widens the gap between ethnic communities.
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10:01 AM on 01/06/2012
Spot on Johnny - on the button - F&F from me... well said
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10:38 AM on 01/06/2012
So what you're saying Johnny is that the murder wasn't racially motivated? If it was then his colour means everything. He was killed for being black, nothing else, he did nothing to his killers, he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
12:03 PM on 01/06/2012
same as many others So sad
01:14 PM on 01/06/2012
Johnnygash is right this was a hate crime that word covers a multitude of sins most violent crimes are crimes of hate, so lets get rid of the awful word "racial" replace it with hate then people will know what is being talked about.
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