Half A Million Children Unhappy With Lives, Says Children's Society

First Posted: 12/01/2012 05:24 Updated: 12/03/2012 09:12   PA

Half a million school children are unhappy with their lives, according to a new study published today.

The Good Childhood Report 2012 found that one in 11 youngsters (9%) aged between eight and 15 have a low well-being at any given time.

It also revealed that unhappiness increases dramatically with age - more than tripling from the age of eight (4%) to the age of 15 (14%).

The Children's Society, which published the report, said children with low levels of happiness are much less likely to enjoy being at home with their family, feel safe when with their friends, like the way they look and feel positive about their future.

They are also more likely to be victimised, have eating disorders or be depressed, it said.

The study, launched today by The Archbishop of York Dr John Sentamu, saw experts analyse the interviews of more than 6,000 school children in England.

It found that family has the biggest impact on their happiness, with loving relationships between a child and their family 10 times more powerful than family structure in increasing well-being.

Researchers discovered that stability was also an important factor in young people's well-being, with children who experience a change in the people they live with twice as likely to be unhappy.

Almost a quarter (23%) of children who have moved home more than once in the past year also showed low levels of well-being.

Elsewhere, researchers found that children liked to be similar to their peers, with those who have a lot less, or even a lot more pocket money having lower levels of well-being.

Material factors were also of deep importance, according to the study, with children in families who have experienced a reduction in income more likely to have low well-being.

Youngsters also were three times more likely to be unhappy with their appearance if they did not have clothes to "fit in" with their peers, with the trend increasing in age and among girls.

Elaine Hindal, the society's childhood director, said: "We are calling for a radical new approach to childhood, placing their wellbeing at the heart of everything we do. Our research has exposed that how children feel really matters.

"We know that, right now, half a million children are unhappy. We have discovered the key reasons for this unhappiness and what we can do to make it better. We want our country to be the best place for our children to grow up. Yet unless we act now we risk becoming one of the worst and creating a lost future generation."

Dr Sentamu added: "The moral test for any society is how it treats its most vulnerable, including its children.

"The fact that at any one time half a million children are unhappy with their lives should be a wake-up call to us all."

The charity made a series of recommendations on how to improve the well-being of youngsters, identifying six "key priorities" that were essential for a happy childhood.

They include the right conditions for a child to learn and develop, positive relationships with their family and friends, a safe and suitable home environment and local area and the opportunities to take part in positive activities that help them thrive.

The charity also said children needed to have a positive view of themselves and a respect for their identity and enough of the items and experiences that matter to them to have a positive well-being.

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04:23 PM on 01/12/2012
Welcome to the real world - NOBODY is promised and guaranteed " happiness " and it largely comes from within - if you have a roof over your head, enough to eat and your health then after that you are generally as happy or unhappy as you chose to be.

All unhappiness come from unfulfilled desires - if I don't desire an I Pod then I'm not going to be unhappy about not having one or not being able to afford one - " want " is NOT the same as "needs "

Nor is it necesarily to do with money - plenty of rich are unhappy - they are simply miserable in more comfort
04:22 PM on 01/12/2012
Too many cultures in this country to make it right for everyone.
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Not waving but drowning.
04:12 PM on 01/12/2012
Why be happy when you can be normal?
03:20 PM on 01/12/2012
I have noticed that the happiest children have parents who are relaxed and who don't fly into a frenzy at the smallest dismeanour, who talk to them and listen to what they have to say and who do not load their troubles onto the shoulders of the child. Good parenting is very hard to get right, and sadly not many of us manage it but our own outlook on life is what really counts.
03:05 PM on 01/12/2012
there have always been generations of unhappy children, any child who does not get the latest toy will say it is unhappy - ask them when they are older whether they had a happy childhood, the results will be different !!
02:29 PM on 01/12/2012
Destruction of the traditional family is a deliberate act by policy makers...
02:13 PM on 01/12/2012
Only if they dont get their own way.
01:40 PM on 01/12/2012
Many ordinary families have too much stress and worry and this has a bad affect on family life. It is almost impossible to live on one wage, so both partners go out to work and then both come home tired and strained. Despite working hard all week millions are struggling to pay essential bills and once all the bills are paid - there is no money left to actually enjoy life. The gap between the rich and poor in Britain is too wide and is the worst in Europe. Shareholders and some celebrities get too greedy so this means products and services are unecessarily expensive - they live a life of luxury at the expense of ordinary people.
01:38 PM on 01/12/2012
We seem to have become obsessed with being 'happy'
Happiness is something that comes and goes and is difficult to define. If you ask me am I happy at 6.30 am just as I hit the road for a nightmare of a drive to work I'll say NO.
If you ask me when my pay goes into the bank and I'm grateful to have a job I'll say YES.
This is very simplistic I know but being happy is not something that is easy to define or to explain and children will be unhappy sometimes it just depends what questions you ask and when you ask them.
01:07 PM on 01/12/2012
What a load of tosh! back in the 60's when I was a young teenager I was unhappy because I didn't have a bike with 10 gears like my mate, I had to make do with a 3 speed sturmy-archer, I thought it was the end of the world! Mind you things looked up when my dad came back from the far east and brought me a transistor radio - then my mates were all desperately sad. Same now just the products have changed! It's part of growing up, they'll get over it.
12:56 PM on 01/12/2012
Life is full of ups and downs, Christ almighty ages between 8 - 15 they will need to get used to this the way this country is going. They think they have problems now wait until they are in their mid 20's then their lows will start kicking in. Do we the taxpayers pay for these sort of studies? if so i am sure the study would be beneficial to older people. All kids have ups and downs, mine does everytime i get him up for school, he then gets a high when he has finished and is playing out with his mates. He gets a low when tea time arrives and he doesn't like something on the menu, he gets a high when there is ice cream after the meal, the list is endless, do we need people telling us this, totally stupid survey
12:47 PM on 01/12/2012
I believe many children are unhappy due to weak family structures which impact their long term happiness. Life expectancy is also longer and the impetus for younger grandparents too often forces them to make complex emigration, divorce and career choice issues sometimes difficult for youngsters to comprehend. There is less care and support around them because families are not making enough effort to support a child's concern coupled with an over reliance on technology sees immediate care givers facing the brunt end of the problem. Open and honest communication is key for a successful and loving happy family life.
12:30 PM on 01/12/2012
How's this for a title:

"Half A Million Children suffering from proximity abandonment, due to their overworked parents, says Children's Society"
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12:13 PM on 01/12/2012
they should find out how many adults are unhappy with there lives with increasing taxation , the ever present chance of loosing your job , disabled & oap`s being forced into poverty its not just kids its most of the lower classes that the tories hate that feel like that
11:53 AM on 01/12/2012
"We want our country to be the best place for our children to grow up". Yet unless we act now we risk becoming one of the worst and -----
Well, actually the uk came bottom in a Unicef poll conducted 18 months ag, for child well being, mental health and happiness!! and when l look around my local High St, l can see the reson why. Foul mouthed young "mothers" shouting, swearing, screaming abuse at their 2 year olds, and smacking, often using the " f" word at their tiny children.
lt`s down to bad parenting, pure and simple, families, which are chaotic, a law unto themselves, where the parents often have severe emotional problems, and lack stability themselves, who have absolutely no sense of right and wrong, who couldn`t give a sh-t about anybody else, and many of whom abuse their own children, be it mentally, emotionally or physically.
There are far too many of these so called " parents" in the uk, and unless these children are removed from these families, who shouldn`t have charge of a dog, let alone a child,and place in an environment where they will have the chance to grow into emotionally stable adults, then this country hasn`t got a hope in hell of becoming the " best" country in Europe, " best" countries, love and nurture, and like their children, and in far too many homes this doesn`t happen because the parents are too emotionally immature, problem ridden and sefish.