Afghanistan Troop Deaths: Families Of Six Killed Soldiers Speak Of Anguish

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First Posted: 9/03/2012 06:56 Updated: 9/03/2012 06:57   PA

The heartbroken families of six soldiers killed in the deadliest single attack on British forces in Afghanistan since 2001 have spoken of their anguish.

The men - five of them aged between 19 and 21 - died when their Warrior armoured vehicle was blown up by a massive improvised explosive device (IED).

Sergeant Nigel Coupe, 33, of 1st Battalion The Duke of Lancaster's Regiment, was killed alongside Corporal Jake Hartley, 20, Private Anthony Frampton, 20, Private Christopher Kershaw, 19, Private Daniel Wade, 20, and Private Daniel Wilford, 21, all of 3rd Battalion the Yorkshire Regiment.

The Taliban claimed responsibility for the attack, telling the BBC they were "very proud of it".

The soldiers, who had only been in Afghanistan for a few weeks, were hit by the blast about 25 miles north of the capital of Helmand Province, Lashkar Gah, at 6.30pm local time (2pm UK time) on Tuesday.

The force of the explosion turned the Warrior upside down and blew off its gun turret. Ammunition on board the vehicle ignited, causing a fierce fire that burned for many hours and severely hampered rescuers.

In a moving tribute to his soldiers Lieutenant Colonel Zac Stenning, commanding officer of 3 Yorks, said: "Six of our brothers have fallen. It has been a sad day."

The mother of Pte Frampton, from Huddersfield, West Yorkshire, broke down in tears as she described her devastation at losing her son.

Margaret Charlesworth said: "He was a legend to us and all who knew him. We are heartbroken."

Pte Frampton sought to allay his family's fears in a series of phone calls and Facebook messages after he deployed to Afghanistan on Valentine's Day.

On the day he set off from the 3 Yorks barracks in Warminster, Wiltshire, he wrote: "I'll be fine mum trust me xxxx."

A week later, he added: "Hey mum hope u r OK am missing u so much can't wait to come home and have only been here 7 days lol (laugh out loud) try not 2 worry mum love you so much! xxxxxxxx."

Mrs Charlesworth, 47, used her Facebook page to express her anxiety about her "little Afghan hero", writing on February 26: "Hope my boy stays safe and the rest of the lads out there."

Lt Col Stenning said Pte Frampton was a "thoroughly likeable" young man and "the life and soul" of his platoon.

Pte Wade was about to become a father with his fiancee Emma Hickman, 19, who is due to give birth in June.

Speaking outside the family home in Warrington, Cheshire, his uncle Dave Hamilton said: "Emma adored Dan. He was her life, and will remain so, both in her heart and through the life of their first child."

He added: "Words cannot describe how utterly devastated we all feel at such a difficult time but we also cannot put into words how immensely proud of Daniel we all feel, not just as a soldier but as a man."

Lt Col Stenning said Pte Wade only joined 3 Yorks recently but had already made a "real mark" on the battalion.

Pte Kershaw, the youngest of the men killed on Tuesday, deployed to Afghanistan last month despite having second thoughts after one of his closest friends, Rifleman Sheldon Steel, 20, was killed in Helmand last November.

His father Brian Kershaw, 45, said: "We personally didn't want him to go but that's what he wanted to do.

"He knew there were dangers, he knew the risks. I don't think he fully understood until he lost one of his best mates a few months ago - Sheldon, who was one of the last ones killed.

"He went a little bit off the rails with that. He wasn't 100% sure that he wanted to go, but once he got back down to Warminster around all his friends he thought it through and he knew he wanted to go there."

Pte Kershaw, from Bradford, was described by his commanding officer as a "true Yorkshire warrior" who had been marked out as a "star of the future".

Cpl Hartley's stepfather Mark Taylor, 44, said the family was "devastated" by their "massive, massive loss".

He went on: "Jake was always in the limelight. He was a larger-than-life character. He loved Army life ... He was destined to achieve great things. He was kind, generous, heart of gold, an absolutely wicked sense of humour."

Lt Col Stenning said Cpl Hartley, from Dewsbury, West Yorkshire, who would have turned 21 on Saturday, had risen swiftly through the ranks and predicted that the "natural leader" would have become a Regimental Sergeant Major.

Sgt Coupe married three years ago and lived with his wife and child close to the home where he grew up in Lytham St Annes, Lancashire, neighbours said.

Family friend Janet Fuller said: "The last time I saw him was outside his dad's house all dressed up in his uniform, just getting ready to go off to get married. I would imagine the family are devastated."

Lt Col Stenning said the experienced non-commissioned officer was "proud to be a Lancashire soldier in a Yorkshire battalion", adding: "He was, quite simply, the best."

Pte Wilford, from Huddersfield, a close friend of Pte Frampton, was described by his commanding officer as the "archetypal" Yorkshire infantry soldier, "quiet, unassuming but with bags of character".

His aunt Susan Clarke, 51, said: "He's done us all proud. He's a hero in our eyes."

The Ministry of Defence has not formally confirmed the deaths. It is understood this process could take several days because experts are having to use DNA techniques to identify the bodies.

The tragedy was the biggest single loss of life for British forces in Afghanistan since an RAF Nimrod crash killed 14 people in September 2006.

It took the number of UK troops who have died since the Afghan campaign began in 2001 to 404.

Defence Secretary Philip Hammond insisted that morale among British forces in Afghanistan remained "extremely high" because they know they have an important job to do.

He told ITV's Daybreak programme: "The people on the ground are acutely conscious of the risks that they are running but they are also incredibly proud of the job that they are doing - and rightly so - and hugely satisfied by the level of public support that they have back home."

Lieutenant Colonel (Retired) David O'Kelly, regimental secretary of the Yorkshire Regiment, described the tragedy as "a dark day in the regiment's short history".

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The heartbroken families of six soldiers killed in the deadliest single attack on British forces in Afghanistan since 2001 have spoken of their anguish. The men - five of them aged between 19 and 2...
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Joyce70
Verba volant, scripta manent
04:42 PM on 03/10/2012
Rest in peace.
I hope it will be the last ones.
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Saint wright
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03:22 PM on 03/09/2012
MP’s have to Face up, we have lost in Afghanistan.

When will our shifty politicians face up the fact that the war in Afghanistan has been a waste of our soldier’s lives, our gold and time, and we have lost the war? As soon as we leave everybody except MP’s, the MOD and Generals knows it will revert to a 7th century hell on earth, were the democracy they claim our soldiers are there to bring is seen as the greatest enemy of Islam. The Afghan’s say all you need is the Quran and the Sharia for good Government, not laws made by men. Soon as we go civil war will follow.

So face it we have lost 404 men dead and over 5000 wounded and thousands more who will break down mentally in life as time goes by. Afghanistan is not worth one more UK soldier’s life, the USA can do what it likes, and it got us into this mess along with Bush’s poodle Blair. If bankers can lose their Knighthoods what about Lord John Reid who when Minster of Defence told us he “doubted if a British soldier would ever fire a shot in anger whilst in Afghanistan, they were there to bring democracy and re build the Country”. How can you be so wrong and be made a Lord?
11:36 AM on 03/09/2012
Over 400 British Soldiers have been killed in Afghanistan, it is so sad and such a waste of life. Over 10,000 Afghanistan Civilians too have been killed (Ordinary women and children, innocent people). So there is loss of life on both sides. It is 2012 and human beings are still killing each other. I think War only causes anger and bitterness - the Afghanistan people will never forgive Britain and America - it just makes us even more targets for terrorism. With the conflict in Ireland -Britain eventually realised it was much better to try and understand why some Irish people were so angry and sit round a table to resolve the issues rather than keep killing. There are two sides to every story, it is important to hear both sides of the story. Also, we need to distinguish between Propaganda and Truth. If you speak to some people from Afganistan they will tell you a completely different story from what we hear on the British News. God Bless these soldiers and may Political Leaders think twice before invading other countries and dropping bombs again. We cannot drop bombs on countries without expecting revenge, that sadly is the reality of War.
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ideaville
I have sexdaily, I mean dyslexia, Danm!
11:52 AM on 03/09/2012
People against the war always bring up the subject of the Afghan casualties, as if to trivialise the loss of British life. The vast majority of civilian casualties were at the hands of the Taliban and inter-tribal disputes, NOT caused by British soldiers. Amongst the everyday atrocities committed against innocent Afghans are, acid thrown in the faces of schoolgirls, girls having noses and ears cut off, an 8 year old boy hanged because his father didn't comply with Taliban orders.
We are not an invasion or occupation force, we have tried to help a backward country only to be cowardly murdered by it's people. It is time to come home and watch the country descend into a barbaric medieval society. Next time someone tries to highlight the terrible things happening to women in Afghanistan, we will need to remember that when we tried we were condemned for it.
12:48 PM on 03/09/2012
It was not my intention to trivialise as you suggested. On the contrary - every life lost is a tradgedy. There was already different groups fighting each other within Afghanistan before Britain and America went there. However, once we start taking sides - and giving weapons to one side to use against the other - it only makes things worse - just as it did in Ireland. There's 'tit for tat' going on - one group throws acid because the other group cut hands off..... Two wrongs don't make a right. Innocent women and children have been killed by the Americans and British. If another country dropped a bomb on Britain today - British people would not like it. Don't do to others what you would not like done to yourself. I agree that bad things happen in Afghanistan but people have to want to forgive and sort out the problems without adding fuel to the fire. Britain and America added fuel to the fire. Consequently, people in Britain are now even more at risk of terrorist attacks in Britain.
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sabpol
11:17 AM on 03/09/2012
As a mother of 4 sons, sadly one of them passed away, I know the worry mums have when their sons/daughters get sent off to the likes of Afghanistan. One of my sons is due to go back to Afghanistan at the end of this month for the 3rd time, another son is going at the end of this year and my youngest son will be going next year, my son that is no longer with us spent time in Afghanistan too and when they are over there I live in fear for that knock on the door. R.I.P. you are all heroes
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I have sexdaily, I mean dyslexia, Danm!
11:35 AM on 03/09/2012
I am sorry for your loss, I wish your sons all the very best and hope they are all returned to you safely. They are without a shadow of a doubt heroes.
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sabpol
11:49 AM on 03/09/2012
My son who died had left the army for his now ex wife who 12 months later didn't want to be married any more, he didn't cope with civilian life and would have re-enlisted if it hadn't been for his daughter. He wasn't killed in action like these other heroes but having served in the forces including Afghanistan he was still one of my heroes
10:43 AM on 03/09/2012
Mr. Cameron for pity's sake withdraw these fine young, brave boys from Afghanistan before more die for absolutely nothing. This is not our war and already too many young boys have died in a futile war. In the name of Heaven, let us bring back our boys safely to avoid yet more misery for them and their families. These people should be allowed to sort out their own problems.
10:35 AM on 03/09/2012
Pgeveritt No such thing as a safe war, These fine young men follow a history of fighting in foriegn,countries to keep this little Island safe, and the continued protection of our right to free speech.Do not insult the bereaved familes by saying their sons should never be there.You should be proud of all our armed forces , they do it for us.
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huff is crap
10:39 AM on 03/09/2012
what free speech when you cannot say what you want to on here & it is local muslims killinjg us in the uk
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mickbono
huff is crap
10:25 AM on 03/09/2012
why are you processing my comment there is nothing offensive or abusive about it .
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mickbono
huff is crap
10:23 AM on 03/09/2012
6 lives lost, 6 unwanted visits, 6 doors received that dreaded knock, 6 families with shattered hearts, 6 pairs of boots lined up with rifles, dog tags and helmets, 6 comrades remembered and grieved for, 6 funeral services, 6 names on newly made grave markers, 6 empty places at the table, 6 souls who gave all and whose lives leave a void, so let's take 6 seconds to remember them and pray for those families. RIP to the fallen Heroes. lest we forget all the men and women who have lost their fight whilst in service! ♥ ♥
10:19 AM on 03/09/2012
my son will be going out in october and i'll be worried every day until he's back . i know it was his goal to join the army and he was looking forward 2 it . it's not fair to send them out for the goverment's failures . so why r we getting to hear that the police have found so much drugs in england when they claim that so many poppy fields have been destroyed . my heart goes out to the familes who have lost their love ones
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sabpol
11:25 AM on 03/09/2012
I am in the same situation as you with having sons in the army, I worry all the time they are out there. When any of my lads are out there and I hear someone has been killed I freeze and then give a sigh of relief when I hear those words "the families have been informed" then I feel so guilty because it's still someones son, daddy, brother, husband that is not coming home. Sonia I hope and pray that your son will come home safely these words go out for all our boys/girls over there. My son who is going later this month, it will be his 3rd time that he's been another son is going later in the year and the other son will be going next year
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10:11 AM on 03/09/2012
theres not really anything to say just RIP Heros will it ever end young lives lost everyday .
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09:51 AM on 03/09/2012
I just cant imagine what the families are going through, the pain must be so so bad...
asking why why why.......but no answers except THEY WERE DOING THEIR DUTY....

That doesnt help at all at this time, nothing does.....

I ony hope the families know The Nation Is in total sympathy with you...
again it doesnt help also................God Bless The Families.