Dennis Waterman Admits Punching Ex-Wife Rula Lenska

Posted: 20/03/2012 07:29 Updated: 20/03/2012 07:29   WENN

Veteran actor Dennis Waterman has admitted punching his ex-wife Rula Lenska in a shocking new TV interview.

The flame-haired actress accused the Minder star of beating her up before they divorced him in 1998 but he has always denied the claims.

However, Dennis finally opened up about their violent relationship in an interview with Piers Morgan.

In the chat, set to air next month, he admitted slapping and punching Rula twice, but insisted she wasn't a "beaten wife".

According to The Mirror, he said: "She certainly wasn't a beaten wife, she was hit and that's different."

He has angered domestic violence groups by adding: "It's not difficult for a woman to make a man hit her.

"We were going through a horrible time and arguing a lot. The problem with strong, intelligent women is that they can argue well. And if there is a time where you can't get a word in... and I... I lashed out. I couldn't end the argument.

"Something must have brought it on. When frustration builds up and you can't think of a way out... It happened and I'm very, very ashamed of it.

"I'd never done it before or since. But if a woman is a bit of a power freak and determined to put you down, and if you're not bright enough to do it with words, it can happen. And it did happen in my case."

His comments have riled Refuge boss Sandra Horley, who says: "I am appalled by Dennis Waterman's comments about his violence towards Rula Lenska, which trivialise the abuse he inflicted on her.

"No one can make their partner hit them. However angry or frustrated Dennis felt, he could have chosen to deal with those feelings another way but he chose violence. He alone is responsible for his behaviour."

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08:59 AM on 03/21/2012
I wonder if he leapt out of the back of a Transit Van on a deserted piece of wasteground and gave her a clump with a baseball bat.

"Get yer trousers on George, we've got villains to nick son"
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gimmeanamethen
saying it like it is
04:16 PM on 03/20/2012
no wonder she never let him get a word in, have you heard his singing?
03:21 PM on 03/20/2012
What a big, brave man.
And well done her for having the good sense to walk away from him.
He's right about one thing though. She is FAR more intelligent than he'll ever be.
01:04 PM on 03/20/2012
he is a very basic actor, and i am not surprised that he could be violent
11:54 AM on 03/20/2012
Lets be honest it is a real stretch of the imagination to call Waterman an actor ! He has been putting in the same hammy performance for 30 years !
11:30 AM on 03/20/2012
Hitting a woman - the last refuge of the coward and the bully !. Wish she had some brothers to teach this oaf Waterman a lesson in manners.
11:28 AM on 03/20/2012
His brother Pete was a real hard man, but he done it in the boxing ring. Great champion.
10:56 AM on 03/20/2012
always thought he was a nasty piece of work. Having said that I can't stand her either.
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vividrick
I came, I saw...I had a cup of tea!
10:48 AM on 03/20/2012
A star from the 70's whose attitudes are sadly still left from even further back!
10:24 AM on 03/20/2012
Sandra Horley is wrong in one respect. There are women out there who know how to 'push all the right buttons', in order to get a violent reaction. However, I agree that a man should be able to stop short of a violent reaction, no matter how stressful the woman makes the situation.
I was in a similar situation to Dennis Waterman, many times. And I am ashamed to say, I reacted violently. I've since learned better how to deal with those situations by attending an anger management course 4 years ago. What was remarkable about the other people attending this course, was how our situations were so similar, in respect of our wife, husband or partner being so fond of mind games and being able to 'push and push' in order to get an angry reaction.
Well done Dennis for being honest with yourself at last.
Kraptonfactor
They're coming to take me away ha ha, hee hee, ho
11:16 AM on 03/20/2012
mequus129, it's good that you sought help with your anger management problem. I know a woman who deliberately winds her partner up and ends up being beaten, she's expecting his baby too! His parents are police officers and all they had to say to him was that he shouldn't do that. My sons have been raised never to hit women, if they did then they know I would disown them. I had a violent partner many years ago and he attacked me once, that was enough, I had him arrested and charged with assault. Then I left him.
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11:21 AM on 03/20/2012
Respect to you for getting help with your anger problems.
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Mind games or no mind games hitting someone is a choice. If you can't walk away and knew you were going to react violently you could've punched a wall or a door, not a person.

"they pushed all my buttons" "they know how to wind me up" is just victim blaming. If someone is winding you up - leave. They probably do know how to wind you up, they don't deserve to be assaulted becasue someone cannot control their temper.

Being punched is NOT the fault of person being punched. The person doing the punching is the only one choosing to do that.
09:18 AM on 03/20/2012
So hit but not beaten. I wonder what he constitutes as beaten - hospitalisation?
09:02 AM on 03/20/2012
once a wife beater, will always be a wife beater -that is a fact- there are plenty of studies that can back that up!
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07:56 AM on 03/20/2012
I guess you really can't teach an old dog 'New Tricks'.