Samantha Brick: I Used To Be An Ugly Duckling.. You Notice When The World Deems You A Swan

The Huffington Post UK  |  By Posted: 3/04/2012 13:37 Updated: 5/04/2012 12:29

UPDATE: Samantha Brick fights the beauty backlash on ITV's This Morning

Samantha Brick, the woman who confessed her life has been blighted by her beauty, has revealed to the Huffington Post UK that she used to be an "ugly duckling" as an online storm erupted over her latest article.

Brick, 41, sparked outrage on Tuesday after she wrote an article in the Daily Mail describing how even while dressed down in a "demure, albeit pretty, top" she attracts the ire of fellow women and "snarky comments".

But she confessed to The Huffington Post UK that she was a "fat, spotty child".

"After entering puberty the weight dropped, the spots were controlled and the hair was dyed blonde. When you've been the ugly duckling, you notice when the world deems you a swan."

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The writer, whose previous work includes 'Why my husband says he'll divorce me if I get fat', 'I'll always be that fat girl', 'I married a man-child', 'How to survive as a French wife', 'Yes, French women DO get fat' is used to stirring up controversy.

But Brick's confession about the downside of beauty caught the eye of Tweeters, who questioned if it was a late April Fool's joke, or if they were simply "missing something".

She told The Huffington Post UK, after being contacted during her weekly shop, that she thought the online reaction was "surreal".

"Personally it's very surreal, I live in the middle of nowhere, internet is erratic, no one here knows what Twitter is."

Brick shared her top beauty tip ("get yourself a French husband. You will never be allowed to let yourself go") and said she had trouble keeping female friends, adding:

"No, it's keeping them that's the problem. That said, I have female friends ranging from 14 - 87."

She claimed men, however, didn't "bullshit" or "bitch": "I have lots of male friends. They don't bullshit you or bitch behind your back and they'll always tell you if you look good (without necessarily trying to get into your underwear)."

Her piece had attracted an eye-popping 1,621 comments at the time of writing - many remarking on her previous article about why it's OK to flirt with your male boss to get ahead.

But Brick said despite the online storm "lots of Mail readers have emailed me privately in support and sharing similar experiences".

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UPDATE: Samantha Brick fights the beauty backlash on ITV's This Morning Samantha Brick, the woman who confessed her life has been blighted by her beauty, has revealed to the Huffington Post UK that...
UPDATE: Samantha Brick fights the beauty backlash on ITV's This Morning Samantha Brick, the woman who confessed her life has been blighted by her beauty, has revealed to the Huffington Post UK that...
 
 
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07:16 PM on 04/15/2012
Somebody get the woman some cheese for that whine!
fredgladys
Your Micro-bio is empty, I know, stop nagging.
08:00 AM on 04/13/2012
I still think it is a huge practical joke.
10:06 AM on 04/08/2012
Even though this lady is not ugly, I would never describe her as beautiful. I think she is living in a dream world. Her lack of female friends says more about her than other women. The picture of her in the Sunday Times today cetainly does not suggest a beautiful woman!
09:36 PM on 04/06/2012
It is long overdue for society to recognize that really pretty women face serious obstacles in the workplace (and other places) - mostly by other WOMEN, not men. Whether you find this woman attractive is irrelevant (I do not): the problem is a hidden one that costs terrific women emotional tranquility, relationships, and even careers. There is no excuse for a society taking the position that, if you are beautiful, you somehow deserve abuse. The prettiest women I have ever known "hide" out at home - they cannot even go out without being harassed and bullied by (mostly) other WOMEN. It's time for society to grow up, and for the harassers to suffer the costs of a superficial society, not the women who happen to be pretty. In the right circumstances, the harassers could be sued for invasion of privacy or emotional torts - perhaps that is what we need so that some consequences flow from jealous harassment.
09:27 PM on 04/06/2012
I remember a survey many years ago as to what our perception of the most beautiful woman on earth would look like. . They took all features into considerartion, and the LIVING person they came up with that matched all of the 'perfect' feature was Jacklyn Smith.( original Charlie's Angel) and she is stunning., not Samantha Brick, she has nothing compared to her.
12:31 PM on 04/06/2012
Not sure I understand. I think she's confusing friendship (and beauty) - if she has problems with her female friends then she should take a long hard look at herself to see why! Maybe her opinion of herself id the probelm - and her view of beauty!!!
11:00 AM on 04/06/2012
Shes average looking, So I dont think women dislike her because of her looks or are jealous. I know plenty of woman far more beautiful. They dont boast about their looks though that would drive most woman mad.
10:03 AM on 04/06/2012
Cant see it myself, lots more beautiful than that around,wouldnt look twice and certainly wouldnt be jealous. Someone needs to speak to her husband, just incase he has put her on a pedestal, needs beinging down to earth !!! Or he may very well lose her, she 's too beautiful for him !!
09:46 AM on 04/06/2012
there are more beautiful people in my family and walking the streets than this women.she seems to be very immature and some kind of attention seeker. maybe she needs to see a counseller to sort her problems out. anyway I think she needs to take elecution lessons,because the way she speaks shows she is classless.she did not go to public school then.
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oldstuff
Your micro-bio is empty!
09:03 AM on 04/06/2012
She is what passes for beautiful in Great Britain so stop hating.
10:15 AM on 04/06/2012
LoL if I had been drinking the contents would certainly have been shot out my nose and all over the computer. Funny as heck!
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LolaGetz
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10:40 AM on 04/06/2012
I think you're probably joking. I hope you're joking. No, she doesn't pass for beautiful in Britain.

I'm completely baffled about what this woman must see when she looks in the mirror, but I'm pretty sure it's not what rest of us are seeing.
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Kimberly Owsley
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06:12 AM on 04/06/2012
I think the reason this woman cannot keep female friends is not because she is beautiful and they are jealous/hate her for it. I think she cannot keep female friends because she brags about being beautiful, especially when she actually isn't really that much so, certainly not "swan-like" at least, probably says shallow, offensive crap all the time and overall has a character so unappealing that even if she looked like Scarlett Johansson you wouldn't want to put up with her. 9_9
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Yasmin Johnson
I dont understand the question & wont respond 2 it
04:42 AM on 04/06/2012
It's nice that she has a high sense of self but I think she may have some form of body dysmorphia.
ALiberalKidd
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10:54 PM on 04/05/2012
Did the same person who told her she was an ugly duckling, also tell her that she is now a swan --herself?
10:02 PM on 04/05/2012
As life ticks on,I have learnt a valuable lesson about people.It is not their beauty that counts,but the content of their character.
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uniqumm
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09:53 PM on 04/05/2012
As bricks go, I wouldn't mind this one being tossed at me!