Pam Shaw, The 70-Year-Old Virgin, Is Looking For Love (PICTURES)

Barcroft Media  |  By Posted: 11/05/2012 06:06 Updated: 11/05/2012 06:06

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A raunchy cabaret star is hoping to finally lose her virginity – at the grand old age of 70.

Pensioner Pam Shaw, who has performed alongside Tom Jones and Engelbert Humperdinck, says she has been too busy chasing stage success to find a man.

But now the septenagerian, who performs under the moniker The Sexational Pam, is hoping to meet Mr Right and be bedded by the man of her dreams.

Pam, from Wigan, East Lancashire, said: "I may be 70 years old, but I'm very young at heart.

"People can't believe it when I tell them my age. I think I look great - maybe because I've never been married or had kids.

"But now's the time - I'm ready to take the plunge for the right bloke. My standards are still very high. I'm hoping to bag a millionaire with tall, dark and handsome good looks.

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Pam says she's never been short of offers, but didn't believe in sex before marriage

"I'm loads of fun and bundles of energy. I got to salsa and Zumba classes every week and have loads of friends. I like to think I'd be a real catch."

Dressing in revealing stage costumes, Pam says she was never short of offers when she was younger - but didn't believe in sex before marriage.

Pam, who lived with her mother Lilian until her death in 1995 aged 97, said: "I was never short of offers in my heyday - men saw the outfits I wore on stage and thought I would be easy.

"But I've never really been intimate with a man - just a bit of kissing. I had a sexy stage name and dressed sexy, but that was all for my career.

"There has never really been any time for me to get a man - I worked so much that sometimes I'd only have one hour's sleep each night.

"But now I feel I am ready to give marriage a go - and maybe go to bed with a man. You are never too old for anything - just look at Joan Collins."

After winning TV talent show Opportunity Knocks in the 1960s, Pam opened shows for Ken Dodd and Engelbert Humperdinck and performed onstage in Las Vegas.

During the 60s, Pam even shared a dressing room with The Voice judge Tom Jones, now 71, when the star performed in Bolton Casino for a week.

But even though Pam was surrounded some of the world's most desirable men, she still held out.

Pam said: "Tom was very good looking and we used to chat occasionally before I went on stage as the opening act.

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A strong work ethic meant Pam focused on her career, not her love life

"In the late 60s we performed together. There was only a curtain separating our dressing areas."

But it was Eurovision hopeful Engelbert Humperdinck, now 75, that made the biggest impression on the young singer.

Pam said: "Engelbert and I stayed in the same lodging house in Leeds in the late 60s.

"He always had an eye for the ladies and he was eventually banned from bringing back girls to the guesthouse.

"Although he was very flirtatious with me, my mum was my chaperone and wouldn't allow any funny business.

"One morning I found a note on a toilet roll hanging from the door handle from Engelbert. It said: "Please do not disturb; Pamela and her mum snoring".

"I remember watching TV with him when Please Release Me was reviewed on a kids TV show. We were all so pleased when it was considered a hit."

Pam was also pally with heartthrobs Roger Moore and Avengers star Patrick MacNee.

She said: "Just like now, in those day women were throwing themselves at stars. But I've always had a very strong work ethic and finding romance always came below getting ahead in my career.

"I wouldn't have entertained the idea of sex outside of marriage, and marriage meant giving up on my dreams.

"Even over the last few years my career is still going strong. I worked with Oscar-winning director Danny Boyle on a feature film called Strumpet in 2002."

In a career spanning five decades Pam has featured in adverts, TV hit Shameless and Brit comedy Alien Autopsy starring Ant and Dec.

Despite remaining celibate all her life, Pam admits a couple of men have caught her eye in the past.

She said: "In 1976 I was proposed to by an oil rig worker in Blackpool. I said yes, but later broke off the engagement when I realised I didn't fancy him.

"The only man I thought I could go to bed with was a guy who used to come and watch me every night when I sang in Malta.

"But I wasn't prepared to settle down - so it wasn't to be."


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Source: Barcroft Media A raunchy cabaret star is hoping to finally lose her virginity – at the grand old age of 70. Pensioner Pam Shaw, who has performed alongside Tom Jones and Engelbert Hum...
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PDSCOTT
11:40 PM on 04/23/2013
Well, she knows what she wants. :)
11:00 AM on 04/12/2013
Hmmm! Extrovert personality but still a virgin at 70? It doesn't look as if that tall dark handsome millionaire will be getting much sex!
02:23 AM on 06/30/2012
how to contact Pam Shaw? my father wants to meet her, lol
07:27 PM on 05/17/2012
Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it, but it turns out to be not what you'd hoped for all along.
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cnj2011
Party please, hold the tea
02:50 PM on 05/16/2012
This headline is a bit too much Huffpo!
05:35 PM on 05/15/2012
I admire u & may u find what u seek for. By the way....I too am a virgin, the only difference is that i'm 38. Now, people might wonder why have I kept my virginity? I have been too picky. Therefore, if there's younger girls who believe in marriage b4 sex and want to have a family someday.....please do not be so selective, but make sure ur mature (not under 21) enough to take such responsibility. A marriage is not a joke, it's a blessing. I come from a solid marriage starting with my grandparents (maternal/paternal). Now, my parents have been married for 44 years, which I thank God for that because from what i have seen it is not easy. Good luck 2 all:)
09:26 PM on 05/16/2012
I think the right age depends on the person. You can't say "not under 21" that's just ridiculous. Just because you were not mature enough does not mean others are not. Life is meant to be lived. Enjoy it while it lasts. I was 15 (he was also a virgin) when I lost my virginity and 19 when I got married (no I was not pregnant) to the same person I lost my virginity too. We will be celebrating our 15 year wedding anniversary in January and our relationship just keeps getting better and better. In fact we just adopted our third child. Life is good when you actually live it! Seize the day and live with no regrets!
11:36 PM on 05/13/2012
oh dear
07:58 PM on 05/13/2012
I'm game, I am in her age group (76) but she'd have to be on the pill, don't any little surprises do we,
Bit too old now for the patter of tiny feet.

Just let me know where and when, the bloody clock is ticking!
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08:40 PM on 05/13/2012
"Bit too old now for the patter of tiny feet"

You could be in for a suprise.
09:01 AM on 05/14/2012
No.....a total heartstopping shock would be more like it.
07:07 PM on 05/13/2012
I think you should forget it deary and go back to your maker unopened!!
06:23 PM on 05/13/2012
no dignity, but id have a rip
03:37 PM on 05/13/2012
Nice date-site ad Independent. How much did she pay?
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02:24 PM on 05/13/2012
70 and she wants to have sex, I dont think this is a true story, 70yr olds dont have sex, and if they do I dont want to think about it, this is sick.
09:51 AM on 05/14/2012
You must be quite young to hold that view. If you think 70 year olds dont do sex ask my wife she caught me last week with the 75 year old neighbours wife. LoL
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paulie boy
Justice for all..not the few
02:19 PM on 05/13/2012
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha.. sorry this is a joke, right?
02:13 PM on 05/13/2012
The word is "septuagenarian"..for goodness sakes!! No such word as "septenagerian"
01:51 PM on 05/13/2012
I think she could keep looking as she may find a guy who will need her to hold his WHITE STICK or his guide dog's lead while he does it.