Mum Breastfeeds Three-Year-Old On TIME Magazine Cover

The Huffington Post UK  |  By Posted: 11/05/2012 16:56 Updated: 12/05/2012 20:27

Breastfeeding

The image of slim blonde 26-year-old Californian mum Jamie Lynne Grumet, breastfeeding her three-year-old son on the front cover of TIME magazine, has sparked controversy on both sides of the pond.

In recent years, debates in the US about weaning have become more polarised as women continue to breastfeed their children throughout their early years, as part of trend known as 'attachment parenting'.

In Britain, politicians suggest parents refer to World Heart Organisation guidelines that suggest that exclusive breastfeeding for six months is best for babies, reported The Guardian last year.

However, in America more extreme parenting styles involving baby-wearing, extended breastfeeding and co-sleeping are more widely accepted.

Most recently, French feminist Elisabeth Badinter commented on the growth of this kind of 'attachment parenting' in her new book The Conflict: How Modern Motherhood Sets Back The Cause Of Women, commenting that this over-intensive parenting style was setting the movement back decades.

In response to the provocative TIME magazine cover, senior Huffington Post columnist Lisa Belkin blogged angrily that the 'simplistic, unrepresentative, staged photograph' featured in the publication this month undermined a complex debate.

"The breastfeeding conversation is not titillating. The TIME cover is," she writes.

"Breastfeeding is not a macho test of motherhood, with the winner being the one who nurses the longest. In fact there ARE no macho tests of motherhood. Motherhood is - should be - a village, where we explore each other's choices, learn from them, respect them, and then go off and make our own."

In an interview with the Today Show following the magazine's publication, Grumet told the show's host, Savannah Guthrie, she plans to keep nursing son Aram for another year.

He's "self-weaning," Grumet said. "But personally I'm hoping our fourth year, just for me, is probably going to be our final."

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The image of slim blonde 26-year-old Californian mum Jamie Lynne Grumet, breastfeeding her three-year-old son on the front cover of TIME magazine, has sparked controversy on both sides of the pond. ...
The image of slim blonde 26-year-old Californian mum Jamie Lynne Grumet, breastfeeding her three-year-old son on the front cover of TIME magazine, has sparked controversy on both sides of the pond. ...
 
 
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09:46 PM on 07/07/2012
First let me say I am a "lactavist" and a nutritionist and fully support breastfeeding, however I agree with the author of this article that this picture undermines the breastfeeding movement. While many cultures breastfeed beyond the first year, it is due to necessity and food insecurity. This picture is simply fuel for the opponents fire against breastfeeding. If we are to ever win this fight and win respect for the right, breastfeeding mothers will need to continue to exercise good judgement and have respect for others. It will NOT be won by raising up their tops, exposing their breasts, and having a preschooler hanging off of them; This set's us back YEARS!!! GRRRRR.
11:05 PM on 07/05/2012
This picture not something that should have been on the cover of a magazine. There is no added nutritional benefit for the child and I can't understand why a mother would do this other than she enjoys it. Takes all kinds, hope she can let go when he wants to move on in life. Sad.
07:16 PM on 06/07/2012
I breast fed all four o my children, i enjoyed the experiece and it helped me have a strong bond wth my children. The health benefits are without question,we know that its best for our children those of us who choose to do it those of us who dont im not here to promote it. I however have never breastfed past 14 months. If your child has a healthy diet by this stage what benefit other than to comfert you is there??
11:36 AM on 05/15/2012
I think at that age it's called pedophillia
01:38 PM on 05/14/2012
In all fairness, if my mother looked like her, I'd still have been breast feeding at 30.
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littlebrowngirl
Brevity is the soul of wit - Shakespeare
05:10 AM on 05/14/2012
That kid obviously eats steak too.
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littlebrowngirl
Brevity is the soul of wit - Shakespeare
05:10 AM on 05/14/2012
Not a fan of the photo. I think it goes too far.
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littlebrowngirl
Brevity is the soul of wit - Shakespeare
05:08 AM on 05/14/2012
This kid could drive to the store to purchase milk.
11:54 PM on 05/13/2012
In response to all the comments I got:

We now know that the true meaning of responsibility is response able or ability to respond. Whatever we may think, say, do, or feel - these are our responses for which we, and no one else, are responsible. This is easy to see but hard to live, for we have been taught to believe and think the opposite. So we don't consciously choose our response, we react instead, and then we blame others for our reaction. No wonder we feel imprisoned by others and our circumstances. The enlightened, on the other hand, have broken the spell, they see the illusion. They take full responsibility for their response abilities and as a consequence, they always hold their own destiny in their own hands. They are free spirits.
11:04 AM on 05/14/2012
Really ???? Please.
12:42 PM on 05/14/2012
What.............?
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11:37 AM on 05/13/2012
Exhibitionist.
08:39 AM on 05/13/2012
I see nothing wrong with breast feeding, in fact i breast fed both my children. i however did not flaunt that fact in public. i see it a private interaction with the child. and because i didn't want to 'whip' my breasts out in public i decided to express n bottle feed. this also gave me a chance to sleep during the nite as my partner did the night feeds as well. i don't understand why people feel the need to PUSH their views on to other people or condemn mothers that decide not to breast feed! what works for some may not work for others.
08:22 PM on 05/13/2012
Wise sensible words.
cdnman
Still a free spirit...
12:19 AM on 05/13/2012
I bet the kid would prefer a cheeseburger and fries lol
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buster1949
06:02 PM on 05/12/2012
For goodness sake!!!!!
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buster1949
05:59 PM on 05/12/2012
WE are the same as any other life form on this planet! would you tell off any other form of life, Shall be glad when this awful planet has ended!!!
08:21 PM on 05/12/2012
Other forms of life probably dont speak English.
08:12 AM on 05/13/2012
Blimey its not THAT bad is it? Maybe just had a bad day eh?