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Kenny Dalglish: The Power of Sorry

Posted: 13/02/2012 09:13

Never meet your heroes. They're all too human. I haven't met Kenny Dalglish. But I'd like to.

My parents come from the north west. I remember, as a child, being taken to Anfield. On one occasion - Boxing Day - we were in the Kop. The cavernous, all-standing terrace moved as one; a rippling wave of humanity, chanting and singing, spluttering praise and blame.

It was King Kenny's era. The time of Hansen and Hughes, of Case, McDermott and Fairclough. The Reds were dominant, winning title after title.

Then came Manchester United's resurgence in the 90s, and so Dalglish's recent return has been that of a great warrior, coming out of retirement for one last war. Over Luis Suarez, though, he nearly lost a major battle.

There's something inscrutable about Dalglish. He takes straight-talking to Clint Eastwood levels. I like that. No bullshit. There's also a dryness to his humour. That's an understatement, by the way. Dust is damper.

And so he decided what his position was on Suarez, his star striker, and stuck to it. Dalglish said the club backed the Uruguayan. Suarez was a Red, and LFC loyalty took precedence over arguing the toss.

Until the weekend, that is, and Suarez's snubbing of United defender Patrice Evra's hand. Finally there was some movement. Evra claims he was racially abused by Suarez during their earlier league clash at Anfield in October. Suarez was found guilty by the FA and banned for eight matches. Liverpool didn't appeal.

Suarez's defence was that he used the word 'Negro,' which he claimed is culturally acceptable in Uruguay. Thus he had no defence. Not a decent one anyway.

Because while banning a woman from driving a car may be culturally acceptable in Saudi Arabia, it's certainly not acceptable here. Hanging people for being gay is acceptable in Iran, but, again, anything but okay on British shores.

And nor is calling someone 'Negro.' Suarez has been living and working in Europe since 2006. He should have known better. It could, and should, have been nipped in the bud back in the autumn.

Loyalty is a fine quality, but when deployed in defence of the indefensible, it begins to look like bad judgement. Kenny Dalglish was starting to appear over the hill; a bit of an old fool; an alleged racist's stooge. The man who delighted fans as a player with his neat, lightening turns in the box, followed by a deftly taken goal, was allowing the sheen to come off Liverpool's reputation.

Who was in charge? Was Luis yanking Kenny's chain? Sir Alex Ferguson, who took great pleasure in knocking Liverpool "off their perch," beating the Reds' record number of league titles, was right when he called Suarez "a disgrace to Liverpool Football Club."

But then, yesterday, not only did Suarez apologise for not shaking Evra's hand, he also said sorry to Dalglish: "I've not only let him down, but also the Club and what it stands for and I'm sorry. I made a mistake and I regret what happened. I should have shaken Patrice Evra's hand before the game and I want to apologise for my actions."

Dalglish, who took straight-talking to the edge of rudeness in an interview with Sky's Geoff Shreeves, has said sorry too: "I did not conduct myself in a way befitting of a Liverpool manager during that interview and I'd like to apologise for that."

And so Liverpool supporters and football fans in general can breathe a huge sigh of relief. King Kenny is not a belligerent curmudgeon after all, but simply a candid speaker who arguably allowed something to get out of hand. If I met him, I'd want to know some of the stories of the seventies and eighties, what Bob Paisley was like, and whether he misses playing.

The Suarez matter can now be put to one side - even more so if, as one of the papers suggests this morning, Liverpool's American owners are thinking about moving the player on.

Never meet your heroes. They're all too human. Which is why people should meet their heroes. To realise that people are people, and that being ordinary is nothing to be ashamed of.

By apologising, King Kenny has come back down to earth, and rejoined the supporters who pay his wages. We all have to say sorry sometimes. Even sporting legends.

 
Never meet your heroes. They're all too human. I haven't met Kenny Dalglish. But I'd like to. My parents come from the north west. I remember, as a child, being taken to Anfield. On one occasion - B...
Never meet your heroes. They're all too human. I haven't met Kenny Dalglish. But I'd like to. My parents come from the north west. I remember, as a child, being taken to Anfield. On one occasion - B...
 
 
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09:13 PM on 02/13/2012
I admired KD as a superb footballer and credited him with better judgement until this affair blew up. He should have stamped his authority on this immediately it happened and accepted the 8 game ban graciously as a lesson learned for Suarez. With regard to Saturday's game, I think he was totally wrong footed in the Sky interview and tried to blag his way out (unfortunately, it's not in the nature of the bloke). He looked llike a rabbit caught in headlights and then lost the plot. Suarez is poison and for what's left of his, and the LFC, good name KD should get shot of him damned quick.
07:24 PM on 02/13/2012
Dalglish has been responsible for totally mis-managing this whole episode, thereby allowing it to escalate to a national debate, even at the highest levels. A few explanatory but strong words with Suarez in the first instance about what is acceptable and what isn't would/should have resolved the issue. Is it unreasonable therefore to assume that Mr Dalglish agreed with Suarez in the first place - as I recollect, he said he did ? As for the post match interview... words fail me, other than to question the excuse of " I didn't see it I wasn't there", and point out that anyone watching the players return to the tunnel would have seen Mr Dalglish amidst the players... so much for " I don't know what happened, I wasn't there ! " The owners of Liverpool football club must have been outraged by his behaviour, and quite right too.
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AlanDente
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04:58 PM on 02/13/2012
Kenny appears on the verge of totally losing it every time I see him interviewed! Angrily rounding on reporters for simply asking sensible questions, making bizarre assertions and making himself and the club look bad.

Let's be clear- his decision to back Suarez to the hilt in the racism affair was a titanic error of judgement, that had begun to make him look like a racism-enabler.

The blogger appears happy with how things have turned out. I, for one, think that an obviously-imposed apology is too little, too late. These sentiments needed to come the day, if not the hour, in which Suarez was found guilty. Not weeks later.
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07:29 PM on 02/13/2012
@aldente, couldnt agree more, Suarez did the crime, was found guilty, served his suspension without appeal and STILL self proclaimed "King Kenny" and the team backed him to the point of siding with his comments or as you phrased it so well a racist enabler. King Kenny is by no means erudite enough to have come up with such an apologetic statement, Standard Chartered are a world wide business and the racist support shown by LFC had the New York Times and the Boston Herald reporting it. Only 1 conclusion can be determined - the owners penned the reply and I have no doubt the refusal of King Kenny would have resulted in only 1 winner. Even the LFC fans on their own website think Suarez's position is untenable and as soon as the simemr comes he will be plying his trade in Madrid - and good riddance.