Ben Wakeling
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Ben is a freelance writer and blogger who has written a number of books on fatherhood and parenting. He has written for the Guardian, and is also a regular contributor to Parentdish. Follow Ben on Twitter: @benwakeling

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In Defence of Chivalry

(1) Comments | Posted 22 January 2013 | (21:14)

It's a good job I'm married, and therefore not planning any first dates in the near future. Because now, based on the results of a recent survey, there could be an awkward silence when it comes to paying the bill.

Whilst one day it would have been customary for the...

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The Armchair Spectator: The Brutality of the Games

(1) Comments | Posted 31 July 2012 | (23:37)

The Olympic Games can be a cruel mistress at times. For every winner, for every athlete who stands on the podium, medal around neck, listening to the roar of the crowd and the strains of their National Anthem, there are a handful of... non-winners, shall we say. Losers seems like...

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The Armchair Spectator: Dancing Horses, Flaming Arrows - and Handball

(0) Comments | Posted 29 July 2012 | (00:06)

The sun has set on the first full day of the Olympics, although at the time of writing the matches are not yet over. In fact, I have one eye on Brazil v Turkey in the volleyball, and another on Natalia Partyka's excellent form in the table tennis. If I...

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The Armchair Spectator: A Tale of Love, Loss, and Trevor Nelson

(0) Comments | Posted 28 July 2012 | (14:50)

A few weeks ago I was one of those Scroogey, miserable types who got all hunched and huffy whenever anyone mentioned the Olympics. I'd scowl and look at the floor and mutter about the cost, or the traffic, even though I don't live anywhere near the capital.

But now I...

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'I Don't Have to Prove Anything to Anybody' - Alessio Rastani

(0) Comments | Posted 30 April 2012 | (13:44)

First things first, I ask Alessio Rastani. In light of the latest economic news, and bearing in mind what you said on the BBC last year about going to bed every night dreaming of another recession, how are you feeling?

"There's a known joke amongst traders that no two economists...

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Why Politicians Are a Waste of Space

(1) Comments | Posted 25 April 2012 | (21:48)

The other day I tuned into BBC Radio Five Live to be greeted with the sounds of yelling, laughing and the occasional vain plea to calm down. I assumed it was some kind of report from a local school playground where children ran boisterously, giving one another wedgies and playing...

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No Military Intervention in Syria: The Real Reason

(0) Comments | Posted 23 March 2012 | (21:01)

Since March 2011, when the uprising in Syria first began, over 8,000 people have been killed by Bashar al-Assad's regime. Videos surface daily of injured men, women and children, targeted by snipers, blown apart by relentless shelling. Yet still the nations of the world watch, and do nothing.

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Forever Young: In Remembrance of the Belgian 22

(0) Comments | Posted 15 March 2012 | (20:54)

Every day I am terrified that something awful will happen to my children. I worry that I will receive a phone call or a visit from someone telling me that my sons are injured, or worse. It is a fear which grips me and every parent who cares for their...

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Why I'm Not Pinterested

(6) Comments | Posted 9 March 2012 | (00:00)

Sometimes, when I'm sat on my own in a darkened room, I like to imagine social networking sites as actual buildings. Allow me to explain.

Friends Reunited is like a Wild West ghost town, all banging doors and tumbleweeds, with no-one around. MySpace is similar, but it's like an old...

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Just a Face in the Crowd

(6) Comments | Posted 13 December 2011 | (00:00)

'Now I ain't gonna be just a face in the crowd, you're gonna hear my voice when I shout it out loud...'

Sound familiar? Probably. They're lyrics from It's My Life by Bon Jovi; you know, that song that has that weird gravely 'whoa-whoa' sound in it. No, I've never...

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Rebecca Leighton's Life Is Ruined. And It's All the Media's Fault

(2) Comments | Posted 9 September 2011 | (01:00)

Earlier this week Rebecca Leighton - the 27 year-old nurse charged with the deaths of up to 40 patients who had been poisoned - walked free, after the Crown Prosecution Service stated that it was 'no longer appropriate' for a prosecution to be pursued.

Free in body, perhaps, but not...

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Want a Gentle Hurricane? Move to Australia

(0) Comments | Posted 30 August 2011 | (10:00)

Much has been written about the process behind naming Hurricane Irene, who is lashing the eastern coast of the United States as I type. We are familiar with the system: Atlantic hurricanes are named on a six-year rotational system, with those attributed to particularly devastating storms - Katrina,...

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It's Time to Replace the Full Stop. Period.

(0) Comments | Posted 26 August 2011 | (00:40)

It's hard to believe the humble SMS is not yet 20 years old. Conceived in 1992, a single message which read 'Merry Christmas' began a form of communication which now sees a predicted 8 trillion text messages sent this year alone. And that's not counting the

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Qualifications Aren't Everything

(0) Comments | Posted 18 August 2011 | (11:34)

Today is the day that young, attractive girls get their A-Level results, or so the photos on tomorrow's front pages would have us believe. For many students, the days and weeks leading up to that terrible moment when you open the brown envelope with your results in has been a...

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The 'Mr Men' and 'Little Miss' of 21st Century England

(0) Comments | Posted 12 August 2011 | (00:02)

This week saw the 40th anniversary of the 'Mr Men' books, written by Roger Hargreaves and an almost default inhabitant of bookshelves for generations of children. There was Mr Tickle, firstly, in 1971; then followed Greedy, Happy, Nosey, right through to the rather depressing Mr Nobody, published in 1985 and...

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Twitter: Bridging the Gap Between Celebs and Mere Mortals

(0) Comments | Posted 11 August 2011 | (23:07)

There was a time when, in order to have a conversation with a celebrity, you had to stand outside the stage exit of a London theatre or club in the freezing cold for three hours; and, even then, there was no guarantee that you would get the dialogue you so...

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These Riots Show Social Networking at its Best - and Worst

(0) Comments | Posted 10 August 2011 | (14:09)

As I write this, buildings are burning in Manchester. Shop windows are being shattered in Birmingham. And, in the capital, stunned business owners are picking through the smouldering wreckage of their livelihoods and wondering what the future holds.

The disturbances that have been seen across England over the past few...

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