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Go Gay in the US of A!

Posted: 08/11/2012 12:50

What a gay election in the US this week!

The election was historical and important in many ways, but one of the biggest was in regard to rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people.

As has been noted in the news, Maine, Washington and Maryland voted to approve same-sex marriage, while Minnesota struck down a proposed ban on it. Now nine states out of 50 plus the District of Columbia allow same-sex marriage. President Barack Obama is the first sitting president to speak up in favour of this in the US.

Besides that, Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin was elected as the first openly gay senator.

The United States, in other words, proved this week that sexual orientation shouldn't and doesn't matter when it comes to what jobs people have, how they are viewed or treated, or what rights they have. For a country widely perceived as fairly conservative by many Europeans as well as by people in other nations, this was a hugely vital step.

It also send a message that the US is becoming a safer more accepting country for all people. Imagine being a young queer person in the US today, knowing that society is shifting, and that more and more people believe in you and want the best for you. What an amazing, uplifting feeling such a person must experience.

But clearly, things aren't perfect yet. Human Rights Campaign head Chad Griffin points out in a video how wonderful these victories are, but rightfully says there is still much to do. "We don't slow down, we double down," he says.

Indeed. What about the other 82% of the states? When will they approve equal rights for all? When will the Senate and the House of Representatives - along with other political offices, and of course other jobs in general - have a number of openly LGBT employees that reflects the percentage of LGBT people in the population?

When might we have an LGBT president?

So we have to keep working, keep fighting. But obviously it's not just LGBT people alone who are doing this: straight allies play a huge role in the fight.

Writer Dan Savage says that LGBT Americans shouldn't thank straight Americans for giving them rights, but definitely should thank them for their support and for helping them to get the rights they deserve. As he put it, "Not, 'Oh, gee, straight people, thank you so much for the civil rights.' Rights are rights. We shouldn't have to beg for them. We shouldn't have to say "thank you" when they're recognised. We shouldn't even have to ask for them. But the sad fact is that we have had to fight for our rights. And the happy fact? We didn't have to fight this one alone. We had help. Thousands of straight people stood with us and fought for us. That's what we should thank the straight people for. Not for the rights - rights are rights are rights - but the way they joined our fight."

He's absolutely correct; since LGBT people are such a small percentage of the population, they could not have implemented these changes on their own, without the help of all the straight allies. Thank you so much to all the people - LGBT and otherwise - who helped make this happen.

And let's keep going. There are still many other states to conquer, laws to put in place, attitudes and minds to change. But first let's take a moment to celebrate the gayest election we've seen in the US.

 

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00:05 on 09/11/2012
I want to thank my straight brothers and sisters for taking the oppurtunity to vote with reason and justice in mind. I don't believe in LGBT rights. No, I believe in equal rights. Thats the kind of society I want to live in. Equality for everyone. Thats not asking for special treament. Its asking to be treated like everyone else. I will defend your rights as much as you defend mine.
20:31 on 08/11/2012
I am not gay. Nor am I black, nor a female. Indeed, I am not anything other than white, male, and middle-aged. I do, however, aspire to live in a free society - and to achieve this I know that all sections of this society should be free to live how they choose within just and equitable law. That is why I support equality of rights for all citizens, because I benefit.
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06:16 on 09/11/2012
Thank you.
18:59 on 09/11/2012
So you support equal rights for peadophiles and animal molesters.
21:21 on 09/11/2012
I am typing this very slowly, as you obviously do not read (or write) too well - I said in my post, "...within just and equitable law", which would not include paedophilia and bestiality (the legal term for "animal molesting"). I would also comment that I knew how to spell paedophile without even glancing at the two or three news stories with the correct spelling to be found just to the right of our comments, and also assume that you meant to place a question mark at the end of your sentence; making it a question rather than a statement. Lastly, I would further comment that education and knowledge are the most potent weapons against bigotry... but I fear in your case that this is one lesson too far.