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Promiscuous or Shy? What We Can Learn From LGBT History Month

Posted: 08/02/2013 23:00

February is LGBT History Month here in the UK. In my opinion, this means a few things.

First of all, we can start by looking back and considering what lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people have accomplished in the past, how they have been treated, and what their circumstances have been like in different times and places.

That leads to us thinking about what has changed for LGBT people and where we are now. In some cases, we can marvel at the progress we've made, while in others, we realise how much work there is still to be done.

And that then makes us think about where we want to go in the future and what we need to do. What do LGBT people have to fight for next and how do we want to change our current situations?

So February is a great time for us to reflect, take stock, and make plans for action.

This can range across many different fields: we might think about same-sex marriage, for example, or about anti-gay laws in certain countries, or we might be more concerned with the high rates of teen suicide, or with ensuring that schools and workplaces are LGBT-friendly, or with a whole host of other topics.

What I'm thinking about during this particular LGBT History Month is how LGBT sexualities are portrayed in young adult literature. I'm frequently interested in what messages we send to young readers through literature, and I think LGBT literature in particular can be quite a problematic area in this regard.

In YA lit, for example, young gay men are quite promiscuous, and their varied sexual encounters are described in detail. Robin Reardon's books, for instance, feature hand jobs, oral sex, and phone sex, among other types, and the young men are depicted as finding the sex so pleasurable it's almost spiritual. David Levithan and Alex Sanchez likewise portray passionate, excited, highly sexual men. However, the men in these books don't always use protection, which is a worry in this era of increased knowledge about sexually transmitted diseases.

For young gay women, it's not the same story at all in regard to passionate and varied sex. In novel after novel, whether by Nancy Garden, Jane Eagland, or Lili Wilkinson, the women are scared, hesitant, and shy when it comes to physical intimacy, sometimes even avoiding it. All this might suggest to readers that gay men sleep around and don't care about the consequences, while young lesbians are frightened of and uncomfortable with sex. Is this really a message we want to pass on to the next generation, especially those who might just be coming out themselves?

As for bisexual young people, they're often described as "experimenting" and as being willing to get involved with anything that moves. In literature, they also regularly cheat on their partners. This seems to say that bisexuality isn't a real orientation and that bisexuals are so eager for sex that they don't care who they sleep with or what impact they have on these people.

Meanwhile, transgender teens in literature scarcely seem interested in relationships or sex at all, because they're generally so busy worrying about gender issues that they never appear to have anything else going on in their lives.

All of the above is just a tiny snippet of the kinds of things we might want to consider during LGBT History Month. How are LGBT people depicted in various types of media? What does that tell us about society? What messages does that send to readers/viewers? What can we do about it?

If you want to hear more about this, I'm giving a free talk that's open to the public at the University of East Anglia at 7 pm on 12 February in Arts 2.02. Come celebrate LGBT history month with us, as we look at where we are today and think about how to change things for the future.

 

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Ben Wilson
What's the story mourning Tories?
08:21 PM on 02/09/2013
Call me all the names under the sun but I believe the true interest lies in TV rather than books. The last 15 years have been an explosion in gay charecters and shows and so much of it is down to 1 person; Russel T Davies. Queer as Folk was a revolution and it wrote the book on how to do gay charecters. Almost every gay charecter in every show since (call me cynical but those written by straight people) is a play on one of his blueprints. In fact Queer as Folk pretty much caused the explosion. As far as I know no one else has tried to beat doing a rimming scene in a pilot episode. Boom! And of course it took RTD to once again show everyone remove the novelty and scandal how to normalise gay charecters while also being the first person with enough guts to put homosexuality on full show in a top rated sci-fi...Doctor Who and followed it up by creating Captain Jack, the first gay superhero, which kids up and down the country loved, and even were playing with his action figure. Interesting Jack audition to play Will in Will & Grace but they told him he wasn't gay enough, then picked a straight man.
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07:14 AM on 02/10/2013
Most definitely, things like Queer as Folk and Bob & Rose were a great way to get people to understand and to help me understand myself. RTD's writing is one of the reasons I left my backwater village and ended up in Manchester.
07:15 PM on 02/09/2013
An interesting article about the depiction of LGB&T people in the media and the messages they send to society. I would like to point out the label used most in the media, LGBT, this is probably the most subtly confusing message society gets to see and the reason I prefer to use the term LGB then add the & T.

The reason is that by grouping the four groups together and not separating the group that is basically different, society can be so easily confused especially for those trying to understand.

The LGB group identifies on a sexual preference level whereas the T group identify on a gender level, the two are quite different, that is not to say some overlap may exist for some people but the label relates to all groups.

I acknowledge that collectively great work has been done for all groups but I wonder if the T should move out from the collective label, in order to educate society on the real issues of understanding the term Transgender.

Your recognition of transgender teens hits the nail on the head:-

ā€œso busy worrying about gender issues that they never appear to have anything else going on in their livesā€

Few can understand what it feels like to never really know who you really are! The mind tells you one thing and your body shows that to be wrong; it gets worse as society confirms the only thing they can see, the body. Any wonder they worry!
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11:57 AM on 02/09/2013
Quite frankly I don't give a fig what orientation anyone is. It's their, and their partner's or partners' business and no one else's. Just as I do not care to display my own orientation in any way whatsoever and would never, for a moment, consider taking part in any form of march of pride. If I do have a phobia against anything it is other people's apparent need to shove their sexual orientation up other people's noses. I take each person I meet as a PERSON not as a sexual entity.
06:08 PM on 02/09/2013
Almost in the 21st Century, but not quite.
02:04 PM on 02/10/2013
Are you?
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Ben Wilson
What's the story mourning Tories?
08:38 PM on 02/09/2013
I understand your point, but it depends what one looks into. There was a guy in our school, who was the camp sterotype to a T, and yet it was in no way a conscious 'put-on' and he was in full denial about his sexuality untill he was 17. When I came out people used to say to me they could tolerate me because I wasn't full on, unlike him who they didn't really like and I would have to stand up for him. That was back in the days when Graham Norton started his career, and back then Norton seemed gayer than Christmas and these days while he's still the same guy, he's totally lost the camp label. What I'm saying is that sometimes it really is just who people are and what seems odd is often jsut something new to oneself that normalises with time.
02:14 PM on 02/10/2013
Away back in 1958 I had a labourer, a homosexual guy, (he was in no way gay about it though), quite miserable in fact. He was one of the most genuinely nice people I have ever met. I treated him exactly as I treat everyone - I take them as I find them. If they are reasonable human beings I treat them as such. If not I have as little as a can to do with them. I became a Union rep a few years later and I made no differentiation between male, female, skilled or unskilled, of all colours, creeds or countries of origin. I'm pushing 80 now so don't suppose I'll change now.
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01:52 AM on 02/09/2013
It is a sad state of affairs that even today, after so much has changed for the better, the attempted suicide rate amongst Trans teenagers stands at 40%. There is so much misinformation, fear and prejudice that it's surprising it's not higher.
Most mainstream journalists and bloggers don't help, the Government certainly doesn't (the 'fit to work' scheme doesn't take account of the powerful medications many trans people are taking), and the general public is still generally ill-informed.
As a straight, middle-class (at least, my parents were) white boy, I can't see why so many people have issues with the LGBT community, it tends to be full of people with touching stories and welcoming attitudes. Discrimination is wrong, and hopefully more bloggers like yourself will appear to help promote equality.