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Anti-Abortion Protesters Must Stop Punishing Women

Posted: 30/07/2012 00:00

"It is extremely cruel to persecute in this brief life those who do not think the way we do". In his Treatise on Toleration Voltaire recognises the need for us all to accept that we have different views, and our right to hold them without punishment.

I work for BPAS, an abortion provider, talking to women about their feelings around an unplanned pregnancy and supporting them as they explore their options. There are no typical women who visit us, nor are there any standard reasons why they may decide to end their pregnancy. There isn't one rule to fit all. Women decide abortion is the right choice for them for reasons as varied as they are themselves. It is an intensely personal decision, and women make peace with what they decide in the way that is best for them. Even those women who find their decision relatively straightforward will still have to undergo the physical reality of their decision. Our role at BPAS is to make this experience as dignified and humane as possible. Women deserve nothing less.

What they do not deserve are anti-abortion protesters standing outside the clinic they attend waving placards and shouting insults at them. Abort67 is an anti-abortion group - a collection of like-minded individuals who see fit to gather outside BPAS clinics and inflict their views on the women trying to access our services. They wave banners with explicit pictures of foetuses and shout at the women as they enter. They have a camera set up on a tripod, which gives the impression they are filming or photographing those entering and leaving the building. We don't know what images have been recorded and what they are used for but the end result is the women seeking our help often feeling scared and intimidated.

Abort67 are perfectly entitled to believe abortion is wrong and to make this known to the wider public. Their website claims they want to, "when the time is right... make an example of those who attack the integrity of pro-lifers they know they can't beat in honest debate." But standing outside and shouting "murderer" isn't honest debate. Honest debate would be tackling the ethics of abortion with our chief executive on the radio, or lobbying elected representatives for changes to the law. Honest debate isn't staging regular protests outside our clinics, which do nothing to prevent women from seeking a perfectly legal medical procedure - but do make it more distressing and difficult.

Those of us who work in the clinics know that this form of protest isn't about stopping abortion - because it clearly doesn't prevent women seeking it and never has. It is designed simply to cause as much distress to women as possible on what is already a difficult day in their lives. Freedoms need to be balanced. Abort67 should absolutely enjoy their freedom to voice their views - but not at the expense of the freedom of those who are trying to access care. And it's the freedoms of the latter that are being eroded.

We are a pro-choice country that overwhelmingly believes women should be able to make decisions about their own bodies, their families, the choice when to have children and how many to have. If Abort67 wants to turn the tide of opinion, they should be brave and pursue upfront public engagement and political strategies - just as those who campaigned for women's access to abortion in the first place did. Loitering at the doors and gates of abortion clinics hoping to persecute and punish pregnant women is the path only those who are "extremely cruel" would choose.

 

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"It is extremely cruel to persecute in this brief life those who do not think the way we do". In his Treatise on Toleration Voltaire recognises the need for us all to accept that we have different vie...
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16:42 on 06/08/2012
As a woman who has had an abortion - not because of rape, but because I am on medication which can and did cause contraception to fail - I stand by the choice I made, even though it was a hard one at the time, even though it still hurts, because I believe that that pregnancy was not meant to happen. I had a high chance of miscarriage (because of my previous obstetric history) and waiting for months to see if the pregnancy would be viable, or whether something else would go wrong was not something that I could have coped with. Incidentally, I was married, the child was my husband's and I am a Christian.
15:11 on 06/08/2012
I fully agree with you, Cath Sutton. I have chosen to use a Mary Stopes clinic in Dublin as my regular check-up clinic. I am incensed at the knuckleheads outside harrassing patients on the way in and out - last time, I actually reported it to the Gardai.
Comprehensive factual sex education, easy access to contraception and sexual health care - and access to unbiased and balanced advice is the best way to lower abortion figures. And abortion must remain legal and accessible for the individuals who need the choice (which is lacking in Ireland still).
12:21 on 06/08/2012
I think all this debate about people's reasons for having an abortion is irrelevant. If you want one, you should be able to have one.
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11:43 on 05/08/2012
i think the reason they attack women is because men dont have abortions.
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novelist2000
veritas non olet
07:41 on 05/08/2012
Does one really have to take over all the negative aspects from US America?

I will never understand what's it to them, gay marriage or abortion when circumstances are dire. Nobody tells them to do it. These people behave like Stalin - you must do as I tell you.

Why doesn't someone buy them a ticket to Afghanistan and India where they sell their children because they have too many mouths to feed. Just now we read of 8 to 10 year olds in Bihar, India, going for 11 Pounds.
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11:03 on 01/08/2012
Here in Scotland a few years ago I was reading a newspaper which reported on one page that Scotland needed to increase its population by approx 12000 per year for a number of reasons, and perhaps encouraging immigration was the answer. In the same newspaper on a different page it was reported that there were approx 12000 abortions per year carried out in the country. Got me thinking a wee bit !!.
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DAreisait
Democracy is discussion, dissent, and debate!
06:32 on 31/07/2012
Anti abortionists have every right to express their views and lawfully protest. A percentage of women particularly feminists believe in the divine right of abortion for women, some believe termination can be at any age of the foetus, some believe that multiple abortions on the NHS rather than using contraception is o.k. Other women, particularly feminists, believe that men should have no say in the debate and abortion as it has nothing to do with them. I can’t help wondering why these minority views are so out of kilter with the rest of the world!
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Thismortalcoil
Science is the poetry of reality
10:04 on 31/07/2012
Er, do you actually know what feminist means? It's simply a belief in the social, political, and economic equality of the sexes. Therefore most men are feminists. If you're not a feminist, perhaps you'd like to explain in what way you think women are unequal?
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novelist2000
veritas non olet
07:48 on 05/08/2012
My guess is that the women might prefer contraception, but the men might not agree. Not everybody can move out and end the relationship in the middle of the night.

Do you understand what it means for the children to grow up in fatherless families? The so called protests at abortion clinics look like harrassment to me. Go and have protest rallies, but do not harrass women in a vulnerable moment; that is torture. Protest somewhere else. The police should never issue permits for these protests and if this activity does not require a permit then the law should change.
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MelRoy
I think, therefore...here I am
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mmartini54
Roll on 2015!
00:16 on 31/07/2012
Yeah, we geddit...you're pro life. We're pro choice.
12:33 on 31/07/2012
'We?' You mean- 'you.'

Don't presume to speak for others in your arrogance.
23:05 on 30/07/2012
And yet another group shoving their beliefs down our throat, I can't differentiate between these and say Westboro Baptist Church.

Truly wish they would all go away, preferably down a cave, with no food nor water.
09:26 on 31/07/2012
I agree these groups are like terrorist they pick on soft targets like the animal rights nutters make peoples lives hell about anilmal testing but not aword about halal
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Philip J Sparrow
When your work speaks for itself, keep quiet
15:03 on 31/07/2012
Difference is that vivisectionists are causing real suffering
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rg9rts
Carpe Diem! This aint rehearsal
22:04 on 30/07/2012
While I sympathize, things could be worse, much worse. Here in the US it varies state to state, and although they can't ban abortion outright, it can be made very difficult and expensive to get one. From mandatory sonograms to vaginal probes also mandatory and at the clients expense, these restrictions are imposed by our progressive states like Tennessee, Idaho,the seats for Republican conservative thinking which champions getting government out of their lives but not your bedroom.~~(^..^)
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23:16 on 30/07/2012
Forgive me, but reading through, I think you mean, 'I sympathize but things are worse here.'
It certainly is worse in many parts of the US and I, for one, am very sorry about that. I'm sure you can count on the solidarity of all the pro-choice lobby in the UK.
Nonetheless, the fact that things are worse in the US does not mean that the situation in the UK is a bed of roses. As the article points out, this bunch of miserable, interfering busybodies is doing its level best to make a sensitive decision as difficult as possible and they are doing it for their own ends - not because they have any concern for other people.
I strongly disapprove of the way conservatives distort the truth - sometimes telling flat lies - to attack those that disagree with them.
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rg9rts
Carpe Diem! This aint rehearsal
23:51 on 30/07/2012
I didn't throw in the complete story, Do your protestors murder doctors that perform abotuions, bomb clinics or as in Mississippi have only one clinic to serve the entire state??  Harassing Planned Parenthood to the point of hijacking the Koemen Foundation(a fund raiser to find a cure for breast cancer) to stop funding and push the conservative agenda.  PP does much much more than offer abortions but offer a complete range of women's services.  Plus, we still have  the normal harrassment of people trying to get information or services.  I could go on but let me state it is a constant fight to maintain choice. ~~(^..^)
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20:46 on 30/07/2012
there are a few post by @Msgr Jerome Lloyd Osjv after checking I find that this persons church has its very own website, which even accepts donations via MasterCard and Visa though that is possible the only difference between it and the Abort67 site. .....................http://orcce.webs.com/
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20:28 on 30/07/2012
Many children are brought into this world in far from ideal circumstances, myself included. I am a happy father of 2 who has experienced much of what this world has to offer. If I had been aborted what would I have known ? answer NOTHING, would I have cared NO. Because dear reader there is nothing outside of this existence and I wont have any other mammal tell me other wise because men in frocks and pointy hats certainly don't know any more than this mammal. As I am here I respect my own mothers right to chose as I would any other woman's.
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Paul Wagland
Resistance is fertile
17:56 on 30/07/2012
Abortion is not the polar issue that these debates always seem to suggest. It depends very much on the development of the foetus and the mother's reasons for aborting.

In 2012, 77.7% of UK abortions were carried out before the foetus was 9 weeks old, and over 90% before 12 weeks. At 9 weeks the foetus is the size of a grape, and has only the most basic brain function. It's not like killing a child, it's more like killing a tadpole. I apologise if that offends anyone, but in terms of sentience and biological complexity, the latter is the fair comparison.

The idea that abortion deprives 'potential' children of a 'future' life is just silly.
18:29 on 30/07/2012
Don't see how the motives of the pregnant woman to terminate a pregnancy is relevant. Otherwise your post is excellent. I only wish the Abort67 mob were as we'll informed and rational. If an animal rights protester behaved the way Abort67 do they would be in the jail so fast their feet would not touch the ground. So why do these god botherers get away with it?
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Paul Wagland
Resistance is fertile
18:45 on 30/07/2012
Thanks. Let me try to explain about the motives part. A pregnancy caused by rape might be reason for termination, as might health risks for the mother and/or child. The more serious the health risk, the later it might be rational to terminate the pregnancy.

An early termination would be ok (in my view) for most reasons related to health, but a late one would need more serious issues to make it justifiable. I'm pretty sure that's how the system works at the moment?
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Thismortalcoil
Science is the poetry of reality
18:36 on 30/07/2012
Well said Paul, this is exactly the kind of rational, factual thinking that religious fanatics like Abort67 are trying to suppress.
17:21 on 30/07/2012
These fascist Christian groups have Conservative support. Gove among them.
They should be constrained from interference in the live of others in the way they do.

Maybe it is time to start demonstration outside churches with ''Your God is a bad work of fiction'' signs.

If the Christians are giving out, they need it right back.