Clare Macnaughton
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Clare Macnaughton started the blog A Modern Military Mother to help explain life from the other side of the British military. There are so many misconceptions about military life that she felt it was time to put the record straight. Her husband, an RAF Chinook helicopter pilot, over the next 2.5 years will be deploying on several occasions to Afghanistan. This is the story of that journey and also to some extent the marriage that has gone before.

She ghost wrote the Sunday Times bestseller, battlefield memoir, called ‘Immediate Response’, in-conjunction with a serving Royal Marine Major, which was published by Michael Joseph, in September 09. In the second week of sales entered at number 9 in The Sunday Times hardback non-fiction top 10 bestseller list.

Blog Entries by Clare Macnaughton

The Start of the Gap Life

(0) Comments | Posted 9 April 2012 | 14:58

Student across the UK are about to confront the dreaded build up to A-levels examinations. If this is your destiny the Easter holidays are something to be faced with a certain degree fear; but also eager anticipation of the beginning of the end of education as you know it.

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Hagar's Fantasy Family

(0) Comments | Posted 7 April 2012 | 23:36

It's been awhile since Hagar's been deployed on ops and as I prepare for its coming I think back to the challenges we have previously faced. The thing about the war in Afghanistan is that it is a violent, feudal battlefield, but life is ordered and structured. Hagar goes to...

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The Red Wine Mistress

(0) Comments | Posted 2 April 2012 | 21:25

When I first met Hagar and we were in the throws of young love I had a perception of what a military officer's wife was like and it wasn't me. I looked down my arrogant, young nose at those betrothed and thought I will never become one - 'no way...

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A Modern Military Mother

(0) Comments | Posted 1 April 2012 | 23:59

I began the blog called a modern military mother originally for women like myself, who are married to the military and often are raising their kids alone - married, single, celibate. For the first three years of my son's life my husband was at home for, at the most, six...

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I Am Not a Petrolhead

(0) Comments | Posted 23 January 2012 | 10:42

I am not a Petrolhead

I am not recreationally interested in cars. To me a car is a functional means of getting from A to B. Driving is a necessity to enable freedom. Having said all of this though life is simpler if you are driving a car that is...

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Elf & Safety

(0) Comments | Posted 14 December 2011 | 08:38

Living is a risky business nowadays. Especially when we live in a litigious society where everything is somebody else's fault and not our own. Even my eight-year-old son blames me for his mistakes because I had the audacity to give him life.

Hagar, the military pilot thinks the world has...

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Is Cosmetic Surgery a Feminist Issue?

(1) Comments | Posted 29 November 2011 | 12:55

I wrote a blog post, with the help of the Hospital Group, about cosmetic surgery and self esteem. The blog post was targeting both men and women who wanted a little nip tuck to boost their self esteem.

I received this comment on the blog:

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"Feminist" is a dirty word

(0) Comments | Posted 2 November 2011 | 13:05

I wrote a blog post on my blog A Modern Military Mother declaring how proud I was to be a feminist and how surprised I was to discover that two educated friends of mine didn't think that they were feminists because they didn't need to be.

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Clashing Colours

(2) Comments | Posted 23 September 2011 | 15:15

When I met my RAF pilot husband, nicknamed Hagar the Horrible for his Viking warrior status, he was a vibrant, bouncy energetic shade of yellow. I was deep shade blue as I had broken my leg and couldn't walk. He burst into my life, loudly declared "hello, dream date" and...

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The Women's Party

(0) Comments | Posted 31 August 2011 | 10:56

Today's news is that women are still earning less then men.

According to the BBC website: "It will take almost a century for UK women managers to be paid the same as their male counterparts, a study says.

Female managers are now paid an average £31,895 per year, compared with...

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A Fruity Summer

(1) Comments | Posted 23 August 2011 | 17:20

The sun and the rain have caused the fruit trees in my garden to bow. The branches are laden to the gunwhales with fruit. At the weekend we went brambling - to bramble, which is to gather brambles from the bushes - and I made a bramble and apple crumble...

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To Kill Or Not To Kill That Is The Question

(0) Comments | Posted 17 August 2011 | 22:17

As an atheist, pacifist, feminist, omnivore mother and wife of a military Chinook pilot the morality of killing is something I have pondered often. Is it wrong to kill? How do I feel about killing? As a woman who has conceived, gestated, birthed and is parenting, nurturing and protecting two...

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Eerie Silence

(0) Comments | Posted 17 August 2011 | 16:02

I don't think that our worlds could be further apart right now. Hagar is hot, dusty in the darkness of battle and I am just about keeping my head above water in the wetness of summer.

I feel like a hamster in a wheel. I am clinging onto control in...

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Blackout

(3) Comments | Posted 10 August 2011 | 10:53

"Their deaths are a reminder of the extraordinary sacrifices made by the men and women of our military and their families, including all who have served in Afghanistan," President Barack Obama said. "We will draw inspiration from their lives, and continue the work of securing our country and standing up...

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