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Why Unfaithful Women Are Relieved That They're Not in the Media

Posted: 13/11/2012 00:00

Everybody has seen some scandalous picture in a paper, on television or most probably in a gossip magazine showing Kristen Stewart's unfaithfulness to Robert Pattinson. While all twi-hards out there gladly rejoice for the few weeks that the famous pair were apart (Hallelujah!), the rest of us can see just how much attention and press that one moral mistake from one actress can gain.

Kristen allegedly had a fling with Rupert Sanders whist in the process of filming Snow White and the Huntsman, and of course a lovely paparazzo was crouching stealthily in the bushes, ready to bring this woman's world down around her, naturally. As news and photo's spread like wildfire across the media platforms, her innocent yet maybe slightly moody persona disappeared (well, maybe not all of it), and she became the icon for how not to live your life as a celebrity in a power couple relationship. But why did it gain so much attention?

She's only 22 years of age, barely allowed to drink in America, but old enough to be earning bucket loads of money. Because of her age, people now regard her as the 'naive little girl who can't be trusted', and it reportedly lost her lucrative contracts in blockbuster films, due to the scandal she caused. Also, the saying goes 'once a cheat, always a cheat', and this will stick with her throughout her acting career because of the uproar it caused, and how the aftermath was greatly recorded and followed.

Rupert Sanders was, and apparently still is, a happily married man with children. A respectable film director. The fact that Stewart not only was unfaithful to a highly sought after male celebrity, she was unfaithful with a married man, and there was a lot of press on the impact of the situation on his marriage with Liberty Ross.

There were pictures strewn around magazines and websites, showing her with her wedding ring on and off, speculation rife about what state their marriage was in. However, there was notably more coverage of Kristen Stewart, rather than Rupert Sanders, and when it did focus on him, they discussed his wife instead.

It seems that in these high profile situations, the women are focused on much more, and being condemned much more rather than the alpha male who'd probably incite the situation in many cases.

Women are scrutinized intensely in the media, because if they mess up, it challenges stereotypical gender roles in society. When Charlie Sheen had his breakdown and gave those surreal interviews including mentions of "tiger blood", he was almost seen as heroic and a figure to look up to because he was funny. Yet when Britney Spears had her breakdown and shaved her head, people felt sorry for her and deemed her probably very insecure in her life and unstable to be around.

Female actors, singers, dancers are all idolized by the public because they tend to be beautiful and successful, having the pick of the crop. Yet as soon as they mess up and do something wrong, their careers take a dive and people no longer respect them for what they do. Look at Lindsay Lohan, always in trouble in the courts and causing some controversy, which has caused her career to be virtually non existent in recent years, thriving off the attention she gets from her wrongdoings. It's a gentle reminder to people like Kristen Stewart that if you veer off onto another path, you won't be allowed to forget it for a long, long time.

 

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Everybody has seen some scandalous picture in a paper, on television or most probably in a gossip magazine showing Kristen Stewart's unfaithfulness to Robert Pattinson. While all twi-hards out there g...
Everybody has seen some scandalous picture in a paper, on television or most probably in a gossip magazine showing Kristen Stewart's unfaithfulness to Robert Pattinson. While all twi-hards out there g...
 
 
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09:48 AM on 11/13/2012
One would have thought that a top ranking military man would have been better at hiding his extra-marital manoeuvres and also that he would have had the good sense not to have an affair so close to work/home. The majority of affairs remain undetected, especially nowadays when extra-marital dating sites such as Undercover Lovers or Ashley Madison allow married people to hook up with strangers for their adulterous activities.
10:11 PM on 11/12/2012
The affair not the photographer brought her life down around her. Is it always someone else who is at fault? Does Hillary blame Bill or drudge for the affair?
09:22 AM on 11/13/2012
I think her point is that an affair should not preclude Miss Stewart from having a successful career, but that it might very well do so.
02:54 PM on 11/13/2012
She betrayed her husband and children, took a dump on her oath and showed the planet her lack of character. That should in no way influence a potential employer. Her affair put this country in danger, serious national security risks. She got what she wanted in spite of the danger it posed to all of us including her family. I wouldn't hire her no matter how compotent as she cannot be trusted. But everyone has affairs right?
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04:17 PM on 11/13/2012
Exactly, it may prevent possible directors/casting agents etc from considering her for some roles in the future
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10:07 PM on 11/12/2012
She's only 22 years of age, barely allowed to drink in America, but old enough to be earning bucket loads of money.
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Child stars make millions before they are eight.
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06:39 PM on 11/12/2012
Unless they are the Governor of South Carolina.
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07:08 PM on 11/12/2012
Which one? Mark or Haley?
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07:53 PM on 11/12/2012
Haley, since we're talking about women.  How many affairs did she have to admit to when she ran, two or three?
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08:31 PM on 11/12/2012
I'm unaware of extra-marital affairs overseas, sorry!
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08:56 PM on 11/12/2012
Two different men claimed to have had affairs with her while she was in the legislature prior to being elected governor.