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Don't be Scared: Get a Mammogram

Posted: 18/10/11 01:00 BST

For 364 days of the year I can speak and think rationally about breast cancer, and for many of those days I'm actively fundraising or trying to raise awareness about the disease.

But on day 365, I'm in a panic. For on day 365, I get my annual mammogram and, in between the procedure and waiting for the nurse to come back with the result, I get really, really scared.

In the 20 minutes or so that it takes for the doctor to study the images, my imagination takes me to dark and frightening places and I generally wind myself up into a frenzy. Everything bad flashes through my mind and invariably I end up seeing my little orphaned son crying at my funeral, his mother having lost her fight against breast cancer...

So far, thank God, this hasn't happened; I have stumbled out of the hospital five times, sobbing with relief, knowing I have a clear mammogram and another year to fight the good fight against the disease. I'm not a victim myself. Yet.

I know quite a bit about breast cancer, as I go around the world every October with Evelyn Lauder, in a double pronged fund raising and awareness raising campaign. Through our Global Illumination Programme, where we light more than 200 beautiful landmark buildings pink each year, and through our Pink Ribbon campaign-the Estee Lauder Companies have given out more than 115 million free pink ribbons - I have personally met thousands of breast cancer survivors, thousands of women going through treatment and battling the disease and many more thousands of people who have lost their loved ones. I have also spent time with many of the research scientists we fund at the Breast Cancer Research Foundation and I keenly follow their progress.

We know that one in eight women will ultimately develop breast cancer, but less people know that if a localised tumour is found early, there is a 90% chance of survival. That's why I endure the horror of the mammogram every year. Not that the mammogram itself is horrific-ignore the scaremongering stories if you have yet to have one- they're not remotely painful, only slightly uncomfortable and nowhere near as bad as stubbing your toe. No, the horror is the mental anguish of bracing yourself for bad news and what it could mean for your family. I have spoken to enough white faced teenage boys at my personal appearances, whom have just lost their mums to breast cancer, not to be scared for my boy.

My grandmother died of breast cancer. It was the dark ages, pre 1993, when no one spoke about breast cancer and the Pink Ribbon had yet to be invented. She found a lump and didn't tell anyone for a few years as she was too scared. Contrast that with a better story: a few years ago, I had four friends, all mums, all under 40 and all with breast cancer. They had found the lumps themselves, through self examination.

They are all alive today, possibly because their cancers were detected early. Early detection saves lives and it's our absolute duty to spread the word about self examination and regular mammograms. No stone should be left unturned in our quest to seek out women we know who are too scared to go down that path. Give them a stiff drink either before or after if it helps. Whatever it takes, if you care about someone, march them down to the doctors for a check up.

Right now, we are half way though our annual October activities-I have a rack of pink dresses lined up for my personal appearances and have just visited Russia, Scotland, South Africa and the UK and have NY to come this week. More on all this later. In the meantime, swig a gin and tonic and book your mammogram if it's overdue...

 

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For 364 days of the year I can speak and think rationally about breast cancer, and for many of those days I'm actively fundraising or trying to raise awareness about the disease. But on day 365, I'm...
For 364 days of the year I can speak and think rationally about breast cancer, and for many of those days I'm actively fundraising or trying to raise awareness about the disease. But on day 365, I'm...
 
 
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04:28 PM on 10/20/2011
Sorry but you are wrong! Even radiology experts say that they cannot be sure that the radiation from mammograms is not causing cancer! Women under age 40 have breast tissue too dense for accurate mammogram readings. Mammograms are potentially dangerous as well as often giving false readings. Thermography is the safe, effective option, no radiation is involved! Self-breast exams are highly effective too. Zapping sensitive breast tissue with radiation is not logical not healthy. If you do decide to get mammograms make certain to keep copies of your x-rays for future comparisons.
05:51 PM on 10/18/2011
I assume that Elizabeth is going private for her mammogram. In my area of the UK, it's once every three years and for women of over 50.
Fudgefase, get real hun. It's every once in a while, and 10 seconds of discomfort from the machine which squashes your boobs is better than having to suffer breast cancer. My mother died from it, and I can tell you, when my mammogram appointment letter comes around, wild horses wouldn't stop me from having it done. Get it done when you're asked to go for it, then if you have got anything amiss, you can get it sorted.
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05:41 PM on 10/18/2011
I had my first last year. It was painful - in spite of the technician telling me I didn't have to stand on my toes, I actually did, because I'm short. It hurt like a B****. It was worse that a smear test. I doubt I'll have another.
05:40 PM on 10/18/2011
Elizabeth. If there are no boys present give your son and heir a quick smooch, if there are, a very subtle wink, BUT, best of all, take him for afternoon tea in the Ritz, not dressed like an 18th century fop, but very comfortably for a ferocious feed as we used to say in West Cork. I filled up Ms H and it still hurts, 52 years later. We're going to London for herself's birthday and I'm taking my daughter, 13, for afternoon tea at the R. My best memory of when I was 7, 8, 10, was afternoon tea in Cork with my Mother; it was sticky buns, cream buns and lashes of strong tea. In the Ritz I will threaten my ladies that I am going to do a one-man-flash-occupy and declare slogans in Irish. Elizabeth, you write well. Give lots of winks to the s and h.
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04:52 PM on 10/18/2011
Mammograms are good if you don't have dense breasts. If you have dense breasts a mammogram will not detect a tumor or possible tumor because it cannot be seen, it's like looking through a fog. I had both ultra sounds and mammograms every year and sometimes every six months. I should have had MRI's because an MRI can see through a dense breast - the downside it sees everything and can panic you and now I hear there are other digital tests for dense breasts. I thank God for Susan Love - look up her website, she is looking for ways to prevent cancer - has an Army of Women group to further research. I believe she came out against mammograms for women under a certain age because breasts are dense and they can be useless.
12:55 PM on 10/18/2011
Agreed. Where I live it's every three years - for women over 50. So while it's all very well to tell women they should do this, most of us cannot. It's not an issue for me at the moment, as I'm in a low risk age category - but in a few years that will be a different story. I'm pregnant at the moment and am discovering that the NHS does not screen for a lot of illnesses I could be suffering from which could affect the baby - while in the US and most European countries they do.Makes it v difficult when you read all these websites/blogs on how important having certain types of health screening is, when your hands are tied!
11:52 AM on 10/18/2011
It's comforting to know others feel crippling anxiety about cancer too. Learning how to beat anxiety or reducing it must also be part of the puzzle for healthy living. Having a mammogram every year has got to be a step in the right direction. Being responsible, pro-active and not allowing a large period of time to elapse between examinations (no matter what type) and so limiting the time for growth of any cancer cells should they develop - that should bring some peace of mind. But this is easier said than done and even harder to remember.

Presumably not everyone is entitled to have a mammogram every year unless there is a family history like Liz's or you have loads of money. So self-examination could be the answer on so many levels - for lowering anxiety about this type of cancer as well as raising the stakes of survival and not costing the earth. Now to work on remembering to do it...