Helen Spencer
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My name is Helen Spencer and I am the Yorkshire, UK based, Founder of www.SaveEveryStep.com, relentless in my mission to urge mothers to capture and preserve their family memories as a legacy for their children.

I am a 44 year old mum/mom (depending on your side of the ‘pond’) and step-mum to 4 kids in total (predominantly boisterous males, ranging from 23 years old to just 4!), 2 dogs, a cat and a lizard. I recently gave up corporate life to launch my own business and spend more time shouting at my kids.

I blog about family nostalgia at http://saveeverystep.wordpress.com. Those memories we all have from our childhood which become so precious as we age, such as baking with mum, the endless summer holidays, picking blackberries and climbing trees. I am passionate about family and the preservation of our personal stories for future generations. I try my hardest to recreate those precious times with my own children for one good reason…..

I lost my own mum (Jean)to a very sudden death 5 years ago. I discovered soon after she passed away that I was pregnant with my youngest son, Ollie. It was a poignant discovery. I had been through a painful divorce and my mother would have been thrilled to see me settled and to know that a new grandchild was on the way. They never met, of course and I felt totally overwhelmed by the need to ‘save’ her memory and story in a format which would I could pass on to future generations, so that she would be more than just an unnamed face in a faded photograph collection. More importantly, it led me to think about the kind of legacy I might want to leave for my own children – a record of our times together, and preserved memories of the decades through which I have lived, of which they will have no interest …until I’m gone, that is.

My mother was the inspiration for the website www.saveeverystep.com, where families can save their memories in chronological order on a timeline, in words and pictures, and this is the reason I Blog.

I record the progress of my children through school reports, sports days, birthday parties and family trips, and compare their experiences with those of my own as I grew up in 1970s Britain. There is often a look back in time even further to the days when my parents were kids, with recollections of a wartime childhood. I have found that within a single generation we are ancient history – my father’s childhood was so far removed from that of my children that it is almost fantastical to them, and yet their grandfather is living and breathing recent history! The passage of time takes us all by surprise, and it is the sad eventuality that so many parents die talking their stories with them that I am determined to help people prevent.http://www.saveeverystep.com

Blog Entries by Helen Spencer

The Lo-Tech Times of Childhood

(0) Comments | Posted 2 May 2012 | (11:13)

This post is part of a weekly series of 'link-up' Posts which reflect on life's journey, old memories and family stories (see below for more info).

When I was growing up, I can remember that my Aunt had an awe-inspiring piece of tech equipment in her house. A...

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Joe's Letters from WWII: Ten Fillings and the Browning Machine Gun

(0) Comments | Posted 27 April 2012 | (13:58)

A bit of background
This emotional journey will revisit the stories of my Uncle Joe once again. I hope you will enjoy them, and think of your family as you read.
Joseph Henry Thompson (pictured, here) was born in June 1925 in Birmingham, England. The eldest...

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Regrettable Hairstyles of the 1980s: The Mullet

(0) Comments | Posted 24 April 2012 | (13:29)

This post is part of a weekly series of 'link-up' Posts called 'Life's a Journey' which reflect on old memories and family stories.

I noticed this week that there appears to be a new fashion skirt in town. They're calling it the Mullet, apparently, in homage to the...

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Close Up on a Classic Toy - Clackers!!

(0) Comments | Posted 29 March 2012 | (13:00)

I hope you haven't come here for mind-blowing super-macro photography this week, chaps. You may be disappointed. This is an in-depth delve into the social history of Clackers. Homage to 1971. You are most welcome.

Or, if you are from the US, Klackers.
Or, if you hail from Germany,...

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Letters Home from WWII: Posted to Bridlington!

(0) Comments | Posted 23 March 2012 | (15:33)

A bit of background

This emotional journey will revisit the stories of my Uncle Joe once again. I hope you will enjoy them, and think of your family as you read.

Joseph Henry Thompson was born in June 1925 in Birmingham, England. The eldest of four children, and brother of...

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'Blue' - Girl Guides revisited

(0) Comments | Posted 20 March 2012 | (14:37)

This post is part of a weekly series of 'link-up' Posts which reflect on life's journey, old memories and family nostalgia (see below for more info).

I noticed last week that the Girl Guide movement in the US were celebrating their 100th anniversary. Awesome. And then I remembered that I...

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Letters Home from WWII. High jinx and punishing parades

(0) Comments | Posted 16 March 2012 | (20:36)

A bit of background

This emotional journey will revisit the stories of my Uncle Joe once again. I hope you will enjoy them, and think of your family as you read.

Joseph Henry Thompson (pictured below, left) was born in June 1925 in Birmingham, England. The eldest of 4 children,...

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Letters Home from WWII, Letter 5, Jan 1944

(0) Comments | Posted 13 March 2012 | (14:17)

A bit of background

This emotional journey will take in the stories of my Uncle Joe. I hope you will enjoy reading his letters (the original versions of which can be found here), and think of your family as you read.

Joseph Henry Thompson was born in June...

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Homage to Grandparents

(0) Comments | Posted 13 March 2012 | (14:12)

"Grandmas hold our tiny hands for just a little while, but our hearts forever." ~Author Unknown

A moment this week to pay homage to those special 'extra' parents who mark our lives so deeply. Grandparents.

A Grandparent seems to be able to bridge that wide gap between the modern and...

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Life's a Journey: Week 5: Teenage Crushes

(0) Comments | Posted 7 February 2012 | (12:37)

Look, if I'm going to be totally honest with you about this, then there were more than three.

But in case anyone I actually knew in 1978 is tuning in (unlikely, since no one who knows me would imagine there to be any items of remote interest in my past...

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Letters Home for WWII, Letter 1 - 29 December 1943

(0) Comments | Posted 2 February 2012 | (14:28)

Joseph Henry Thompson was born in June 1925. He was my Uncle, though I never knew him. The eldest of four children, and brother of my father (dad being the youngest).

He was born in Birmingham, England's second largest city, in a relatively poor neighbourhood. His father had died in...

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Life's a Journey - Week 2: The Old School Portrait

(0) Comments | Posted 19 January 2012 | (11:04)

From last week's My Earliest Baby Photo, this week we're taking a step forward a few years to those heady school days...

1974. Another miserably disappointing year for the eagerly awaited school portrait.

I was seven years old in the photo here, and my brother nine....

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Life's a Journey - Week 1: My Earliest Baby Photo

(0) Comments | Posted 19 January 2012 | (10:59)

It's a new year, so time, thought I, to start a more regular series of posts to this family stories blog.

As you know by now, my obsession is the preservation of our family stories and memories for future generations. Our children are unlikely to ever ask us about our...

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A Tatty Old Box Full of Memories

(0) Comments | Posted 19 January 2012 | (10:55)

Yesterday I began the traditional New Year clear-out. You know, the one where you use stealth to remove the toys and games which graced previous Christmas stockings but are no longer deemed fit for play, then take them under cover of darkness to the charity shop?

Anyway, as I rifled...

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Unfortunate Family Incidents - The Doggy vs Dolly 'Face-Off'

(0) Comments | Posted 19 January 2012 | (10:54)

Let's go back to 1971 momentarily.

I am an average 4 year old British girl, lover of all things pink, dolly-fashion-guru, and slightly shy, but since today is Christmas I am the happiest girl in the world.

My main Christmas 'box' is a corker - Barbara the doll, all magnificent...

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Don't Forget to Remember Your Mother

(0) Comments | Posted 1 December 2011 | (12:17)

It's both a cliche and a major regret to me, but I most certainly took my mother for granted.

Today, my two sons are off school (teachers on strike - less said the better), quietly watching TV and taking me for granted, whilst I make them lunch and bustle around...

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School? Fun? NOT When I Was a Kid, Miss

(0) Comments | Posted 21 November 2011 | (10:48)

It is 11.11.11. (By the way, did you know that in America they write it 11.11.11 - weird huh?) An event which only comes along about every 700 years or something, so it would be a crime not to mark it in some way.

Picture the scene. Remembrance services are...

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Childhood's Simple Pleasures

(0) Comments | Posted 16 November 2011 | (23:00)

Recently, my small, wise 4 year old child achieved a milestone. He got a new scooter and he learned the art of balance. It was a little tiny jump into the deep end of life's oceanic swimming pool. Not a life-changing moment, granted, but I captured it nonetheless on my...

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Small Boys + Big Sticks + Bonfire = Happiness

(0) Comments | Posted 9 November 2011 | (10:23)

Bonfire Night.

Well, I had one too many vinos for starters, and a punishing pain to my left temple on Sunday morning told me I'm too old for all this malarkey. The kids' clothes were abandoned on the floor and the smell of smoke was rising from them.

For those...

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Spookin' in Suburbia

(0) Comments | Posted 2 November 2011 | (15:43)

When I was a little girl, growing up in 1970s UK, there was no such thing as a Halloween holiday. Halloween was just one of those days that came and went, signified only by the annual TV airing of it's eponymous movie (which incidentally I still cannot watch today, having...

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