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Balls, Body, Bodyart - Beckham Has a Defining Quality Beyond All That...

Posted: 24/05/2012 01:00

Days after Beckham's ambassadorial arrival on British soil from Greece with the Olympic flame he announced that he felt his future was less likely to be in management but in coaching children. That the Olympics should be held in the East End where he was born, and grew up, marks a defining moment in not just the life of the nation but also provides an extraordinary metaphor for his life as well.

Like the phoenix rising out of the ashes, time and time again Beckham has proved he has the capacity to bounce back from difficulties, criticism and scandal without bitterness but with genuine good grace. It is little surprise that, by the tattooed angel on his right shoulder, the text should read "in the face of adversity." And it is imparting this attitude, as much as the football skill, which can be a force for good especially if, as he has suggested, he may devote his time to developing young players.

Throughout his extraordinary career Beckham has been the victim of national hate campaigns not least for being the only player to be sent off twice in a World Cup Campaign; he's been engulfed in scandal with speculation about his private life and, as with all those who live under the spotlight, he's rich fodder for public taunts. But his dedication and tenacity has never been called into question even when, in 2010 and due to injury, he remained a bolstering bystander on the sideline for what would have been his last World Cup.

Forget the goals from the screaming free kicks, the blasting penalities and the swerving corners, forget the gilded lifestyle, and the bodywear adverts, the sarong, haircuts and aftershaves, it is the fundamental core of his character that remains impressive. When goalkeeper Rob Green blundered during the World Cup in South Africa it was no surprise that FIFA commentator, John Helm, said "they'd probably let David Beckham speak to him at half time." Helm later told me that he said that because "other players regard Beckham as an inspirational figure, someone they can trust and even those that don't consider him to be a great player acknowledge his influence and power to motivate, especially in adversity." That quality is, in part, innate but has also been nurtured as a by-product of his dedication to his craft.

When, in the previous World Cup in Germany Beckham resigned as captain and was dropped from the England squad he accepted the decision without rancour. With 94 caps under his belt and in an emotional speech he committed himself to doing all that he could to serve his country again and reach the coveted 100 caps. He did. Now with 115 caps he is the most capped outfield England player in history. And throughout, he has never forgotten where he came from or those who coached and supported him.

It is these role models that The Children's University welcomes. Formed five years ago the charity aims to promote social mobility by providing high quality, exciting and innovative learning activities and experiences outside normal school hours for children and engaging the wider communities as learning partners in the realisation of this. It aims particularly to reach out to children and young people, like those in the East End, who are facing socio-economic and educational disadvantage through the targeting of grants to, and the promotion of, activities in areas of deprivation.

It would be a shame if Beckham is denied the opportunity to lead his country as Captain of the Great Britain team in the Olympic Games for, in the spirit of an event of this calibre, and in his birthplace, a powerful message is relayed - one that carries way beyond the pitch - and that is to have faith in yourself and your ability and that it's not what happens to you but your attitude to it that matters.

If Beckham were to be awarded this honour then it would be a fitting culmination to a formidable footballing career. It would demonstrate that it's not always the winning - but the taking part - and, fundamentally, the hard work and dedication that, with a little help from some friends, can change your life.

Hilary Robinson is a Patron of The Children's University.

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Days after Beckham's ambassadorial arrival on British soil from Greece with the Olympic flame he announced that he felt his future was less likely to be in management but in coaching children. That th...
Days after Beckham's ambassadorial arrival on British soil from Greece with the Olympic flame he announced that he felt his future was less likely to be in management but in coaching children. That th...
 
 
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04:51 PM on 05/28/2012
I remeber when the Bechams showed up in LA. thought they were a listers in the celbrtiy capital of the world. Also soccer not so big in US. He should feed hsi wife
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vividrick
I came, I saw...I had a cup of tea!
03:39 PM on 05/28/2012
Bah! Take your rose-tinted specs off!

It's all 'style over substance', in the last few years the only clubs tinkering on the idea of signing him was for shirt sales. I'm glad we'll all be clear from this hype & hullabaloo soon.
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Who let the Libertarians out without supervision?
09:25 PM on 05/28/2012
Most of his career has been hype and the spectacular promotion by VB.A perfect example of whats wrong with society when someone who kicks a ball well is worth a thousand times a nurse or doctor bah humbug hehehehehe
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I came, I saw...I had a cup of tea!
02:29 AM on 05/29/2012
Off course! During the treble-winning season he was great I'll admit. But after I was tired of him being on the front pages instead of back, all the glamour of the red carpet coz of his wife, who was only at best a less than average singer. My English idols are the Bobby Moore's, our best player ever in Bobby Charlton, 'Banks Of England' Gordon, 'Captain Marvel' Bryan Robson.

A good player at best, he had potential to be the best winger in the World with his pin-point crossing, till someone ill advised him to play in the middle. In the footballing pantheon, he'd never grace as much as Zidane, Baggio, Messi, Ronaldo, Van Basten, Eusébio, Best or Pele. Okay, a tough list, but a reality check all the same!
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10:46 PM on 05/24/2012
Great article Hilary. More than any other figure in the public eye, this man is a worthy role model. I think his life is just a high profile reflection of what we all go through. Make mistakes, act foolishly as a youngster, mature, learn what you can do best to make a difference in the world, then do it with pride and grace. I have to say he's not an ideal captain for me but the sheer presence of the man and the rather sentimental but no less powerful draw for us all to support what would be a fairytale ending and give him the armband. Can't say enough good about the guy - people will knock him almost understandably but if my son had to look up to anyone's example, he'd do for me.
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Hilary Robinson
09:27 AM on 05/25/2012
Thanks Kevin - and that's a great point about maturity and reparations for the digressions of youth. H
04:20 PM on 05/24/2012
No doubt that Beckham is deserving of captaining the GB team. A great way to finish a terrific playing career. I remember how he took England single-handedly to the world cup finals against Greece in 2001. Older, more experienced players watched in awe as he lifted the whole team and ran himself into the ground for them - and for us.
Character and will to win is something you are born with and cannot be learned. Beckham has both these qualities in abundance. Good luck to him.
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10:48 PM on 05/24/2012
Agree strongly - the single most influential performance by one player in any game I've seen. He lifted a nation on is shoulders that day, and it was about will. Incredible.
02:05 PM on 05/24/2012
Why does this idiot get so much praise and publicity. Isnt it a shame that the guys who clear old landmines around the world or people who travel the globe vaccinating children dont get this sort of publicity.
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03:39 PM on 05/24/2012
- fair point but this feature is based on the hope that he may use the fame that' been generated by the publicity to help under privileged children in the future - not only with football skills but in their hopes and aspirations too. We'd like to see more high profile figures devote their time in this way.
10:55 PM on 06/01/2012
He is promoting himself first and foremost and the rest comes second.
Private family life is made public to the media,for exposure.
08:43 PM on 05/24/2012
I think its such a shame he has become a high profile figure for kicking a ball. We support and glorify all the wrong people in the UK!