Valentines Day is fast approaching. If you're single this may fill you with dread as you contemplate yet another year watching couples celebrating together wondering when your true love will come along.
But success in attracting true love can only happen from a place of joy and happiness within your self.
So what can you do to keep your joy flowing and your attractor power high?
Here are 5 top things that work from the inside out to attract your 2014 Valentine - and make him your very own Valentine for the rest of time!
1. Stop wishing - be on a mission!
Are you dreaming, hoping, wishing and longing for love?
You can go for years wishing and dreaming. Like most of us, you were probably brought up to believe in fairytales - that one day (if you wait long enough) your prince will come and you will live happily ever after!
Perhaps you think that you're at the mercy of love coming your way - maybe it will, maybe it won't. Or maybe you think that only lucky people have love.
The good news is that none of this is true. You can have love. You have the power to attract your Valentine.
So instead of passively waiting for love, decide to become your very best YOU and be on a mission to magnetize the love of your life now!
2. Love yourself up
At this time of year the loneliness can feel crushing and old negative thoughts such as "Everyone gets love except me" or "I'm not good enough" can set in.
But these beliefs actually run your love life. So if you are walking around thinking you're not good enough or are not lovable, then you will probably meet men who don't think you are either.
A confident, radiant woman who knows her worth is incredibly attractive to a man.
Start to catch those negative voices and begin telling your self what you would like your Valentine to tell you; that you're beautiful, lovable and so worthy of love.
3. Stop "doing" and start "being"
Our society teaches us to depend on external factors for love. In other words if only you were slimmer, younger, fitter, had more money, had better hair and teeth or joined the next dating site then maybe just maybe you would "get" love.
But love has less to do with what you're doing and everything to do with the person you are being. When you stop focusing on finding the right person and instead focus on being the right person, magically the right person comes along.
So concentrate on becoming the most delicious version of yourself you can be and you'll attract a man who finds you totally irresistible.
4. Be around supportive, uplifting people
When you're on a mission to become your best you to attract love, it's vital to surround yourself with positive people who uplift you and make you feel good.
Limit the time you spend with unsupportive people. Make sure you don't engage in negative conversations for example: how men are all the same or love is impossible. These just keep you going in a downward spiral.
Tell friends you trust about your mission and ask for their support.
Get clear on the type of man you are looking for and what you need in a relationship. Then tell your friends that you're open to meeting anyone they know who may be a good match.
5. Put out your love-signal!
So now that you've focused on the inner you, it's time to put out your love signal!
One way you can do this is to write an irresistible online dating profile - one that eliminates the kinds of men you don't want and only attracts the best matches for you.
You want your profile to state clearly and confidently who you are, what you need and what you're looking for, while also being receptive, open, engaging and welcoming to another person.
Here are some tips:
• Write about your life-values and your life-vision
Shared life-values and life-vision are essential for lasting love so get clear on yours now.
• Use sensory language
Describe how it feels to do the things you love and enjoy to give the reader an experience of you.
• Ask a friend to write about their experience of being your friend
Then use some of these elements in your profile. This gives the reader an insight into what it's like to be in relationship with you.
• Know the top 3 things you must have for it to work
Get clear on the things you MUST have.
• Be honest!
Don't lie about your age or use false photos! If you want children, state it clearly. If you don't, state it clearly.
• Your Photos
Use photos that convey warmth, confidence and radiance.
Follow these top 5 things now and draw towards you your 2014 Valentine - like a magnet.