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Gay Marriage is Retoxifying Not Detoxifying the Conservative Party

Posted: 11/12/2012 23:00

David Cameron's backing of gay marriage was meant to be an easy way to cement the detoxification of the Tory brand. However the most striking memory of debate is more likely to be a Tory MP claiming that he couldn't possibly be a bigot because he once punched a gay man in the face.

Culture secretary Maria Miller's encounter with Tory MPs on Monday and Tuesday saw Conservatives line up not only to attack the plan, but compare gay marriage to polygamy and dismiss it as not "normal". One suggested that straight couples would be more likely to have babies out of wedlock if gay people were allowed to tie the knot - because, presumably, the very institution of marriage would then have gay germs on it.

Same-sex marriage was described by one Conservative as "a constitutional outrage and a disgrace", another was "deeply offended", his colleague said plans for equal marriage smacked of "arrogance and intolerance" and another was concerned "this country will be passing a law that is directly contrary to what Jesus said".

Over half the Tory parliamentary party is expected to vote in favour of gay marriage. However their support, from the begrudging to the sincerely enthusiastic, is drowned out by the large number of their colleagues who will vote noisily against.

David Davies, the MP who inexplicably submitted a video of him boxing a gay guy as evidence of his lack of bigotry, was trying to undo damage done by insisting that most parents would not want their children to be gay. And Conservative Bob Blackman called for the re-introduction of the anti-gay Section 28 law.

Cameron is right to introduce gay marriage. It is the correct thing to do and he should be applauded. And helpfully, according to Ipsos-MORI, 73% of the public also supports it.

The passage of gay marriage legislation was designed to show how the Tory party had changed. Instead it looks more likely it will demonstrate how in large part, it has not. Perversely, and frustratingly for the prime minister, rather than detoxifying the Tory brand, triggering a debate about gay marriage has retoxified it.

The Bill due to be introduced in January should have no trouble passing the Commons given the support of Ed Miliband and Nick Clegg. However over 100 Tory MPs plan to vote against the Bill. The prime minister will not be able to argue he has detoxified his party if he is only able to introduce gay marriage thanks to the votes of Labour and Lib Dem MPs.

In just over two hours of Commons discussion on the issue, backbench Conservatives have generated multiple 'anti-gay Tory' headlines. When the Bill is introduced there will be many more hours of debate, generating countless more toxic headlines. And when the voters look at the record of the Tories, Labour and the Lib Dems on gay rights, they won't side with the one whose leader let his MPs repeatedly [metaphorically] punch gay guys in the face to prove he wasn't homophobic.

 

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Daniel Francis
It just ain't right........
06:08 AM on 12/16/2012
But it will make Dave Cameron look better which may be what Conservatives need to hold parliament.
05:50 PM on 12/14/2012
When did Jesus say anything about gay marriage?
12:26 PM on 12/13/2012
I am shocked that our MPs will vote for gay marriage whilst the Equality Act 2010 is still in place. The combination of official gay marriage and the Equality Act will mean that anyone who expresses disagreement with using the word "marriage" to cover gay unions will be punished by law. Yes, punished, their employer fined and their job taken away.

The clauses in the Equality Act that relate to what people say and the opinions they express must be removed before marriage laws are changed. These clauses are removing freedom of speech and without freedom of speech we will have no "rights" in a few decades.

The speech and opinion parts of the Equality Act are already dealt with by harassment legislation, all that is required is for magistrates and judges to implement it. We cannot simply allow extrajudicial tribunals to impose massive fines on employers and sanction dismissals for employees who exercise free speech.
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Daniel Francis
It just ain't right........
06:10 AM on 12/16/2012
Would it be OK if an employer were to suggest that Catholic or Hindu or Islamic marriages were not marriages? What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
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Mneme
The truth shall make ye fret.
01:00 AM on 12/13/2012
From a purely political standpoint, opposing same sex marriage in the way certain Tories have is a pretty misguided tactic. Yes I'm sure that intentionally incendiary comments have certain sections of the population viewing them more favourably right at this moment, but in the long term it will probably result in less votes, not more, purely because of the demographic that kind of silliness appeals to; the elderly, who are unlikely to be casting votes for much longer, and people who only remember they hate gays when they see something in the news, then quickly forget it. Meanwhile they've possibly alienated a great deal of the younger population.
07:00 AM on 12/13/2012
Oh yes? Is that why 'gay' is now, as used by almost all the young people I know, a term of abuse? I hear all sorts of demands for 'evidence' but I'm not deaf enough to ignore the obvious and my social circle is not exclusively the 'gay' community.
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Mneme
The truth shall make ye fret.
09:34 AM on 12/13/2012
Yeah I really don't like the prevalence of that word as a slur/derogatory term either, it does rather seem to have caught on. However it's usage by a person does not neccessarily indicate homophobic attitudes, just thoughtlessness. Polling statistics clearly indicate a generational shift in attitude towards homosexuality.
02:36 PM on 12/13/2012
I dont have a problem with same sex marriage but I do have a problem with the Equality Act 2010. I wish the Tories and Church would focus on the important issue which is that the Equality Act is compelling people to use/not use certain words and to hide their true beliefs.

At present anyone can say they oppose same sex marriage but once it becomes a legal equivalent of marriage those people will commit an offence under the Equality Act. At the moment some people are on the wrong side of a debate and the next they are criminals.

Surely the young people you mention cannot favour such authoritarianism?
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Mneme
The truth shall make ye fret.
05:27 PM on 12/13/2012
As far as I know, the primary purpose of the Equality Act is to protect citizens from discrimination in employment and public services. I am not aware of any legislation, proposed or existant which criminalizes individuals for expressing distaste/opposition to same sex marriage if the content is not intentionally abusive, denigrating or intended to incite violence (this is covered by hate speech laws.) See the recent case where the courts upheld a housing association employee's right to publicly express a negative attitude towards gay marriage.
If you can reference anything to illustrate your point though, I'd be interested to see it.
11:10 AM on 12/16/2012
I don't think that's right - the Equality Act 2010 didn't introduce any provisions relating to "hate speech". The Criminal Justice and Immigration Act 2008 had already extended those protections to people based on their sexual orientation. (Note - *anyone*, not lesbians and gays.)

But if I want to tell someone who's remarried after divorce that they're a bigamist, there's nothing to stop me doing that; it just wouldn't be correct under the law of England and Wales. The same would be true after the introduction of equal marriage - Catholics, Moslems, Jo Bloggs will all be able to say that a gay couple's marriage lacks *real* validity (where Catholics, Moslems, or Jo Bloggs are, of course, the arbiters of what constitutes *reality*); but for the purposes of the law, that will have as much effect as saying that the Moon is made of green cheese.

It will be possible to oppose equal marriage - in the same way as it is possible to moan about many other things - but that doesn't mean that society will accept that complaint. If you burst into a registry office or other venue where a marriage is taking place and shout out that it is a perversion, however, you're likely to find yourself dealing with officers of the law, as you would if you did the same when a marriage involving a divorcee was taking place.
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Ben Wilson
What's the story mourning Tories?
10:36 PM on 12/12/2012
I doubt that Cameron was unprepared for the more than predictable responsible the more traditional element of the party has voiced, and I'm sure all his opponants respect that he had to let Clegg get his way on something, and its better he win on a social issue than an economic one. I'm not sure any of this is a bad thing for the Tories, it appears to be a stroke of genius of behalf of Cameron. The old guard does not win elections, and Cameron is demonstrating to his dissenters and critics who is in charge while looking like a model progressive who is one step ahead of his liberal critics, taking peoples minds of their their pretty right-wing economic policies.
02:39 PM on 12/13/2012
See my comment in response to Mneme. How can you discuss this issue in terms of spats between kids in the school playground when it is demonstrating a terminal hole in our democracy?
09:49 PM on 12/12/2012
The Leveson shambles, the Gay Marriage shambles, the Economy shambles, the NofTW Sleaze shambles. A spineless Prime Minister with a bovver boy press secretary. The Conservative Party is a toxic brand and has been for many people since the 1980's. But they'll get in again in 2015, (especially if the Scots say bye-bye) because there is 20% of the population who will always vote for the Conservative Party, because good, bad or indifferent, they are conservative, have always been conservative and will always be conservative.

I know because I have relatives who think like this.
05:23 PM on 12/12/2012
So gay marriage is being introduced to better the prospects of the Conservative party in the next election?
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06:31 PM on 12/12/2012
Can't see who's post you're replying too.
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04:09 PM on 12/12/2012
The title of this piece, (Gay Marriage is Retoxifying Not Detoxifying the Conservative Party), speaks volumes for the pretentiousness and emptiness of much of the thinking that seems to go on within politics.

I don't have an issue with gay marriage. As long as individual churches aren't subject to legal attacks, or the usual set-ups by people determined to be outraged.

My problem with the current gay marriage debate is, you'd think it was an important issue instead of the dinner party froth that it really is. Cameron and other senior politicians with their fixation on it give the impression that it's an issue on a par with our country's financial problems.
05:56 PM on 12/12/2012
So you think the issue of gay marriage is unimportant, do you? I actually think it's very important - it's about fairness, justice, and concern for the wellbeing of our fellow citizens who pay the same amount of tax as you do! In fact, gay people also vote as well as consume goods and services. This has nothing to do with this country's economic difficulties as well you know!
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06:26 PM on 12/12/2012
Read my second paragraph.
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Justinjuice
03:05 PM on 12/12/2012
Why should the opposition of some Toires to 'Gay marriage' be regarded as toxifying the Tory party ?
This is what so frustrates so many ordinary people that they are vilified, slandered and hounded for having perfectly valid views !!!!
What a load of hypocrisy.
05:56 PM on 12/12/2012
Valid? Or bigoted?
10:11 AM on 12/14/2012
We must have free speech. There are no rights without free speech. Labelling those with differing opinions as bigots who should be punished for their evil opinions is terminal for a democracy.
11:34 PM on 12/12/2012
Except they aren't valid. They have no rational justification whatsoever.
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Justinjuice
11:59 PM on 12/12/2012
apply rational to LGBT and hwt do you get ?
02:05 PM on 12/12/2012
And DAH! lots of couples have children out of wedlock not to mention the high number of single mothers!
11:30 AM on 12/12/2012
Like too many MPs, David Davies is none too bright, but your first paragraph, by rephrasing and twisting what he actually said, shows you to be totally dishonest. Therefore nothing you write is worthy of consideration, even if you're right. Such dishonesty sabotages your own cause.
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10:26 AM on 12/12/2012
Those MP's who voted in favour of Civil partneships for Gay couples to prove they weren't homophobic, should now vote against Gay marriage in church to show they are not anti-Christian.
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StoicFnord
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10:35 AM on 12/12/2012
Im not Christian, So why do you get to decide stuff for me just because im not?

Equal marriage is not anti christian.
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Ian Rennie
It irritates people that I'm a librarian :)
11:27 AM on 12/12/2012
I'm confused. How is supporting gay marriage anti-christian?
12:01 PM on 12/12/2012
Confuses me too. In the same way that opposing it homophobic.
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Justinjuice
03:06 PM on 12/12/2012
Stop being so innocent - you know perfectly well why.
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10:02 AM on 12/12/2012
The Conservative Party is a broad church, and its MPs are not a collection of slaves with no other function than to do their masters' bidding.

Rather than complaining, you should be applauding the PM for allowing a free vote on the subject.

From the statistics that you quote, it is clear that not everybody in the UK is supportive of Gay Marriage, and so it should be expected that not every one of our representatives should be toeing the party line.
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StoicFnord
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10:37 AM on 12/12/2012
When 100 MP's vote against with little but the dogwhitle reasons that come across as "Down with the Gays" it wont look good.

That is not to say that I don't think what Cameron is doing is wrong. I think the stand he is taking is deeply ethical and should be applauded. It wont change my mind about him, but it will be the one thing I will speak well of him for, at least.
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Justinjuice
03:08 PM on 12/12/2012
There are clear and logical reasons why there shoul be different ceremnonies to refelct the fact that hetrosexual union sare bot unique and the very reason why mankind exists.
If diversity is to be valued and respected, then this very fundamentalk difference must be recognised and respected.