Behaviour

When You Don't Deal With Anger...

Gemma Bailey | Posted 05.12.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Gemma Bailey

I have to say, I do not know how technically true it is (though it makes a great deal of sense if it were true) that toddlers who do not have their tempers attended to appropriately end up having temper tantrums as teenagers, and if they still do not have those tantrums addressed as teenagers...

Disappointment; The Importance Of Its 'Sting'

Clare Smith | Posted 16.11.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Clare Smith

I think back to the times that I've really felt aggrieved. It was usually because it was from the people that I least expected it from. I didn't see it coming. I think the biggest disappointments always come from those that you know

Who Should Discipline Your Child?

Jaki Jelley | Posted 31.10.2016 | UK Parents
Jaki Jelley

I'm talking about every day. When you are with your child. Whether you're out and about. In a soft play area. A playground. A restaurant. A friend's house. Do the people you are with, or around, have the right to speak to them in a way, that should be reserved for the parent?

Are You Scared To Go Outside Your Comfort Zone?

Karen Pine | Posted 19.10.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Karen Pine

It's so easy to stay settled in our comfort zone waiting for 'someone' to come along and tell us it's OK to leave. Only we can give ourselves that permission. We can quieten that voice in our heads that says "you're not allowed to do that' and shout back: "Actually I am!"

How To Manage Your Kid's Back To School Behaviour

The Huffington Post | Amy Packham | Posted 07.09.2016 | UK Parents

After six weeks of lie ins, trips away and no school work, it’s no wonder some children find it hard to get into the back-to-school routine. The ret...

8 Things Children Think They Get Away With And Parents Don't Notice

The Huffington Post | Sophie Gallagher | Posted 10.08.2016 | UK Parents

All children think they can outwit their parents, forgetting that we once were also kids (albeit a long time ago) and know all their tricks. You real...

How To Get Your Children To Talk About Their Day

Written by Mary Common | Phillip Othen | Posted 15.06.2016 | UK Parents

Your chatty children leave for school in the morning and seven hours later they've morphed into monosyllabic-grunt buckets muttering, "Dunno... Can't ...

Boys Don't Cry?

Nick Harding | Posted 30.03.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Nick Harding

I've not been privy to my own father's tears. I've seen him get worked into advance states of exuberance and dejection at West Ham football matches but I've never seen him have a proper sob. I'm not sure I'd want to. The awkwardness would hang in the air and embarrass us both.

Three Reasons Why Feelings Matter in Business

Lucy Griffin-Stiff | Posted 07.03.2016 | UK
Lucy Griffin-Stiff

Simple really, people have feelings. Customers, employees, and pets, all have feelings. We care about feelings The customer experience and employee...

Why Is My Dog Refusing Food?

Kristina Johansen | Posted 16.02.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Kristina Johansen

It can be distressing when our dog stops eating and continually refuses their food. Before long we start to panic and try and tempt them with goodies from our own plate. Whilst understandable it's probably not going to help and may actually end up making matters worse.

All Branches Lead to Darwin

Philippa Brakes | Posted 13.02.2016 | UK Tech
Philippa Brakes

He knew that behaviour was an important player in the evolutionary game. He was also aware that not all behaviours were inherited and some appeared to be acquired (learnt from each other) and he noted that some behaviour may be beneficial to the group rather than the individual.

Mum's Law

Bernadette Ballantyne | Posted 04.02.2016 | UK Parents
Bernadette Ballantyne

So says Murphy's Law, which got me thinking that there is definitely a version of this for Mums.

Smacking Children 'Affects Their Mental Health'

The Huffington Post UK | Amy Packham | Posted 26.01.2016 | UK Parents

Parents using smacking as a form of discipline could be affecting their child's mental health, a psychiatrist has claimed. Dr Ronald W. Pies, prof...

Growing Disquiet Among Scottish Teachers About Pupil Discipline

Chris Keates | Posted 18.01.2016 | UK
Chris Keates

Maintaining high standards of education and closing the attainment gap are key concerns for schools, parents, the public and politicians.

Is it Time to Stop Using Santa to Discipline Our Children?

Madeleine Thompson | Posted 18.12.2015 | UK Parents
Madeleine Thompson

The parent used the threat of Santa in an almost chilling way. This parent went on to tell her child that she was going to report him to Santa and Santa would not be coming, under any circumstances. Her tone was serious, her face scary, and her manner was intimidating even to me.

The Stress-Free Way to Discipline Your Kids!

Kerry Gibb | Posted 26.10.2016 | UK Parents
Kerry Gibb

This morning I woke up well and truly sick of constantly thinking up punishments for my kids when they misbehave. The more that I thought about it, the more I realized that the naughty acts are generally towards each other.

Don't Pick Your Battles

Melissa Hood | Posted 11.09.2016 | UK Parents
Melissa Hood

We need to make sure we avoid the terminology of battles even in our own minds because language shapes our experience and the more we talk or even think about battling with our kids the more that will happen. That's how our brains work.

No One Wants to Be Normal: So Why Are We Awkward Around Those Who Are Different?

Josie Scantlebury | Posted 06.08.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Josie Scantlebury

My biggest fear is that as much as we fight, and we all do fight, it can feel like a losing battle for so many people with a learning disability. But I hope that the positive stories of disability manage to get heard more than the negative ones. We need it so badly.

Your Baby's Gaze Can Reveal What They'll Be Like As Adults

The Huffington Post UK | Amy Packham | Posted 01.07.2015 | UK Parents

The length of your baby's gaze could give you a clue as to whether they will suffer behavioural problems when they grow up, a new study has revealed. ...

Is Your Toddler Shy? This Could Be Why...

The Huffington Post UK | Amy Packham | Posted 28.05.2015 | UK Parents

If your child is shy and introverted, new research has revealed it could be because of the bacteria in their gut. Researchers at Ohio State Univers...

Why Women Don't Always Want a Fix

Sophie Deal | Posted 01.05.2016 | UK Lifestyle
Sophie Deal

Stick two people together who have different inclinations along this vast and complicated scale and tensions will naturally arise. Person A can become frustrated with what they may perceive to be a Person B's impulsive behavior. Likewise, B may see the A as cold, unsympathetic or difficult to excite.

Poor Basic Fitness Amongst School Children Highlights Wider Concern

Charlie Rigby | Posted 23.06.2015 | UK
Charlie Rigby

New research has found that two-thirds of primary school children aren't reaching basic fitness levels for their age group - an awful statistic. Child obesity rates are soaring as a result and this can easily be linked to the decline of sport and exercise. With the emphasis on creating a generation of test-passers and box-tickers, exercise and sport are being neglected in schools.

Having a Laugh in Advertising

Kyle O'Brien | Posted 24.05.2015 | UK
Kyle O'Brien

Deconstructing humour isn't funny. Certainly, no joke was ever made funnier by explaining it. "Let me tell you why that's funny," might even be a prelude to getting punched in the kisser at a pub.

Compassion and Kindness

Charlotte Ballantyne | Posted 30.01.2015 | UK Universities & Education
Charlotte Ballantyne

Compassion is a funny thing isn't it? Human emotions are complicated and difficult to understand; sometimes we can barely understand ourselves, let alone others. Motivations and reasons behind our actions and behaviours and responses can intersect, and finding the true root of a problem can seem impossible at times. Often, it isn't the answer we expect.

How to Break Bad Habits

Maggie Currie | Posted 08.11.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Maggie Currie

Whether it's that perpetual pile of clothes in the corner you're waiting to someday turn into gold, a self-proclaimed disability which renders you unable to refrain from interrupting, or a knack for timing your exit just so, so that someone else is continually left to do the washing up, now's the time to extinguish these habits before they turn into next year's resolutions.