Divorce Advice

Is Rebuilding Self-Esteem Post-Divorce, Just a Charade?

Suzy Miller | Posted 13.10.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

You know those big property developments where the site is surrounded by hoardings - great walls preventing you from seeing within - and they paint a vision of what the construction will look like when it's finished onto the walls, whilst they slowly and noisily create the buildings within?

How To Get Your Mojo Back After A Divorce

The Huffington Post UK | Rachel Moss | Posted 08.10.2014 | UK Lifestyle

You would imagine that with two successful daughters like Beyoncé and Solange, Tina Knowles would be one of the most self-assured women on the planet...

Divorce, Perception and Reality

Soila Sindiyo | Posted 16.09.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Soila Sindiyo

When Princess Diana was going through her divorce and her settlement was made public (I believe it was in the millions of pounds) there was a radio discussion going on and people where calling into lamenting that the settlement was too much and saying that she needs to get a grip on reality.

How Do You Know When You Are Headed for Divorce - What Are the Signs?

Sara Davison | Posted 26.08.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Sara Davison

There are all warning signs that you need to STOP and FOCUS on your marriage. It will not fix itself. You need to take time out if you want to avoid things getting worse. If you leave them too long then you will head towards what I call the "switch flicking moment". This is the point of no return when something just changes and you no longer feel that attraction to your partner.

Loving Yourself and Believing in Love Again - Sophrology for Divorce

Suzy Miller | Posted 30.04.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

Sophrology can help you explore your own consciousness and unlock your inner potential, supporting you through key moments in your life, no matter how challenging.

Facing a Christmas Divorce? Collaborate, Don't Aggravate

Philippa Cunniff | Posted 24.02.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Philippa Cunniff

There's no way to broach the subject of divorce at this time of year without feeling it somehow goes against the spirit of the season, but for a large number of families it's something which has to be faced very quickly after the last mulled wine has been drunk.

Court Is Not the Only Option for Separating Couples - Greater Awareness of Dispute Resolution Is Urgently Needed

Lord Falconer | Posted 25.01.2014 | UK
Lord Falconer

We could all do with being a little better prepared for what options are open to us in the event that we face this prospect ourselves, but understandably, people don't enquire about divorce during a happy marriage. It's a responsibility that lies with all of us.

Big Five Divorce Myths - Busted! No. Three

Suzy Miller | Posted 23.01.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

"He/she have become completely unreasonable so mediation won't work." True or false?

Co-Parenting & Divorce Recovery Radio Show

Suzy Miller | Posted 23.01.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

The voice of single mother Sarah talks about how tough it is in the beginning to co-parent. How you need to just get through it, to treat yourself sometimes - give yourself rewards - for managing that particular 'change-over' of the kids really well.

Video of The Big Five Divorce Myths - Busted! Number Two...

Suzy Miller | Posted 23.01.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

How to divorce amicably is the route most sane people want to take when family breakup feels inevitable, and in this divorce advice video, and accompanying article, I provide key information to help you.

Good Self Esteem Is Pivotal - Especially Post-divorce

Suzy Miller | Posted 23.01.2014 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

Self-esteem, as the name would suggest, comes from you. No-one can make you feel anything. It's how you react to a situation that causes you to feel one way or the other, not the situation itself.

Does Divorce Run In The Friendship Group? Men Inspired By Friend's Relationship Breakdown

PA/The Huffington Post UK | Posted 18.10.2013 | UK Lifestyle

Almost a quarter of men who are either getting a divorce or considering splitting up with their partners were influenced by a friend's relationship de...

Can Divorce Damage Your Health More If You Are A Man?

The Huffington Post UK | Poorna Bell | Posted 07.10.2013 | UK Lifestyle

Divorce is stressful even if you know it is for the best in the long run, and most couples are so focussed on the ending of the relationship that they...

Be Savvy: Top Financial Tips You Need to Know When Getting Divorced

Suzy Miller | Posted 20.10.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

Divorce.....whether it's amicable or not; complications, surprise expenses and lots of financial jargon don't help an already stressful situation.

Lost Your Sense of Self Since Having Children Post-divorce?

Suzy Miller | Posted 20.10.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

It can sometimes feel all encompassing and as though you've lost your individuality when you have this role. This feeling can be particularly acute when you have been through divorce or family breakup

How To Cope With Life After Divorce: 15 Common Misconceptions

The Huffington Post UK | Posted 07.08.2013 | UK Lifestyle

Marriages come and go, but divorce is forever - at least that's the message from HuffPost Divorce, our colleagues across the pond, and we're inclined ...

Children and Parental Conflict - Nine Changes to Watch Out For in Your Children

Soila Sindiyo | Posted 14.09.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Soila Sindiyo

We, as adults and as parents, can and do at times underestimate children's capacity to understand feelings and relationships. Speaking with them and answering their questions as much as possible can go a long way in helping them deal with the situation.

The Hobbies That Can Hamper Fair Divorce Settlements

James R Brown | Posted 11.08.2013 | UK Lifestyle
James R Brown

Remember, you may end up lying to a judge and this is an offence that could land you in prison. There have been cases where deceptive divorcees have ended up in prison for over a year - and it's hard to imagine a much worse result than that.

I Want More Time With My Kids: Court or Not to Court - That Is the Question?

Suzy Miller | Posted 28.05.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

They need to understand that the legal processes can turn initially reasonable demands into a whole new set of game playing on an expensive scale, and as for who wins and who loses, I recommend a coin is taken into the court room and tossed, as that is about as accurate a way of guessing outcomes as any.

The Seven Crucial Mistakes That Will STOP You Getting Over Your Ex

Marina Pearson | Posted 19.03.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Marina Pearson

Being a heartbreak expert, I have women coming to me who are still stuck even five years on. What I have observed, is that there are seven key things that they are not doing that will keep them stuck in the past, stopping them from moving on.

Tired of All the Shouting? Is a Peaceful Divorce Really Possible?

Janet Simpson | Posted 20.02.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Janet Simpson

Collaborative lawyers sign an agreement with you which disqualifies them from representing you in court if the collaborative process breaks down. This means they are committed to helping you to find the best solutions by agreement rather than conflict.

The Big Five Divorce Myths

Suzy Miller | Posted 13.02.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

There are five main reasons that families today can find themselves in an adversarial divorce process. These reasons are caused partly by the divorce industry, and partly by people not wanting to take full responsibility for keeping their divorce non-adversarial. It's up to us to change things!

A Friend in Need is a Friend in Deed - What Role Do Your Friends Play in Your Divorce?

Charlotte Friedman | Posted 28.12.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Charlotte Friedman

We all need our friends, especially in times of crisis. Divorce and separation is one of those life crises where you might feel that you need all the friends you can get, or do you? It is interesting to think about what place friends occupy in the new and choppy waters of a painful separation.

Infidelity: It's None Of My Business

Suzy Miller | Posted 23.12.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

The shock of the breakup was so sudden, so extreme, that normal behaviour would have seemed inappropriate. The events that lead up to it should have ...

Do Lawyers Really Want More Friendly Divorces?

Suzy Miller | Posted 02.12.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Suzy Miller

Innovative law firms like Family Law In Partnership who focus on non-adversarial routes such as mediation and collaborative law, are putting packages together for clients offering parenting and wellbeing support as they recognise the huge role that such support can play in increasing the success of alternative dispute resolution.