Divorce, It's Time To End The Blame Game

Joanna Abrahams | Posted 19.10.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Joanna Abrahams

Most people do not enter divorce lightly. Many couples fight hard for years to try and rescue relationships. There are men and women made miserable in marriages through no fault of either party. Their only recourse is to either enter a process that says someone must be at fault or endure a long, uncertain wait.

The Perils Of Being Ownerless

Holly Bell | Posted 10.10.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Holly Bell

I consider myself a feminist. I consider myself to live in a world where things are certainly not equal for women, but being white, married, middle class, heterosexual and reasonably solvent meant that I did not experience the injustice so many women do on a daily basis.

Divorce: Judges Must Embrace A Different Approach

Jane Robey | Posted 04.08.2017 | UK
Jane Robey

Transformative change could be a few heartbeats away, as long as the will exists. Judges and courts could manage their parenting, property and money dispute cases in a fresh way, using their existing powers to better effect, whilst seriously protecting the families' right to a private life. A novel approach to writing a verdict is one thing: but it's time for judges to use their imaginations in a completely different way.

Six Out Of Ten Separating Couples Ignore Divorce Law

Jane Robey | Posted 23.06.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Jane Robey

The government surely needs to be more instrumental in ensuring that the law is properly enforced so that much more mediation is delivered and many more families avoid high cost damaging litigation, achieving better outcomes for the whole family.

Three Reasons Why Father's Day Should Be Abolished

Jeremy Davies | Posted 14.06.2017 | UK Parents
Jeremy Davies

The last thing dads need, therefore, is LESS time being hands-on parents. If dads were given a day off work on Father's Day, it might be worth celebrating. So if you're an employer who wants to keep your workforce happy, let your dads go home early on Friday...or give them a day off on Monday. Otherwise, let's see Father's Day for what it is: a wasted opportunity.

Father's Day: 8 Ways To Cope If You Won't Be With Your Children This Year

The Huffington Post | Sophie Gallagher | Posted 12.06.2017 | UK Parents

For every parent, spending special occasions with your children is important, but what happens when you aren’t able to be with your kids on those da...

Parenting: Have You Taken On The Wrong Job Description?

Michelle McHale | Posted 10.05.2017 | UK Parents
Michelle McHale

We can't protect our children from sadness any more than we can from joy. If we can love our children through all their moods, free of anxiety and responsibility-weary guilt, maybe we can become powerful models of self-acceptance and trust.

Politicians Must Start Focusing On A Different Divorce Bill

Jane Robey | Posted 05.05.2017 | UK Politics
Jane Robey

With Brexit dominating the general election campaign, politicians of all colours need. to explain how they will tackle a divorce bill that's much closer to home: the £48 billion annual cost to the UK economy of family breakdown.

Still Waiting For Divorce Reform

Jane Robey | Posted 10.04.2017 | UK Politics
Jane Robey

Next month sees the annual pageant of the Palace of Westminster's State Opening of Parliament. Alongside the traditional regal razzamatazz comes the Queen's announcement of a list of the government's plans for new laws.

The Brexit Break-Up And The Psychology Of Separation

Karen Woodall | Posted 31.03.2017 | UK Politics
Karen Woodall

The UK is about to undergo divorce from the European Union. Having triggered article 50, Prime Minister Theresa May has this week, entered into no man...

Government Family Policy Groundhog Day

Jane Robey | Posted 20.03.2017 | UK Politics
Jane Robey

Brexit is the divorce on everyone's lips. It seems to be the only thing on Ministers' and policy-makers' minds too. It's fair to say that almost all government decisions now and for some time to come will be influenced by the UK's split from the European Union.

Surviving V-Day!

Sarah Hall | Posted 03.02.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Sarah Hall

Seems crazy, but ever since Boxing Day the shelves of local and national stores have been packed with gifts and goodies to tempt people in relationships to buy something for their loved one to celebrate the one day a year when it is expected that your spouse will show they care!

I've Launched A Petition To Stop Rocketing Legal Costs

Mary Banham-Hall | Posted 30.01.2017 | UK
Mary Banham-Hall

I've just launched a Petition on calling for the existing court rule that legal costs must be proportionate to the value of the dispute to ...

Getting Divorced: January Is Divorce Season

Ella Davis | Posted 18.01.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Ella Davis

Divorce is often a difficult journey and whilst that journey varies from person to person, almost everyone only reaches their Divorce Monday after having tried harder than most people can imagine possible. Whilst there's no denying that divorce is a hard path to take, it's certainly no failure.

D:Day - A Survival Guide To Thinking About Divorce

Mary Marvel | Posted 02.01.2017 | UK
Mary Marvel

The first day that legal offices are open after Christmas is known as D-Day, when family solicitors are inundated with enquiries about divorce. While ...

Worried About Christmas Presence? A Survival Guide For Separated Or Divorced Parents Over The Festive Period

Mary Marvel | Posted 22.12.2016 | UK Parents
Mary Marvel

I hear from a lot of parents struggling over how to agree arrangements for their children with their ex. It is, at the best of times, an enormous strain on most people. It is the nature of our love for our children that we usually miss them when they are not with us.

How To Get Through Christmas Day Without Your Kids

The Huffington Post | Sophie Gallagher | Posted 12.12.2016 | UK Parents

Christmas is the time of year when the focus is all on family and while that is great for lots of reasons, it does also make it much harder for those ...

Bringing The Inside Out

Angela Samata | Posted 01.12.2016 | UK Entertainment
Angela Samata

I think we all have a fascination with gaining access to the forbidden, hidden places and spaces, whether they be palaces, prisons, behind the scenes ...

Learning To Listen To One Another

Mary Banham-Hall | Posted 18.11.2016 | UK Parents
Mary Banham-Hall

My cajoling didn't work with my son, but losing my temper made the situation a million times worse. What did I expect? My son could not see I was upset or angry and stop and rationalise his fears about school, he was far too agitated himself.

A Few Thoughts About Divorce And Children: A Picture Speaks Louder Than Words

Mary Banham-Hall | Posted 09.11.2016 | UK Parents
Mary Banham-Hall

Parents have to find a way to discuss these and other parentings issues and protect their children from acrimony and avoidable hurt and loss. Mediation creates a safe and neutral place for these conversations to take place. Furthermore, the mediator is highly trained and experienced in facilitating their much needed conversations and can help with formulating new boundaries and ways of communicating and planning that work.

A Letter to UK Prime Minister David Cameron

Joana Keys | Posted 27.06.2017 | UK Politics
Joana Keys

Dear David Cameron, This is what you did. This is what you did for asking a question that should never have been asked. You gave racists, xenophobes and bigots a government-sponsored justification to make us 'go back'. Did you ever think this would be any different? Can you hear the chants in Great Portland Street saying 'make Britain white again' all the way from your high horse?

Separation Anxiety

Neil Ransome | Posted 11.06.2017 | UK Parents
Neil Ransome

I have always been someone who was career driven, with clear work ethic and never shied away from hard work. It's was instilled in me growing up. I remember my dad telling me of when I was a baby, he had 2 jobs so at 5pm he'd finish work come home, eat, get a bus into Central London and then work into the early hours.

Be the Stranger Who Makes All Things Possible

Martin Barrow | Posted 24.05.2017 | UK Parents
Martin Barrow

We spent the middle Sunday of Foster Care Fortnight in the best way possible, in the company of foster children present and past. And no better meeting place for two rumbustious extended families than Groombridge Place, deep in the Kent countryside.

The Emotional Journey of Divorce: From Anger and Anxiety to Acceptance and Moving On

Mary Banham-Hall | Posted 17.05.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Mary Banham-Hall

Everything can be sorted out, agreed and put behind you, you can move on from the conflict of the past and through dialogue and bargaining to acceptance and to a new and brighter future. You will have come up the other side of the rollercoaster and will be able to look back with relief on the journey you have accomplished - and be glad it is behind you.

Blame and Divorce

Mary Banham-Hall | Posted 23.03.2017 | UK Lifestyle
Mary Banham-Hall

On the grieving cycle following death, loss or divorce, after the first shock and denial, people become angry and blaming, they may get depressed as they gradually detach from the other person and old life. Only then are they ready to move to dialogue and bargaining to sort everything out. Finally they will reach acceptance of the new life and be able to move on.