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Former Topless Model Advocates Highlighting Women's Talents and Abilities in the Sun

Posted: 26/09/2012 00:00

As a former topless model, I feel I have a certain perspective on the Sun's Page 3 topless women issue. When I was 18, I used nude modeling as a way to earn money to support my acting career. Was I thrilled and empowered by my job? Some days and jobs, yes, but the majority of my time was spent consumed by inner conflict about my choice.

Just because an attractive woman decides to pose topless does not mean she's happy about it, although Neil Wallis, former deputy editor of the Sun, points out a model's choice of appearing on Page 3 as a reason why it's ok. That doesn't take into consideration that many times people make bad choices based on a situation or certain pressures or seeing something as the only way out or toward a dream.

If I had had other models of female success presented to me every day as a young woman, I may have seen other possibilities and ways to feel beautiful and admired in the world rather than posing nude.

Wallis goes on to explain that the women who do buy the Sun have no problem with the Page 3 photos. Really? Has he asked them? Just because there are women who buy The Sun does not mean they are happy about having to see photos of topless women every day. Perhaps they have just come to accept this is the way their world is and there's nothing they can do about it.

Also, claiming something should continue because it is an "institution" as Wallis does is a weak argument. It was "tradition" that only men could vote or work outside the home; certainly Wallis doesn't wish for a return to this kind of thinking, does he?

And as for the argument that we would be hurting these Page 3 women by taking away their chance at a nice paycheck and a chance to feel glamorous? Umm, hello! How about instead making Page 3 an opportunity for women to feel glamorous by having their name in print--a daily chance to show off what these women can do not what they look like.

The Sun could have one day each week devoted to showcasing different talents: Monday could be budding journalist day where they highlight an investigative piece by a writer; Tuesday could highlight a visual artist with a photograph or other piece of art, Wednesday could showcase an up and coming entrepreneur; Thursday could be women making a difference; Friday could be college student of the week.

Just think of the new female readers the Sun would attract. And women would have an opportunity to earn money for something that would help them move forward with promising careers.

I'm not saying that porn and cheesecake should be banned, but it should be kept in its proper place, away from impressionable young minds. A daily newspaper that young women view needs to have encouraging and positive role models for women pictured inside.

Let's make finding an open copy of the Sun in a café an inspiring experience for women rather than a disheartening one.

 
 
 

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As a former topless model, I feel I have a certain perspective on the Sun's Page 3 topless women issue. When I was 18, I used nude modeling as a way to earn money to support my acting career. Was I th...
As a former topless model, I feel I have a certain perspective on the Sun's Page 3 topless women issue. When I was 18, I used nude modeling as a way to earn money to support my acting career. Was I th...
 
 
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09:37 on 18/10/2012
If you are going to get rid of page 3 why not get rid of these clubs that women go to to whatch men strip off? The girls like going to these places and I am sure the men like giving them entertaiment. Do all the page 3 girls feel ashamed about what they do? I don't think so as most of them look on it as a means to an end, that is to get noticed and maybe get in to acting, singing or whatever. Linda Lusardi has done it, so has Samantha Fox (showing my age now, aren't I).
13:59 on 01/10/2012
Instead of making it a battle of the sexes, let's just reframe things shall we?

Imagine the scene - there's a newspaper out there that has always featured a guy in a cringe-makingly unnatural position on page 7 with a wonderfully pert bum hanging out on display. There's a deliberately demeaning caption with it which elicits guffaws from the women (and men who are inclined towards men), reading it. "Look at the buns on THAT", they exclaim to each other. The working class and middle class guys reading the paper can be seen to hastily scan page 2, and quite often miss anything else that's written on Page 3 in their haste to get to the comparative safety of Page 4 and beyond. Some have got so used to ignoring it that they don't even see it any more. Many of the guys have never been comfortable with it, even if in their youth they considered giving it a go themselves as they were a bit insecure at that age and had learned that looks can open doors. There's a petition asking the newspaper to consider change due to the discomfort of many of its male readers. The guys who sign it do not hate women, they just hate the way men are being portrayed in society.

End of reframe.
07:50 on 30/09/2012
Exactly.
23:20 on 28/09/2012
It's ignorance about sexuality and women and ignorance in general that is the problem, not Page 3.
20:34 on 26/09/2012
My experience having naturally large breasts is being gawped at, felt up aka as sexually assault and basically being treated like a "thing" not a person not a woman including aged ten when a "friend" of the family who had children including a daughter the same age as me who felt it was acceptable in his paedo mind to run his hand up and down my body and nuzzle my breasts getting more and more visibly sexually aroused while the child that I was remained frozen in terror to the spot. It seems that for men my breasts are there for the taking, public property, irrespective of whether I want them to be or not whether I want to be a page three model or not because my shape is the shape of a "glamour" model I am fair game to be degraded, disrespected and abused. Yeah ban page three get your kicks some other way it's porn and objectification.
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06:22 on 27/09/2012
That's awful and it shouldn't have happened, but if page 3 didn't exist would it still have happened? I don't see why it wouldn't.
07:51 on 30/09/2012
Who said it happened because of page 3?
20:03 on 26/09/2012
Thanks for speaking out about the Sun, Sheila. I just linked to you in my post about Neil Wallis's comment: http://wp.me/p20Ygt-OH

I must disagree with you on one point: Women don't deserve to be objectified anywhere. Not even on the top shelf. The trouble with saying "let's put it on the top shelf" is that it never stays there.
16:18 on 26/09/2012
Although I am not a Sun reader. Rather than eliminate page three completely may I propose a compromise. Why not just show a beautiful woman in a bathing suit/bikini/neglige like the Sun does on page 3 in other countries like Canada. You could view it as an evolution. In addition to neutralise the sexism argument the Sun may wish to add a Sunshine guy further in the paper for female readers.
20:06 on 26/09/2012
That wouldn't neutralize anything, because men are not members of an oppressed sex class. Showing them naked in a paper doesn't affect their status at all. It's not the same for women. Every time a woman is shown as a sex object, it reinforces the prevailing belief in society that sex is what women are for. Women aren't humans, just sex on legs. It's sad and gross.
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12:05 on 27/09/2012
"Showing [men] naked in a paper doesn't affect their status at all." That's just not true, but ignoring that for a moment I agree that it's not seen the same way. That does not, however, mean that any sexualisation of women should be banned outright.

Both men and women have the right to their sexuality, and pornography is a part of that. It is not only women who are sexualised in this way, and not only men partaking. Nothing wrong there.

Unfortunately, there is a widespread inconsistency with the way society views porn between sexes. This has to absolutely has to change, but banning things is not the way to do it. Call me naïve but I reject the idea that young men and women cannot be educated to recognised these attitudes as warped.

We need people who can enjoy their sexuality, including pornography, while being able to consign the stone age preconceptions of a naked woman to the past. Changing people's perceptions is key; that can't be achieved by just banning things. Let people learn from themselves, and hopefully one day we'll see this rag go bust itself.
21:28 on 26/09/2012
It's not about nudity, it's about mainly showing women in this light. Highlighting how wonderful it is that celebrity A lost her pregnancy weight in 5 minutes and rarely mentioning a female scientist who contributed to a significant leap in research.
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15:00 on 26/09/2012
But seriously folks, A HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HAAAAAAA!
20:11 on 26/09/2012
There's a great big alphabet out there. With 26 letters! Go. Discover it.
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Paul Wagland
Resistance is fertile
20:52 on 26/09/2012
Explain what you find funny?
09:40 on 27/09/2012
Cant remember now! That was yesterday and one of a jillion wisecracks.
14:59 on 26/09/2012
AND for my next joke.........!
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13:16 on 26/09/2012
Anyone fancy a pint?
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12:42 on 26/09/2012
Olde english saying:what came first--chicken or egg.hence,what came first body,womans body and breasts or clothes,bra and what not.hence,why not celebrate body beautifull,man or womans bodies as gift from god and Goddess and let women go topless if they wish so that men get used to them and dont gawk at them and get perverted and be natural.we didint give a blind bit of notice as young boys growing up in kenya when in malindi,the african giriyama girls used to be topless all the time.hence,sexualisation of mothers milk vessel whihc everyone needs to survive as a babe has been exploited since time immemorial .hence,as we enter era of free speech,liberty and free to be different why not go the whole hog and ask and request and insist that the public broadcasting corp,BBc and Channel 4 command or request,Indian news presentor Krishna Murthi and Shamira Ahmed to go topless when presenting the news and make history and non violent evolution.food for thought.
20:16 on 26/09/2012
Or men could realize that women are people, not decoration.
08:01 on 30/09/2012
That will never happen. Looks seem to matter a lot to men.
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10:36 on 30/09/2012
But we do.
12:21 on 26/09/2012
I'm assuming that this woman is criticizing p3 now rather than a few years ago because she is no longer asked to appear. Hypocrite. If she were, I am sure all her philosophizing would miraculously disappear. Women know that men like to look at them, and they shamelessly exploit this, and then protest when they are seen as the shallow and self centred individuals they usually ( not always ) are.
Why do they think it demeaning to have their bodies on display? Do topless men find it demeaning ? A bit silly, yes, but if someone wants to look at a man's hairy chest, so be it. Big deal.
There is nothing to stop a "successful" woman appearing every day in the Sun on the basis of her other attributes. The reason this doesn't happen is because most find it much less hassle to simply take their clothes off. Instant stardom.
Grow up, girls. I know it's difficult, but you'll have to start sometime.
20:23 on 26/09/2012
No one's jealous here. There's nothing to envy about being an exploited object rather than a human being.

Anyone who entertains the slightest doubt about how many men hate women and have zero empathy for them, need only read the comments on this post.

Thanks for proving why we need to get rid of Page 3.
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20:51 on 26/09/2012
Surely the fact that this woman appeared on Page 3 puts her in an excellent position to comment on the pros and cons, from a personal perspective?

Why do you feel able to comment so conclusively without direct experience, and presumably without even being female?
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08:58 on 26/09/2012
well said shiela, it had to come from a page 3 girl. as a (hetero) man i'm often embarrassed by the likes of neil wallis and his dismissive assumptions.

i too like titties but there is a time and a place and the pages of a national newspaper is not the place.
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22:13 on 25/09/2012
Yeah. Men like titties. And as long as men like titties, they will continue to use their copious "top-brain" to excuse away all the other useful parts of women. Even if some men can compartmentalize women and notice the parts of women that "mother" them (and their children), or run their companies, or make their lives better (etc., etc.), we currently live in the world of "Oglers." Hence the reason why we see NFL players adorned with pink for a month, but not with teal (the color for uterine and cervical cancers). Men like titties. And that tiny brain makes the decisions, regardless of reason.
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20:29 on 26/09/2012
I think this is due to social conditioning, and it could be reversed. But first the majority of people will have to understand that sexism is a real problem, and not just something women are making up.

First step is to take away Page 3. It's obvious from this thread that it really hasn't done anything good for anybody.
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06:33 on 27/09/2012
Didn't it help to put the author through college? Probably a good thing?