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Suzi Godson writes a weekly sex and relationship column for The Times newspaper and is the editor of www.moresexdaily.com. Suzi is also the author of the award-winning The Sex Book (Cassell) which has been translated into fifteen languages. A selection of her best Times articles were published in the book ‘Sex Counsel’

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Argue About Money

(1) Comments | Posted 12 October 2014 | (12:23)

1. Arguments about money are the top predictor of divorce (Dew, Britt, & Huston, 2012). Couples who disagree about finance once a week are over 30% more likely to get divorced than couples who disagree about finances a few times a month (Dew, 2009).

2. Sometimes couples argue about money...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before World Heart Day

(1) Comments | Posted 27 September 2014 | (00:00)

Monday, the 29 September, is World Heart Day. This year the focus of the World Heart Federation's campaign is prevention and the emphasis is on finding easy ways to incorporate exercise into daily life. They advocate walking to work, taking the stairs - all the usual stuff - but what...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Do 'Girl on Girl'

(5) Comments | Posted 10 September 2014 | (11:16)

1. When Katie Perry released her hit single "I kissed a girl" in 2008, a Cosmopolitan magazine poll reported that 54% of women between the ages of 18 and 24 had done the same thing. In 2011, further probing research by the same magazine into "How He'd React If You...

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10 Things You Neeed to Know Before You Take Natural Remedies to Improve Sexual Function

(3) Comments | Posted 21 August 2014 | (16:17)

1. Although the internet is awash with promotions for natural sex remedies such as Avena Sativa, Damiana, Ginseng, Ginkgo Biloba, Maca, Muira Puama, or Zinc, there is no credible scientific evidence to show that any of them improve libido, or sexual function. More importantly, they can be dangerous if you...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Contemplate Marriage

(0) Comments | Posted 1 August 2014 | (00:00)

1. Younger men are less interested in getting married, but after the age of 26, men develop a stronger desire for marriage than women (South, 1993).

2. That's probably because men benefit more from marriage than women do, particularly as they get older (Kilmartin, 2007). Men who...

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10 Things You Need To Know Before You Pathologise Perimenopause

(0) Comments | Posted 8 July 2014 | (19:50)

1. Peri-menopause generally begins in the mid to late forties. It takes anything from four to ten years and the average age for the onset of true menopause (when periods cease completely) is 51 years.

2. Perimenopause, like puberty and pregnancy, is the path to a natural life transition,...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Make Assumptions About Gender and Domestic Violence

(36) Comments | Posted 27 June 2014 | (00:00)

1. The government defines domestic violence as any incident, or pattern of incidents, of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence, or abuse, between those aged 16 or over, who are, or have been, intimate partners, or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality. The abuse can encompass, but is not limited...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Have a Brazillian Wax

(0) Comments | Posted 19 June 2014 | (09:48)

It's bikini weather and the world cup is happening in Brazil. How could I resist? Here's ten things you need to know before you get a Brazillian.

1. In 1987, the Padilha sisters -Jocely, Jonice, Janea, Joyce, Jussara, Juracy, and Judseia - introduced the "Brazillian Wax" at their at their...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Lose Touch With Each Other

(0) Comments | Posted 5 June 2014 | (00:00)

In 1967 the humanistic psychologist Dr. Sidney Jourard made an informal study of touch. He travelled to several countries observing how many times people touched one another in informal settings. The cultural differences were striking. In Puerto Rico he counted 180 touches an hour between two people. In Mexico City...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Dismiss Casual Sex

(1) Comments | Posted 24 May 2014 | (00:00)

Here's 10 things 18-year-old Phin Lyman of Wellington College, Berkshire should have known before he 'outed' himself as a virgin in order to make a stand against the 'casual' way his generation treats sex.

1. In psychology studies, men invariably report a greater number of sexual partners than women, but...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Create a Step Family

(0) Comments | Posted 16 May 2014 | (00:00)

The Office of National Statistics has revealed that the number of stepfamilies in the UK dropped from 631,000 in 2001 to 544,000 in 2011, a slump of 14% in just a decade. The drop has been interpreted as a reflection of the difficulties of assimilating children from different families into...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You See a Couple Counsellor

(0) Comments | Posted 10 May 2014 | (00:00)

1. Make sure your therapist is properly qualified to work with couples. Without adequate training a therapist can't handle the conflicts that inevitably arise during sessions.

2. There are currently no laws to state who can practice as a counsellor or psychotherapist in the UK, but accreditation...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Have Kids When You Are Living Together

(1) Comments | Posted 2 May 2014 | (00:00)

Sir James Munby, president of the High Court Family Division and the most senior family judge in England and Wales wants the law to be changed so that cohabiting couples have similar legal protections to married couples. It's a reform that is long overdue, but it is unlikely to be...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Have an Emotional Affair

(0) Comments | Posted 23 April 2014 | (00:00)

1. Emotional affairs occur when you form a deep emotional attachment with someone outside of your primary relationship. They often begin gradually and rather innocently (Glass, 2003; Humphrey, 1983; Wiggins & Lederer, 1984).

2. Emotional affairs do not necessarily include sex and can even occur over the Internet between two...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Have a Penis Enlargement

(0) Comments | Posted 11 April 2014 | (16:32)

This one is for Adrian Albert Mole and all other males, young and old, who worry incessantly about the size of their members...

1. A study by urologists Kevan R. Wylie of Royal Hallemshire Hospital and Ian Eardley of St. James Hospital, Leeds, England found that although 85%...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Have a Mammogram

(0) Comments | Posted 4 April 2014 | (12:28)

1. A woman born today has about a 1 in 8 chance of being diagnosed with breast cancer at some time during her life. On the other hand, there is an 87.6% chance that she will never have breast cancer.

2. Breast cancer risk is affected by a number of...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Take the Contraceptive Pill

(0) Comments | Posted 27 March 2014 | (23:00)

1. If taken correctly, the contraceptive pill is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. It also protects against ovarian and endometrial cancer, anemia and acne.

2. However, unpleasant side effects are common. The pill can cause irregular bleeding, nausea, breast tenderness, weight gain, headache, mood swings, blood clots, varicose veins, thrombosis,...

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Ten Things You Need To Know Before You Ignore an Unreliable Erection

(0) Comments | Posted 23 March 2014 | (23:00)

1. Research conducted at the Australian National University shows that erectile dysfunction (ED) is associated with a higher risk of heart disease and early death in men both with, and without, a history of cardiovascular disease.

2. The most common underlying health condition related to ED is diabetes -...

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10 Things You Need to Know Before You Support the Swedish Model of Sex Work

(9) Comments | Posted 9 March 2014 | (23:00)

We live in a free society where consenting adults are entitled to exercise their sexual freedom in any way they choose. Whether we like it or not, criminalising the buying and selling of sex is an attempt to legislate morality and exercise control over private sexual behaviour. Sex workers are...

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Ten Things You Need to Know Before You Screw Up Another Valentine's Day

(4) Comments | Posted 9 February 2014 | (23:00)

Valentines Day is the most contradictory celebration of the year. The annual onslaught of heart-shaped commercial tat is unarguably irritating, exploitative and exclusionary, yet it is a celebration that men ignore at their peril. So, before you get it wrong again guys, here's ten things you need to know...

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