Psychotherapy

When Someone You Love is Narcissistic

Dan Roberts | Posted 08.04.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

When someone is narcissistic, they tend to be extremely self-focused, viewing the world and the people they encounter as being there to serve their needs.

French Psychiatrists Convicted of Manslaughter Because Her Patient Killed: Is This Fair?

Dr. Sohom Das | Posted 25.03.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Dr. Sohom Das

I've been reading various blogs surrounding this issue with interest. As far as I understand, the doctor had sectioned this man several times in the past against his will. However on this occasion, he had apparently escaped during a consultation.

Forget About Blue Monday - Depression Is All in the Mind

Dan Roberts | Posted 22.03.2013 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

Granted, January is a pretty gloomy month (I was shocked to see a blue sky today, having forgotten what one looked like), but why is that particular day more depressing than any other? Well, of course, it's not. Blue Monday was actually invented by a psychologist to help promote some travel company.

Why Our Christmas Fantasy Can Ruin the Reality

Dan Roberts | Posted 12.12.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

At no other time of year is the gap between our fantasy of how things should be and the reality of how they really are wider than at Christmas. The bo...

Why the Government is Failing on Mental Health

Dan Roberts | Posted 13.01.2013 | UK Politics
Dan Roberts

I think that, as a society, the shocking level of treatment for some of our most vulnerable members should make us all angry - and that this anger should propel us all to take action, in whatever way we see fit, until we remedy this deplorable situation.

'Being Gay Is Not A Mental Disorder And Cannot Be Cured'

Huffington Post UK | Felicity Morse | Posted 02.10.2012 | UK

The largest association of psychotherapists in the UK has sent a letter to all of its 30,000 members, telling them that being gay is not a mental diso...

Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places

Daniel Warner | Posted 12.11.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Daniel Warner

"Wait for the guy who wants to show you off to the world?". Exactly how does this work? I'm confused. Is he in to wife swapping? Husband swapping? That's just what I need, I've falling in love with a porno director and he wants to "show me off".

What Andy Murray Teaches Us About Self-Doubt and Its Role in Our Success or Failure

Dr Raj Persaud | Posted 11.11.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Dr Raj Persaud

Andy Murray's historic victory appears founded on a mental rather than a physical transformation. Many attribute this new self-confidence to his recent Olympic gold medal victory over Roger Federer. It was positive feedback: confirmation of the ability we all knew he had but did he?

Why I've Swapped Therapy For Champagne

Daniel Warner | Posted 22.10.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Daniel Warner

My therapy sessions helped me deal with my addictive personality and my ridiculous relationships with shopping, sex, drugs and food. I'd tried, tasted, sniffed and snorted, filled my flat with clothes and possessions I never needed nor wanted and ate and drank my way around the world - but nothing made me happy.

Rape Jokes in Comedy: It's about the Comic and the Context

Taylor Glenn | Posted 19.10.2012 | UK Comedy
Taylor Glenn

Rape and violence against women could, with care, become one of those issues we take over as comics and turn the message around - perhaps in the same way that non-white comedians have had to tackle racism over decades, or gay comics the topic of homophobia.

Was it a Psychotic Episode in Ron Hubbard That Led Him to Found the Church of Scientology?

Dr Raj Persaud | Posted 08.09.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Dr Raj Persaud

A French Psychoanalyst, Dr Thierry Lamote, claims in a book that L. Ron Hubbard, the founder of the religious group, The Church of Scientology, suffered a psychotic episode, which appears to be the foundation for the multi-million pound worldwide movement.

Why Do We Feel Sad, Angry or Scared?

Dan Roberts | Posted 04.05.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

As the Dalai Lama says: "Everyone wants happiness; nobody wants to suffer." If this is true (and I firmly believe it is), why do we feel 'negative' emotions like fear, anger, sadness or hatred?

If You're Unhappy Now, You May Need to Have a Delve Into Your Past

BritChick Paris | Posted 18.03.2012 | UK Lifestyle
BritChick Paris

The truth is everyone has stuff from childhood. In fact the perfect parents do not exist - if they did you would never leave home. Also we ALL develop systems and coping mechanisms that come from past experiences or traumas.

How to Spot the Psycho in Your Life

Jessica Fellowes | Posted 19.02.2012 | Home
Jessica Fellowes

Some psychopathic traits are positively encouraged in today's society: what we might call a lack of conscience, another would call a steely determination to succeed. One man's ability to dust himself off and start again is another psychopath's inability to learn from failure or pain.

Who Owns the Soul?

Andrew Samuels | Posted 03.01.2012 | UK Lifestyle
Andrew Samuels

In the United States and Britain, with resonances in other Western countries, a full-scale war has broken out regarding emotional distress and illness: how we talk about it, whether we try to measure it or not, and - crucially - what we do about it.

When We Are Stressed or Depressed, Why Do We Resist Getting Better?

Dan Roberts | Posted 01.11.2011 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

Why would anyone choose to be unhappy? It's a tough question to answer, but one all therapists must wrestle with on a daily basis.

Twitter: The Dangers of Over-Sharing

Dan Roberts | Posted 10.10.2011 | UK Lifestyle
Dan Roberts

Perhaps I sound like a Luddite, or possibly as a middle-aged man my values are distinctly pre-digital. Perhaps I just don't get the whole social media thing, which is moving so fast that old-fashioned values and morality are no longer relevant.