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Claire Brummell

International coach, mentor and specialist in femininity, masculinity, dating, polarity and relationships

International Coach, Mentor and Specialist in the Fields of Femininity, Masculinity, Dating, Polarity & Relationships, Claire Brummell (founder of & has a passion for helping people transform their relationships in every area of life.

Claire understands that relationships are the key to success, enjoyment and fulfillment in business, life AND love, and provides easy to understand and simply to apply tools and techniques to help improve any relationship. Her insights, advice and training can help anyone to create fantastic, strong, mutually fulfilling relationships whether it’s with your customers and clients at work, or your intimate partner at home.

Claire’s particular area of expertise is navigating the differences between men and women, and how by appreciating and understanding these differences they can help us to build stronger mutually fulfilling relationships, rather than creating miscommunication, misunderstandings and conflict.

Claire works with women all over the world to help them recognise the power in embracing their femininity while still being true to themselves. She helps women to understand and discover the balance of feminine and masculine that is right for them and to learn how to become an empowered feminine woman in business, life and love. Claire also helps women to understand, communicate with and relate better to the men in their lives to create relationships that work for both parties and where everyone’s needs are met.

Claire also works with men to help them reclaim their masculinity and to understand how to show up in a way that the women in their life will respond to. She helps men to better understand what goes on inside a woman’s heart and mind, how to meet their needs and how to reclaim their masculine presence in a way that is authentic and not overbearing.

Combining these two areas Claire helps men and women to understand the power of polarity in relationships helping both singles and couples to see how discovering and embodying their respective masculine or feminine presence can make them magnetically attractive and really ignite the spark of passion in members of the opposite sex, as well as how to understand and respond better to their different needs and desires. She helps people to create fantastic, mutually beneficial and fulfilling relationships by helping each person to understand the other and how to meet their needs….and in return get their own met too.

Creator of the programs “The First Steps to Transforming Any Relationship”, “The Feminine Evolution”, and “Femininity for the Single Woman: How to Attract the Relationship You Desire and Deserve”, and Founder of, and, Claire is an accomplished speaker as well as a coach and mentor who has helped people in countries around the world transform their lives and relationships.

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When to Say 'F*ck That' to

When to Say 'F*ck That' to Gratitude

The challenge for a lot of us is that we try to use gratitude as a tool, to avoid, or distract ourselves from the other emotions we're feeling and experiencing. In short, to make ourselves feel better when we're really feeling something else instead.
28/11/2014 14:51 GMT
Forget Conscious Uncoupling, How About We Try Conscious

Forget Conscious Uncoupling, How About We Try Conscious Coupling?

Conscious coupling is about being conscious about whether you want a relationship, what are the important values for your ideal partner to have and what kind of relationship are you looking for?  Are you just interested in something casual?  Do you want a long-term partnership?
10/04/2014 12:45 BST
What's the First Step to Solving Any Relationship

What's the First Step to Solving Any Relationship Conflict?

When it comes to relationships between a man and a woman the opportunity for a difference of opinion comes up more frequently than in relationships between men or between women, mainly because we're so fundamentally different inside.
01/04/2014 12:18 BST
Can a Person Really

Can a Person Really Change?

The more I've become the kind of woman I want to be, both in and out of a relationship, the man in my life has become even more of the kind of man that I really appreciate...and he was pretty amazing to begin with!
18/03/2014 12:38 GMT
Are You Settling in Your

Are You Settling in Your Relationship?

We all have an idea in our mind of what we want out of our relationship, and how we would like it to be.  While we need to be conscious of seeking perfection from ourselves, from our partner (or potential partner) or from our relationship, we also need to be careful that we don't compromise ourselves for the sake of a relationship.
24/02/2014 16:14 GMT
Are You Expecting a 'Perfect

Are You Expecting a 'Perfect Relationship'?

What makes a perfectly imperfect relationship work perfectly is when both people are actively choosing the other. When both people appreciate the differences between them. When both people want to learn and grow together.
14/02/2014 12:41 GMT
Would You Like to Know How to Avoid the Annual Break-up

Would You Like to Know How to Avoid the Annual Break-up Season?

Our response to stress often has us drawing battle lines against the person with whom you could instead be creating a battle strategy WITH. So if you notice yourself dropping into 'confrontation mode' with your partner, here are a few simple steps to help you get back in each other's corner again.
17/12/2013 11:10 GMT
Top 10 Tips for Surviving Christmas the Feminine Way - Part

Top 10 Tips for Surviving Christmas the Feminine Way - Part One

We know that we women have a tendency to take on a little too much and Christmas often throws another dozen balls into our over-capacity juggling act! So the question is, how do we not just survive the Christmas season...but actually ensure that we ENJOY it?
10/12/2013 14:40 GMT
The Reality of Masculine

The Reality of Masculine Masks

We all know that drag is most commonly associated with describing a man in women's clothing (before I get corrected here, yes I know that it is used the other way around too), but the real drag is a woman who is feminine on the inside and yet putting on a masculine mask.
09/12/2013 15:14 GMT
So What's So Important About Femininity

So What's So Important About Femininity Anyway?

As important as our heels and handbags are (I worship at the altars of Blahnik and Choo whenever I can)...our obsession with gaining 'equality' with the boys is costing us...and while we might be aware of the symptoms...we're oblivious to the cause.
05/12/2013 13:00 GMT