lewis Denbaum

Long-term committed dating demands clarity - you need to be transparent about your "requirements" and "wants".  Requirements are elements that you must have in your relationship. They cannot be compromised; they are your deal-breakers.
You need to be upfront and totally honest with the women you date. Tell them that you are dating 'recreationally' and not not on the market for a committed relationship. Speak plainly and say: "I've recently come out of a divorce. I'm just looking to meet new people and have fun."