millionaire matchmaker

Is it always useful to know what someone wants in a partner? Or do we run the risk of trying to fit that mould, instead of being ourselves?
I once went out with a shady sort, who gave me sleepless nights. When things were good, he was great fun, and he loved spending
He is the new Hugh Hefner and 'Instagram's Playboy King' and his life is filled with private jets, stacks of cash, yacht parties, expensive cars, lavish parties and of course a bevy of scantily clad gorgeous women... you can't help but think he is one of the luckiest men alive.