I'd rather be that eccentric old lady dressed in faux fur and diamonds and reeking of expensive French cologne to go and collect her pension, than the one whose relatives later discover said diamonds, nestling unworn in their pristine box, whilst clearing out the house after I've gone...
We all want sex to be spontaneous, right? We think we need to feel like it - horny, desiring. Planning just doesn't feel
Of course, having dreams and goals, making plans to achieve them and acting on those plans are all essential. But it's important to strike a balance between planning for the future and truly living in the moment so you can experience the fullness and richness of Life.
The funny thing about falling love is that the act is probably one of the most spontaneous things you’ll ever do in your
A confession: The Beau is back on my radar if not yet in my bed. My head is ruling that I shouldn't go anywhere near the lying, married, double-exclamation mark-loving ratbag but my ego is shamelessly loving that he still cares enough to pursue me after several weeks of me blanking him at every turn.
This is a long story, but needs telling for personal therapeutic reasons and, I believe, altruistic ones. There are others that may learn from my mistakes.
Only that in our babbling democratic social media world the greatest sin is phoniness, and the greatest prize authenticity.