Dame Judi Dench Slams Elderly People's Treatment In Britain

Dame Judi Dench

First Posted: 14/02/2012 11:49 Updated: 14/02/2012 11:56   PA

Dame Judi Dench has hit out at the treatment of older people in Britain.

The actress, 77, told the Radio Times that she had no plans to retire, as she could not even "understand the word".

But she said: "We're not good at dealing with old age in this country. We shove people in a room and leave them sitting round a television.

"We didn't do that in our family - shove people into a nursing home."

Dame Judi said that she and her late husband, the actor Michael Williams, had his parents and the actress's widowed mother living with them for 12 years.

"It was ideal, and the alternative is not good in my opinion. You learn such a lot from the generation above you.

"My daughter has lovely memories of that time and now talks about her grandparents with great fondness, as do I," she told the magazine.

Love Actually actor Bill Nighy, who stars with Dame Judi in the film The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, a movie about a group of retired people taking up residence in India, said: "It's unusual to see a film about older people.

"The way the elderly are treated, and in some cases warehoused and medicated, rather than nurtured and listened to, is distressing.

"The fact that they pay taxes all of their lives and then are expected to give all of their savings to maintain themselves should they need assistance is absolutely disgraceful and one of the great scandals of our society."

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Dame Judi Dench has hit out at the treatment of older people in Britain. The actress, 77, told the Radio Times that she had no plans to retire, as she could not even "understand the word". But s...
Dame Judi Dench has hit out at the treatment of older people in Britain. The actress, 77, told the Radio Times that she had no plans to retire, as she could not even "understand the word". But s...
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05:52 PM on 02/16/2012
try working for a living.
12:33 PM on 02/16/2012
It happens to all age groups!
05:55 AM on 02/16/2012
Good to hear Bill & Dame Judy express an opinion.
Residential Care of the Elderly has gone full circle. The Thatcher Regime introduced legislation in 1990 designed to expand the private sector and diminish Local Authority provision. One of many forced changes to reduce the provision of Council services and replace them with private companies. That's when school meals, home help, day care, etc............were all lost to competative tendering. Of course the Councils couldn't meet the slimmed down costs submitted by the private companies who traded on lower pay for staff.
Now we see that full circle because most of the provision by these private companies are falling down on staff pay, qualifications and training, food and entertainment.
Thatcher has achieved very little except that the 'provision of service' is in the private and profit making domain.
A little like what will happen to our NHS, unless you help tostop it.
11:09 PM on 02/15/2012
How did Judi Dench manage to look after her Mother if Judi was working full-time as an actor and travelling all over the world as an actor? If her Mother was suffering from something serious in her old age like Dementia - then it would not have been possible to leave her Mother alone all day whilst Judi was at work. It is probably easier for rich people to have their Parents staying with them because they have Housekeepers and Cooks to help them. Also, in the old days both partners did not have to work to make ends meet. Usually the Wife stayed at home whilst the husband worked. Nice idea from Judi - but it is not always a realistic option in every case.
03:26 AM on 02/16/2012
any comment by a high profile person as to the disgraceful non-provision made for the older members of society that need extra help is only to the good..the appaling, near criminal "care" that is given in some residential homes should be a cause of shame to us all....good on you dame judy for speaking out........get your fingers out any/all of you in so called government and make some radical changes, the older fully deserve it.........i will not hold my breath though..
08:25 PM on 02/15/2012
Well said Dame Judi.
07:33 PM on 02/15/2012
How on earth can AOL suggest that Dame Judi's heartfelt comments on the
elderly and their need for care
could be considered as "Entertainment", I do not know.
Somebody saw that the article was about a well-known actress and the brain
automatically filed the piece under an incorrect heading.
That's AOL all over.
06:40 PM on 02/15/2012
I'm pleased Dame Judy was able tolook after her parents and she is right about the disgrace of many care homes,but, unfortunately we are all not in the same position to provide 24/7 care for our elderly parents especially were they have been let down by GP's with the end result being the only place of care for them is a nursing home. This leaves their family everyday having to battle with the lack of care their parent is receiving and the feeling of guilt they are not able to look after them themselves which can leave their family heartbroken and deeply saddened a choice they would not wish on any other.
03:04 PM on 02/15/2012
Yes i agree elderly people are starved to death as no one can be bothered to look after them.
My mother was starved to death.
08:32 PM on 02/15/2012
Is it just me or does anyone else find this comment very odd ?.
01:34 PM on 02/15/2012
In response to Carmd - yes getting old may be frightening I know as I am now 68 BUT I thank God that I am still here, my brain still intact, suffer minor ailments, have worked all my life even after having children, own my own house, drive a 4x4, have written 2 books since retiring, and am now enjoying life without the hassle of getting up for work every day. I deserve to be treated with respect as I have thus far earned it.
01:29 PM on 02/15/2012
I agree with you Dame Judy but most young people today have no time for the elderly and see them as stinking or smelly. What they don't realise is that a very elderly person who in their younger days was hard working, clean and honest is now unable to care effectively for themselves and need aid. Thery are seen as not even fit for the scrap heap. I am not sure that in my own family their wouldn't be a certain amount of Granny Bashing and intollerance so I'm afraid it's living on my own until I am found dead behind the toilet door. They will decend, throw out all my precious things, probably have my dog put down and sell my property. They will pat themselves on the back for giving me a good send off. One that I have saved and planned for.
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12:38 PM on 02/15/2012
Pensioners should be paid to go into primary schools and share their life experiences. Show film clips of the wars and what life was like for our elderly before electricity was the norm! Show how they entertained themselves without it! When children are young they are very tolerant and eager to listen and learn. Gives the pensioners a purpose too which gets them out and about and in touch with the community. Would be money better spent than on some of the really rubbish 'lessons' kids get today.
11:28 AM on 02/15/2012
They keep telling us how many old people their are, perhaps if we got together and got rid of the rot.
(POWER TO THE VOTER.)
08:52 PM on 02/14/2012
The fact that there are only 5 comments in response to this article speaks for itself - nobody is interested in old people. Getting old is frightening.
07:56 PM on 02/14/2012
All well and fine for Dame Judi, not sure sure that she gave up too many well paid jobs to care for her elderly relatives. Big talk but just how much caring did she actually do for her mother etc, I realise acting is only a very well paid part time job but even so I am guessing she was away working some of the time. Not everybody is so lucky as to have a large enough house and lifestyle to cope with one let alone two or three elderly relatives. For someone who is not far from retirement age myself I would not expect or want my children to take care of me. They have their own lives and should be free to get on with them anyway they want without me getting in the way.
09:27 AM on 02/16/2012
But you took care of them when they needed it and would, I'm sure still help them all you could if needed? Why should it be different for them to help you when you need it? Fostering this self centred me, my lfie first is one of the reasons elderly people are abused and neglected in our society.
07:06 PM on 02/14/2012
You tell 'em, Dame Judi.. I'm fed up of all and sundry doing studies, or whatever happens to suit them, picking on older people as the root of all evil, in that they are getting older, and are allegedly a burden. I'm a burden on no-one, and what pension I get I have worked for all my life... but they will happily take my house off me, if I need to be cared for ( and that's a joke - cared for ) at some future point. The most recent insult is that it's old people's fault that young people can't get jobs... I don't think so.. maybe these millionaire hoorah henrys in parliament should think about starting some national industries to generate jobs and revenue instead of pointing fingers at older people.