It can be the first thing you agree on or last thing decision you make. Either way, choosing a first dance song ahead of your wedding is pretty difficult - especially if you're not a huge fan of Take That, Adele or anyone else who's managed to make their way onto a Greatest Love Songs compilation.
Worry not! There is a song out there for you, no matter what your wedding is going to be like. To help you along, we've put together a playlist of 10 alternative first dance songs. Really good ones no one else will have on their big day before you.
Some are slow and beautiful, others are a bit more lively and there's even a dance song, because who says you can't turn your first spin as Mr & Mrs into a two-person rave? (For the sake of clarity, no one - your wedding, your choice. The first rule of bride club: don't be bullied into anything).
Have a listen and hopefully you'll find a song that's just right for you (or at least feel a little bit more dreamy when you're getting on with all that wedmin).
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The Alternative First Dance Wedding Playlist (Part One)
The Alternative First Dance Wedding Playlist (Part Two)
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