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Period Drama - Connection to our Menstrual Cycle

Posted: 26/03/2012 17:53

Period Drama. No I'm not talking Downton Abbey or Upstairs Downstairs. Im talking about downstairs downstairs.

Periods, menses, on the blob, having the decorators in, moon cycle. It has many names and usually causes the same reaction in us - that "here we go again" feeling.

Its no wonder we feel like this and are generally disconnected from our cycle when aeons ago we would have been considered unclean and sent away from our village until we stopped bleeding. Whilst today's response is less extreme the mystery surrounding the menstrual cycle is still pretty tricky to figure out during puberty. I remember countless girls in my school being comforted as they mourned and coped with the shock of "coming on".

The general outlook is that we are "inconvenienced" by our cycle and this is exacerbated by the media - we are inundated with adverts telling us that we can still jump out of a plane whilst bleeding but only if we use their sanitary products as, without them we aren't able to function. Even the word " sanitary" annoys me, its clinical and suggests we can make it "clean".

We can make the cycle go away with the plethora of hormone contraceptives available now. However a really healthy menstrual bleed relies on an extremely delicate balance of hormones in our endocrine system. Contraceptives totally confuse this balance as do chemicals such as parabens (which are called Endocrine Disruptor Chemicals or EDC's)

It's actually strange that we think that hormone medications are a good idea when you sit back and think about what they do. I often see huge fallout when someone chooses to come off contraceptives and it can take alot of boosting to get the body to get back to normal. Not to mention the environmental and physiological issue of having so many hormones excreted into water and getting into the food chain!

I recently read a crazy article by Walter Last who actually believes that a menstrual bleed is toxic and symptomatic of ill health. He would probably still have us banished from our houses chased by pitchfork-wielding villagers. He recommends eating a raw food diet to stop your periods. This is called ammenorhea and is, in fact, a medical condition sometimes caused by being anemic, underweight or having a vitamin B12 deficiency which can be extremely dangerous!

According to many acupuncturists there will be different qualities of blood depending on how healthy your cycle is. This is a huge subject but in short its healthy to bleed on the full or half moon. Flow shouldn't be too fast and shouldn't hurt or feel difficult.

Blood needs to be a good red, not brown, or pink. It needs to be free flowing without clots or lumps and be viscose but not thick or watery. Your cycle is often the first sign of an imbalance in your body, so don't just ignore it. See a practitioner and get it sorted out.

Good solutions are not tampons. These are horrific for your body as they stuff up your flow and can lead to re-absorption of the stuff your body is trying to get rid of. Tampons are a possible cause of Endometriosis not to mention thrush,TSS, vestibulitis and terrible environmental waste.

Pads are okay but personally I favour Mooncup, They are easy, fuss free and environment friendly. I love seeing how my cycle changes each day and I've become really tuned in to what my body is doing. You don't get that with tampons there is no discernible daily difference as the tampon sucks up everything.

Of course if you have problems with your periods or are going through the menopause it can be tough to celebrate it but by working with a Kinesiologist or other alternative health practitioner you can get to the bottom of the problem and be free to really admire this incredible process.

It is the deep source of our feminine power, that we can have an entire cycle of life and death take place in our body every month. To really embrace your flow it's important to stop being embarrassed by it. If you have never let your blood actually run free down your leg and watched it in awe and honour, you really wanna give it a go. You can shower afterwards but just try watching it for a minute or two and ignore the ridiculous conditioned "eugh" thoughts. This isn't an injury or a problem, it's our deep mystery, it's the reason men don't get us and the reason that the feminine was deeply suppressed for thousands of years.

Wear it like a badge of honour it makes you part of the womens army. I know an incredible woman who has been known to smear her face like war paint with her menstrual blood. Another I know empties her moon cup on her roses. I for one love my cycle and feel deeply in touch with my body now I witness it doing its thing and not just stuffing it up with tampons.

So I ask you to reconsider your period, not as an inconvenience but as this incredible cycle that shows how inextricably we are linked to nature. Our emotions change every 60 hours because of our hormone response to our cycle, which explains a lot. The hugest changes in a woman's life are marked by the coming and going of this cycle - puberty, childbearing and then becoming a tribe elder. Ultimately, it is the sign we women and our amazing, strong and gorgeous magical bodies have the power to grow and support a life. What's not to like about that?

 

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04:25 PM on 04/11/2012
I would like you to comment further on how exactly tampons cause endometriosis? Do you actually understand the disease or are you just making up random assumptions with no idea? Also for those of us that have endo, periods are certainly not something to be celebrated i can assure you.
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:15 AM on 05/14/2012
Hi thanks for the comment. I have had a lot of experience with this condition professionally, you are right that no one yet knows the actual cause of endometriosis but it has been possibly linked to the use of tampons because of the effect of dioxin but this is unproven. For some people symptoms lessen if they avoid tampons for others there is no difference. I really believe that every condition has a reason for being we just need to figure out what it is and give our bodies the best chance it can to heal. Avoiding tampons, dealing with the emotions behind endometriosis, boosting the endocrine system are all positive things to support the body to heal and avoiding any chemicals etc can only support this work. Good luck
06:17 PM on 04/02/2012
tampons are not a cause of endometriosis. period, no pun intended.
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:15 AM on 05/14/2012
Thanks for the comment. You are right that no one yet knows the actual cause of endometriosis but it has been possibly linked to the use of tampons because of the effect of dioxin but this is unproven. For some people symptoms lessen if they avoid tampons for others there is no difference.
04:13 AM on 03/30/2012
Thank you for writing this, I do agree that the monthly flow doesn't need to be a curse. Many women may have a hard time accepting this concept because they experience extremely painful periods (I was one of them). As you said your cycle is often the first sign of an imbalance in your body. This may be due to the position of your uterus which can be corrected with Maya abdominal therapy. Painful periods may also be due to diet, emotional tension held in the body, xenoestrogens, or physical alignment of the pelvis. And according to Ayurveda being out of sync with the moon cycle, which ideally we should bleed with the new moon and ovulate with the full moon, which makes much more sense to me than bleeding with the full moon. The New Moon is a time to go inward. The time of the full moon is a time when people would go out and have celebrations or socialize before there was artificial lighting, so it makes sense that it would be natural for people to come together when women are ovulating.
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:16 AM on 05/14/2012
Thanks for the wonderful and insightful comment, very interested in the abdominal therapy - will be investigating!
03:15 AM on 03/30/2012
Thank you for writing about something that not many are even willing to ponder. It makes me sad that some women have such difficult and painful periods. It makes me even sadder that this frustration, pain and depression about a wondrous thing gets passed on to the next generation by way of thinking, and can become a viscous cycle (pun intended). If we grow up with women in our lives that have negative feelings about their menses we are much more likely to feel that way too. The pain will get passed on unless it is dealt with. Let's celebrate and be PROUD of our bodies :)
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:17 AM on 05/14/2012
A really amazing insight, I completely agree, thanks so much for sharing
04:43 AM on 03/29/2012
What a provocative article on our cycles. I totally agree that it's in our best interest to embrace everything about our cycles and to pay attention to what's happening to our bodies. The best way to do that is to keep things as natural as possible, no hormone medication and no tampons. I've created a bracelet that acts as a guide to a regular menstrual cycle and is extremely helpful for young girls going through puberty. http://www.feby.com
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:08 AM on 05/14/2012
This is amazing! thanks so much for the great comment. will pass info on about your amazing bracelets!
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Anne Marie313
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05:18 PM on 03/28/2012
I understand what the writer is saying, but I can pretty confidently say that her cycle symptoms are not even close to as severe as mine are. Heavy periods run in my family and I have to take iron supplements before and during the period or else I suffer anemia. I also get severe cramping, acne, mood swings and depression. In stressful times my period has been known to get so effected that I ended up calling out of work for a day or two to sleep and take pain relievers. I might try the moon cup though it sounds like a better alternative to my hoover dam alternative that combines pads and tampons.
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:07 AM on 05/14/2012
Thanks for the comment. I wrote this actually in response to some really horrendous periods. My old behaviour would have been to be negative about it but I chose to come from a place of gratitude and trying to understand the message my body had for me. There are many alternative therapies that can really help support heavy periods I have seen this professionally be successful many times. Good luck
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Shreen Ayob
04:41 PM on 03/28/2012
I think I understand what you're saying. That by re-framing the menstrual cycle as something to be celebrated, we might feel less frustrated by it and therefore this improves our general well-being.

But for many women including myself, all I can muster up in response is: Oh. That's nice.

It might be interesting to watch blood dribble down our legs (I am not squeamish) but some of us would faint if we tried to stand up for too long. And getting it "sorted" when we have severe and unhealthy symptoms is not an option. No medication helps, no amount of diet-fixing helps, and having surgery seems too risky and has potentially disastrous side-effects.

For some of us our menstrual cycle is a source of deep resentment, frustration and depression. Especially for those of us who chose to never have a child.

So thanks but no thanks, I will not be celebrating those debilitating few days. What I find more beneficial is to use mindfulness techniques to deal with and accept the pain, instead of trying to fight it and becoming wound up - which isn't too far off what you're suggesting. I just disagree that there is any beauty or joy in something so destructive in many women's lives.
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Anne Marie313
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05:20 PM on 03/28/2012
agreed 100%
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Claire Snowdon-Darling
11:05 AM on 05/14/2012
Thanks so much for the comment - apologies for the delay in responding there was a tech issue. I really hear and empathise with what you are saying and in my professional experience I have seen many period issues sorted. Maybe you have been looking at "solutions" that don't work for you, persevere there are many options out there and it will be really liberating when you can celebrate this incredible cycle!