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Why I Spent a Day Fasting This Ramadan and What I Learnt

Posted: 20/08/2012 10:14

Over 3000 Muslim athletes competed in the Olympics earlier this summer and at the same time it was Ramadan. Like thousands of my constituents in Leicester, many of those athletes will have observed the fast.

With this in mind this year I wanted to make an effort to appreciate Ramadan on a much deeper and indeed personal level. I wanted to get a direct sense of what Muslims physically and mentally go through in denying themselves food and drink from sunrise to sunset. But I also wanted to understand further the spiritual side of Islam. So this year I decided to fast myself, although only for day.

Before deciding to fast I honestly thought long and hard about whether the gesture from a white politician of a Christian background would be considered patronising or as stunt and indeed some have accused me of that. But I embarked on this challenge from a genuine sense of respect for Islam, and a curiosity to understand more fully something which is so important to so many people across Leicester.

My day started early at around 2.30am, I wasn't sure what to expect so thought best to stock up on a healthy breakfast of porridge with berries and a large fruit smoothie.

Arriving at the mosque at 3am I was struck by the sheer beauty of the building inside and by the buzz as worshippers sat on the floor at the front tucking into a breakfast of toast and cornflakes. Perhaps I was expecting a quietness like a retreat but there was a real camaraderie as everyone greeted one another and enjoyed suhoor together. Feeling encouraged I had my second breakfast of the day, and heeding advice I had received minutes earlier on twitter drank as much water as I possibly could.

At around 3.30 the mosque was now full and the imam began the prayers, I sat at the back watching and thinking how remarkable it was such numbers were present including so many young people in the mosque this early in the morning. There was a real community spirit and a sense that what was happening was very special and important. As prayers ended and I left, I felt grateful I had enjoyed the privilege of witnessing these prayers. It had made getting up so early in the morning worth it, though I was still determined to go back to bed even if only for a few hours.

Later my day followed the usual pattern of a constituency MP - going to the office dealing with correspondence, meeting constituents, reacting to news that unemployment had increased again. But this time I couldn't stop thinking about coffee and was beginning to feel hunger cramps in my stomach.

Realising I wouldn't be able to cope simply sitting in my office all day, I took more advice from twitter and decided to keep busy by going out and about in the constituency.

First stop was the Jassat family. The daughter Farah has already blogged about it here. This family explained to me how important Ramadan is to both family life and community life. Farah told me that between breakfast and lunch she usually feels hungry but in Ramadan the spiritual experience gives her strength and she feels no hunger. It occurred to me that I too was no longer feeling hungry either, was I beginning to experience something more spiritual as well?

However, although I might have defeated the hunger cramps my head was starting to pound, "am I allowed nurofen I texted a muslim friend?" apparently not came the unsurprising reply.

By five I was feeling tired and while fielding questions on a local community radio station on the outrageous and atrocious sectarian violence towards the Rohingya Muslims in Burma, I worried I was becoming less and less coherent. Finding it difficult to concentrate I wondered how Muslim students would cope in a year or two when Ramadan coincides with exam time.

Thinking about how I would have been as a teenager at Ramadan I decided to meet some young people and ask of their experiences of fasting. It soon was obvious that these young men and women were like most other teenagers, chatting about the Olympics, football, television, music and so on. But it was also clear how important their religion is to them. They told me they enjoyed fasting and that being a Muslim was part of their identity. Many had been involved in extensive charity work throughout Ramadan and they were all driven by a desire to help those much less fortunate than themselves. I was impressed.

Later that evening I was due back at the Mosque at about 8.30pm for the breaking of the fast before the iftar meal.

In the mosque sitting with others, waiting to break fast I felt I was genuinely part of something quite extraordinary. It was certainly a time for reflection and when we all together broke the fast with a date it was an emotional moment. Not because I was finally eating, but because I genuinely felt a sense of solidarity and community doing something in the knowledge that thousands of others were taking part in the exact same ceremony.

I finished the evening at the neighbouring church for an inter-faith iftar meal where all of Leicester's faith groups were represented. It had been a long tough day but equally a worthwhile and moving day. Especially as I had been bowled over by the kindness and support I had received throughout the day from people of all backgrounds. That evening I felt even prouder than usual to represent such a wonderfully diverse constituency and city.

It was appropriate to finish the day at an interfaith iftar because through my own small experience of Ramadan, I saw that Islam shares the same guiding principles as many other faiths. On a very basic level, using the discipline of abstinence as a way of appreciating what you, and your loved ones, are fortunate enough to enjoy while allowing you to empathise with those who have very little. But more than that, it is about a shared experience, about family, friends and community. For example, when I was invited to break fast with others at the Mosque, I was offered friendship as well as food.

Islam is a religion, sadly often much misunderstood in the west and although my own experience was for just one day, I saw a religion which took pride in extending kindness, peace and understanding to those within the religion and those from outside.

And next year, I'm already looking forward to doing it again.

 

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Over 3000 Muslim athletes competed in the Olympics earlier this summer and at the same time it was Ramadan. Like thousands of my constituents in Leicester, many of those athletes will have observed th...
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clownzozo
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17:08 on 28/08/2012
Kindness, peace and a promise that killing an infidel will gain you a place in Paradise?

Not much sign of 'love and peace' in Islamabad where they are trying a young mentally deficient youngster for inadvertently burning pages of the Koran, and angry crowds wanting to kill and burn his entire family.

Perhaps you should first practice your own religion, Christianity. Sell what you have and give it to the poor. What was it Jesus said, "You shall know them by their deeds, for any man may boast."
20:19 on 28/08/2012
Sir,killing an infidel will not grant a Muslim a place in paradise! perhaps hearing the news or watching TV is not a reliable source to get information from.If u read or maybe practiced Islam, like JON, u will find how it is misunderstood.
Concerning what u said about practicing christianity first, Christianity is a great religion but do u to undervalue other religions to show what ur religion is worth...
Finally, U should read more about Islam and other religions and i repeat "read not listen or watch".I personally do,and i advise to do so as well.
20:33 on 28/08/2012
do u have to*
20:40 on 26/08/2012
Jon Ashworth you are very disappointing. An attempt at vote catching is what I see.
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06:31 on 26/08/2012
Coddling up to primitive traditions is nothing to be proud of.

Try fasting at Lent and see if that gets you in the news. My guess is that you'd just be ridiculed, and for good reason. It's no different with Islam.
22:02 on 25/08/2012
I lived int eh Middle East for Ramadan last year and it's not exactly like you think. Most nationals (Muslims) only work a half day during the fast and they spend a lot of time sleeping or resting during the daytime (fasting time) and then stay up late eating/celebrating. I personally did not participate but I certainly didn't notice anyone suffering, just a change in lifestyle patterns...as in everything shifted to nighttime.
22:07 on 25/08/2012
I'm pretty sure I read somewhere that not all Muslim athletes were going to fast for the Olympics, http://www.thenational.ae/lifestyle/ask-ali-the-fasting-rules-for-muslim-olympic-athletes

I've seen before that Muslims can "make up days" if they have to break the fast or do other "forbidden" things during Ramadan.
17:26 on 25/08/2012
Islam is a religion, sadly often much misunderstood in the west and although my own experience was for just one day, I saw a religion which took pride in extending kindness, peace and understanding to those within the religion and those from outside.
23:50 on 23/08/2012
Hope you join again next year in God's will :))
22:48 on 22/08/2012
I really hope Next year you will fasting as a Muslim
May God guide you to his road :)
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Collette Walsh
16:27 on 22/08/2012
a day? a WHOLE day.... *shakes head* . It would be different if he had followed fasting during Ramadan fully ... it's just laughable to say he did 'for a day'... and patronising.
15:26 on 25/08/2012
It doesn't matter whether he did it for a day or a month, the whole idea was that he did it in order to feel our turmoil and enthusiasm during the time of ramadan. Ramadan is not about the suffering that we go through, but rather as he mentioned, the spiritual feeling we feel and how it ceases most differences between social classes. Don't discriminate because he did not complete the whole cycle of Ramadan, because it is also just as difficult. Even though we have to fast for a whole month , our bodies have had years of preparation for this task with all the Ramadans that have passed, this was his first time and he managed to fast for the whole day, I'm sure you can remember your first time fasting? All in all, i feel a sense of respect towards this man for taking on such a task that takes years of our youth to prepare for. I'm glad he did it and because of him others will have a better sense of what we go through during Ramadan. Instead of focusing on the fact that he only fasted for one day, you should look at what he actually did in order to experience the feeling of being a muslim.
06:22 on 22/08/2012
Great story, we're proud of you in the states. As there are so many closed minded people here. I think UK is a bit more open to new experiences and cultures over the US. Ignore those who are ignorant and less open minded. At least you tried to understand. Good Job!
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William Lamb
18:05 on 21/08/2012
all of this from one day. I`m sure they were on their best behavior that day as well..it seems that the ignorance goes both ways
00:51 on 25/08/2012
Hi William,

i'm sure that not all Muslims are perfect but i believe that no one is perfect too, however what was in the note above was just spotting one side of Islam that many couldn't see, and you can try same experience yourself at any place without arranging that and let me know then if your experience would be less exciting

Regarding ignorance i may disagree simply because Marry has a full chapter in Quran (Sura) and Jesus Peace Be Upon Him was mentioned 25 times while Muhammed PBUH was mentioned only 4 times and as example in Egypt we know a lot about Christian Religion and they know a lot abut Islam it is just that we can never judge unless we know

Thank you so much for your comment and hope my comment would be a part of sharing views and opinions
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William Lamb
03:05 on 25/08/2012
the word ignoranhad been too strong to use .I actually meant misunderstanding on both side
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17:16 on 21/08/2012
cool
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16:58 on 21/08/2012
Check out the blog newmethofesto.com, where Pastor Wes Magruder of the United Methodist Church in Texas blogs about his experience fasting the entire month of Ramadan! It's truly an enjoyable blog and worth reading!
12:51 on 21/08/2012
Well done Jon - it sounds like you found it tough towards the end of the afternoon, but funnily enough it only takes a day or two for the body to adjust. If you'd done it for a few days in a row then it would have got easier. (Hardest thing for me is dealing with the interrupted sleep.)