Kids' Birthday Parties: Seven Great Reasons NOT To Have One

03/03/2017 14:54

Full credit to anyone who can be bothered with kids birthday parties. I salute you and your commitment to the mumming cause.

But should any of you be flirting with the idea of denying your kids the pleasure of running up and down an over-priced hall, here's my top reasons to help you decide not to bother.

1. THE TIGHTROPE OF NUTRITIONAL NOURISHMENT

You may want to 'do the right thing' and not just smear pizza and wotsits onto your guests faces. But even the most stringent of food fascists will recognise that most kids think quinoa is an animal and that giving them kale crisps will be met with the same reaction as giving the adults kangaroo testicles.

Cut your cucumber sticks if you must, but the closest they'll come to being consumed is if someone sticks them in their nose/ears/bottom and absorbs the nutrients by osmosis.

Because what everyone really wants is....

2. THE E NUMBERS OF DOOM

E-numbers in kids are like ecstasy tablets in adults - all good to begin with. Best friendships will be forged within seconds, they'll dance to any old rubbish and someone, somewhere will be massaging cake into another kid's hair.

But then someone craps their pants, someone else starts freaking out and before you know it you've emerged blinking into the sunlight with the mother of all come downs wondering WTF JUST HAPPENED?

3. THE FUN GAMES OF FUTILITY

If you want to get a sense of what it's like trying to marshal a room full of children into playing the same game at the same time, try clearing up a garden full of leaves on a windy day using only your voice.

My special favourite is watching a game of pass the parcel unfold. Kids are hard-wired not to pass the parcel. You may as well be watching twenty mini Gollums from Lord of the Rings wrestling with giving up their Preciousssssss, only replace the Howard Shore score with Black Lace.

And no, sticking a sweet in every wrapper does not overcome the disappointment of missing out on the one final toy to rule them all and in the darkness bind them.

4. THE BIRTHDAY CAKE OF HOW FRIGGING MUCH?

I don't know about you, but I object to paying loads of money for something that gets about one minute in the spotlight and then gets cut into indistinguishable pieces to be taken away and dumped the minute guests get back to their kitchen bin.

Trouble is, I am also terrible at making cakes. I made one once - it was meant to be a Number one garnished with satsuma segments. It was only on completion I realised it looked like a cock and ball combo. It tasted like one too.

Also, note to all: a napkin is not an adequate receptacle for taking cake home in. It's like serving spaghetti bolognaise in a shoe.

5. THE FANCY DRESS OF CAN'T BE FAFFED

Many birthday parties nowadays have a theme, with everyone INVITED! TO! COME! IN! OPTIONAL (NOT REALLY)! FANCY! DRESS! This is essentially giving parents the gift of additional admin.

Before even considering it, ask yourself if you'd be comfortable walking up to a mum you barely know at the school gates and asking her to do your tax return. The effect is the same.

6. THE GIFT LIST OF POLITICAL MINEFIELD

Create a list, risk looking more grabby than one of those arcade claw games. Say no gifts, everyone thinks you're a cruel witch. Or worse - a bit environmental. Say nothing, and risk a table full of tat to rival the school tombola.

The latter is the worst. When you consider your average kid can get more attached to an empty toilet roll tube than a human parent, there is no way you'll be able to sneak that crap out of the house in the dead of night.

7. THE PROFESSIONAL ENTERTAINERS OF FFS

The main problem with getting a decent entertainer (apart from the fee and the having to book whilst your kid's still an embryo) is that they will become your child's favourite person OF ALL TIME.

'Hah Hah, that person blew up a balloon and it made a farting sound and now I want to live with them,' they will say. And you will think 'look you ungrateful little sod, I once turned my arsehole inside out to give birth to you, and as a result I now struggle to make ANY farting sounds, thank you very much'.

And that's your thoughts. On their birthday. When you are trying to make everything all magical and that.

IN CONCLUSION

So I say save yourself the stress. Manipulate them into thinking they want ANYTHING other than a birthday party. Bribe them with cash if you have to.

Just step away from the Pinterest board, for that way craziness lies.

You can find more great reasons not to do things that other people think you should on my blog at iamsalt. Thanks for reading.

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