Breastfeeding Mothers Stage Brighton Flash-Mob

Breastfeeding Flashmob

First Posted: 15/12/11 16:26 GMT Updated: 15/12/11 17:08 GMT   PA

A hardy group of mothers staged a breastfeeding flash-mob demonstration in a city centre to declare their right to feed their babies in public.

Up to 40 mothers, some accompanied by their partners, descended on Brighton, East Sussex, and breastfed their children in front of Christmas shoppers.

Claire Jones-Hughes, 38, organised the demonstration after she was criticised by customers in a cafe for breastfeeding one of her daughters last week.

She was confronted by a group of four middle-aged women and a man in her favourite vegetarian restaurant, Wai Kika Moo Kau, after feeding four-month-old Callie.

Mrs Jones-Hughes said: "One woman said, 'It was very unpleasant watching you feed. You should have covered up more'. When I protested, the others joined in, and the man said, 'You should have used a towel'.

"I was really shocked, especially as I'd gone to a lot of effort to be discreet. You usually get nice comments when you're with a baby, and I couldn't believe I was having this conversation. In their world, it was completely unnatural that they should see me doing that."

Despite the support of another customer, Mrs Jones-Hughes was visibly shaken and reduced to tears by the incident.

She said: "After they left, the manager came over to ask what happened and was mortified when I told him. When I calmed down it reminded me of all the stories I've heard from other women who've had similar experiences."

After drumming up support online, Mrs Jones-Hughes encouraged other women to brave the cold to feed their babies as part of the flash mob at the Clock Tower.

The customer services manager, who also has a three-year-old daughter Lexie, said she hoped the event would give confidence to mothers who are nervous about breastfeeding in public.

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01:52 PM on 12/22/2011
it says everything about our society that not only do we not support and celebrate those responsible for children, but instead of rewarding mothers who provide the substantial benefits of breastfeeding, we SHAME them. let's stop pretending "children are the future" or that we care about them, we our society wants anything that has to do with caring for them or raising them swept under a rug or those responsible for their care punished and marginalized. it's fine that you're against breastfeeding, but don't pretend that you EVER cared about children when you ask, a breastfeeding woman to stop or feed in a bathroom.
06:06 PM on 12/19/2011
I was nursing in a department store dressing room in 1988 when the store clerk asked me to please leave saying that it was inappropriate for me to do so in that location, she asked that I go to the restroom to continue feeding my baby. I asked her if that was where she preferred to eat her lunch.
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11:49 AM on 12/18/2011
Hey I scratch my balls when they get sweaty, its natural, I dont think there is a law against it but I would not do with other folks around. Maybe a flash mob of guys scratching balls would have offset the flash mob breast feeders., they could have faced off.
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05:10 PM on 01/06/2012
A fine example of the level of intelligence that takes issue with breastfeeding that you compare it with scratching your balls.
11:41 PM on 12/15/2011
A group of four middle-aged women and a man, so all about 40 ish then, about her age. Maybe it wasn't very nice to watch I for one try to keep all my body parts under my clothes in a restaurant, then again it was a vegetarian restaurant so they are fussy picky people anyway.
Yeah yeah yeah a baby needs fed whenever, its called a breast pump give it a try or be more discreet about it. There is a fine line between being natural and lovely and in your face, if done right then no one has to see any tit.
11:57 PM on 12/15/2011
I would never say no to a tit in my face in any restaurant, perhaps it was because they were veggies.
03:25 PM on 12/16/2011
kiddies
05:41 PM on 12/17/2011
Not judgemental at all, are you?
11:38 PM on 12/15/2011
It was 1980 and I was in a cafe breastfeeding my 6 week old son. I had a shawl round my shoulders and was reading the biggest newspaper I could find, when a friend came up gripped the paper and introduced me to her parents. Up until that point nobody knew what I was doing...
11:09 PM on 12/15/2011
Whats all the fuss about, its natural....well done ladies.
10:38 PM on 12/15/2011
See more titflesh in any bar on a saturday night than all the mums in the photo put together.
10:30 PM on 12/15/2011
What i don't understand, these people who object to breast feeding babies, firstly i think they have a problem, secondly would they object to Zulu girls dancing bare breasted as they do, i dont think so, and you have to ask yourself why not, both are quit natural.
11:59 PM on 12/15/2011
Don't know whether I'd be keen on bare breasted Zulu girls dancing around while I was trying to drink my latte in a cafe
03:29 AM on 12/16/2011
If they were dancing quietly, I wouldn't have a problem with it.
10:13 PM on 12/15/2011
No real objections, but recently I was approached in a coffee shop by a young woman asking if I was going (I had only just arrived) I said no problem if she wanted to share the table, but no she had actually come into the coffee shop to breast-feed the baby. I thought coffee shops were for coffee...although sometime you wonder if you are coming into a crèche...
01:56 PM on 12/22/2011
the fact that you act as though children and those who care for children don't deserve to share any public spaces with you says everything about the issue here. mothers can't go to a coffee shop? they can't feed their hungry children because it offends your delicate eyes? the real infants here are the adults who can't consider children's needs first.
10:09 PM on 12/15/2011
Fantastic good for you mums has a mum myself I would have sat down and joined you.
10:04 PM on 12/15/2011
When a baby needs feeding it is very simple, feed it.
The sentisivities of people around are irrelevant, the needs of the baby are paramount.
I was a Parking Attendant Supervisor, in Westminster, who issued more than 50 'tickets' a day,
I came across a mother feeding her baby in her, illegally , parked car.
No way did that lady get a ticket.
A big smile from me and a grin from her.
Babies need feeding when they want it, mothers know that and so do I, as a dad.
Breast is best and stuff the sad people who forget the needs of the child.
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09:54 PM on 12/15/2011
I'm not against breast feeding, I'm against in your face 'tits oot' with attitude kind of breast feeding! Done discreetly, not a problem, done by throwing paps around and remarks like 'what you looking at perverts?' does nothing for the cause!
11:06 PM on 12/15/2011
I agree with the wot ru looking at pervert part. I agree 1.000 %
09:34 PM on 12/15/2011
The trouble with all this is that "sensitivity" to natural breast feeding is pandering to the minority, women breast feed in France when the baby needs a feed, including on the metro. The baby is hungry and it can't be expected to appreciate unnatural inhibitions, it has to be fed. Very few people object, most of us think it's lovely, but the objectors are the ones with the big mouths. Would they object if the baby was being bottle fed? What about being burped? That's when it might be sick all over you. Or do you leave the baby in pain and unburped if you're in public.
I suggest that the few sick people who object, instead of reducing mothers to tears, should leave the train/bus/restaurant/this life and let normal people get on with it. Meanwhile, those of us who have managed to make human being can protect our mothers and children.
09:11 PM on 12/15/2011
Ha I have twins, fed them mostly in private because would have made everyone's toes curl seeing a baby on each breast. However my first was a singleton and was most certainly breast fed in public. If you are discreet I don't see the problem, anyone would have had to be looking hard to see my breast. I have seen many women breastfeed and the majority are very discreet. Ladies stand up for the rights of your child.
09:57 PM on 12/15/2011
GOOD FOR YOU !!!! as a pensioner & a father of three the sight of a mother breast feeding her baby is one of the most wonderfull sights any one can see,ITS NATURAL !! I can honestly say that AT NO TIME has any lady feeding her child (that i have wittnesed) DELIBERATELY exposed her breasts ,& be honest anyone can see a lot more on the beach or even walking along the pavement in town during the evening,the prissy minded morons that verbally assulted this young mother need SERIOUS medical treatment,ALL I can say to all these protesting mothers is "CARRY ON PROTESTING" you have broken NO LAWS & are doing what NATURE intended,as long as it is done discreatly HOW THE HELL CAN IT OFFEND unless you have a warped mind !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
08:58 PM on 12/15/2011
Some people don't want to see it. Isn't that reason enough to be discreet? Just because you've done something that even the lowest life form can do (reproduce) does that make you more important than everyone else? I appreciate that pumping hurts and that baby can need a feed anytime/place, but cover your breast up!! Remove the kid and you'd be flashing in public. Is that ok? Sex is natural - as is death and body waste elimination. I wouldn't want to see any of that in a restaurant or on a bus...and I don't want to see your lactating boobs either!
10:06 PM on 12/15/2011
Remember the needs of the child, what is wrong with a mother feeding a child?
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10:13 PM on 12/15/2011
What do you mean "but cover your breast up"? -- there's a baby in front of it, for goodness sakes. There's nothing to see, really, unless you are incredibly inquisitive.
ANd besides -- it's just a Happy Meal.
I do agree with you, however, that "body waste elimination" in public is unsavoury. Especially in a crowded restaurant.
I'd tend to give people a little more leeway on "death" in public, however, as few are likely to take your personal sensitivities into consideration when having their acute cardiac arrest, stroke or traffic accident.

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