Matthew Todd, Editor Of Attitude: 'The Church Should Beg For Forgiveness For Ruining Lives Of Gay People'

The Huffington Post UK  |  By Posted: Updated: 04/04/2012 17:26

One of Britain's most influential gay journalists has launched an outspoken attack against the Church by saying it should beg for forgiveness for ruining the lives of gay people.

Matthew Todd, editor of Attitude Magazine, writes for The Huffington Post today about how his own experience of dealing with Christian organisations left him needing counselling.

The issue of gay marriage has been fiercely debated in recent weeks after Cardinal Keith O'Brien that countries that had brought in same sex marriage were "violating human rights."

Now Todd, the Stonewall journalist of the year, hits back at the Christian Church which he says "still cannot give up its perverse obsession with gay sex."."

He writes: It (the Church) should be begging forgiveness from society because of the LGBT people whose lives it has diminished over the millennia.

It should be doing all it can to nurture and help all young people into becoming the upstanding, caring citizens they can be, unfettered from sexual shame and dogma, and it should be taking pride in an inclusive, embracing attitude that celebrates all loving relationships, which are the fundamental essence of God.

Instead in 2012, as the social fabric of this country is feeling more and more unstable, the Church has created a fierce battle over something that will not harm, hurt or even affect anyone except the couples who wish to marry.

In doing so it has again shown itself as being run by sexually obsessive, hard hearted, fear mongers. I pray their God forgives them. A generation will not.

READ HIS FULL BLOG HERE

Attitude Magazine is celebrating its 18th birthday and has interviewed people such as Tony Blair, David Cameron and Daniel Radcliffe.

This month's edition includes an interview with soldier Lance Corporal James Wharton who fought in the Iraq war and escorted the Queen to Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding, but who has spoken out against critics of plans to introduce gay marriage.

Do you agree with Attitude editor Matthew Todd? Leave a comment below

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One of Britain's most influential gay journalists has launched an outspoken attack against the Church by saying it should beg for forgiveness for ruining the lives of gay people. Matthew Todd, edit...
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Activist Annie
03:01 PM on 04/09/2012
It's about time the Church acknowledges that this is nature and that try as they may, they cannot change nature.
WishfulThinkingRulesAll
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12:20 AM on 04/07/2012
"saying it should beg for forgiveness for ruining the lives of gay people."

Pfft. What nonsense. The church should slink away and eventually stop existing (or become such a shadow of its former self that it has no power). Why should we forgive the church as if we want it to stick around?
12:12 AM on 04/07/2012
The church has ruined a lot of lives and still does. God is love! terms and conditions may apply.
11:23 PM on 04/06/2012
The issue of gay marriage has been fiercely debated in recent weeks after Cardinal Keith O'Brien that countries that had brought in same sex marriage were "violating human rights."

As someone who belives in equality I have no problem with the Civil partnerships Act or the Gender Recognition Act both of 2004 in so far as it goes in relation to equal treatment and banning of discrimination etc .However I think that marriage is a step to far .It will lead to mans ultimate destruction as man is meant to procreate if you have a same sex relationship then how can this be acheived natually ...it cant ..I have no issues with adoption ,,after all what matters is not the sexual orientation of the parents ,but the question is will they provide a stable safe upbringing for the child ..that is in the childs best interest ...of course they will ... this has been backed up by research ...I fail to see what benefit Gay marriage will achieve apart from upsetting and creating more hatred towards people of a diffrent sexual orientaion .Further to be honest comments from Cardinal O'Brien will do nothing to assit the current views of those opposed it will only inflame the whold debate .
09:43 PM on 04/06/2012
Still a lot of comments being removed, that's two of mine so far. Definitely hit a raw nerve me thinks.
09:38 PM on 04/06/2012
A lot of comments have been removed, mine too. Did we hit a raw nerve ? Down with the church and their gay paedophiles. Sort yourselves out before judging on others.
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06:03 PM on 04/06/2012
If god created everyone in his own image, then NOBODY should be treated with inequality. i myself am not religous but have read the bible as part of a study. it doesnt say anywhere in the bible that same sex marriage and same sex love is bad or a sin, it only says "laying" with another man is a sin. and many priests and important christians have said upon questioning that not all the bible messages shold be taken literally, so who is to decide which entrys should and shouldnt be literal. Also if god created everyone in his own image, and he created straight people and LGBT people, surely god himself is LGBT? and just for the lols, they said god has 3 "faces", so if he created everyone in his own image, does that make people with multiple personality disorder more perfect?
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12:28 AM on 04/07/2012
If god created everyone in his own image, does that mean he has both male and female bits?
09:02 AM on 08/10/2012
Wow, thats actually a good question! If god created everyone in his own image, does that mean he has both male and female bits? Thats so smart! I wonder if anybody else has ever thought of that before! I dont think so!
05:04 PM on 04/06/2012
I think those gays who abstain from same sex relations will be pleased with their reward when they get to St. Peters gates while those who did not will be sorely displeased by their choice to ignore what the God has stated many times in the Bible and the writings of the Early Church. Life is about choosing Eternal Life with Christ (salvation). The gays should apologized to the Church for all the mean things they have done/said to the Church in order to get their way.
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08:42 PM on 04/06/2012
Haha...you've had too much kool-aid.
11:05 AM on 04/06/2012
Dear Fellow posters, as we enter the final weekend of Lent, it is appropriate for me to switch off my computer for a weekend of meditation and contemplation. May I take this opportunity to wish you all a pleasant, peaceful and rewarding Easter Holiday ?
With our spiritual batteries renewed, I am sure we can all return to fruitful and meaningful debate after Easter Sunday ! Remember, even those who disbelieve can be saved !
WishfulThinkingRulesAll
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12:29 AM on 04/07/2012
You were doing fine until the last sentence.
09:20 AM on 08/10/2012
Wow, you certainly put that guy in his place!! Your rhetorical witts are unmatched. Nobody comes close to your ability to spread the truth! WORD!

Did you see that? Capital letters! Its like shouting! Isn't that so cool? And awesome?
09:53 AM on 04/06/2012
What is the difference between civil partnership and mariage?
10:28 AM on 04/06/2012
Civil partnership is a joke and marriage means something.
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stevesheff
05:13 PM on 04/06/2012
Take these examples of a 'proper' marriage:
suppose there was a marriage between a couple and the man, at the time of the engagement he said to his feelings for his future wife as 'love - whatever that may be." And supose he continued to have an affair with a married woman before and after the grand wedding ceremony? And when his wife died, he married his mistress who became a duchess, with no apparent embarrassment? Now there you have not one but two marriages which are complete jokes,
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03:45 PM on 04/06/2012
Marriage - at least in the US - comes with all sorts of benefits. For example, married couples can file joint income taxes and get tax breaks; a spouse cannot be barred from seeing their spouse in the hospital; married couples can put one another on their insurance plans; there are even immigration and citizenship issues that are made much easier by marriage to a citizen. Civil partnership confers none of these benefits. It's a palliative, but it doesn't work.
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01:50 AM on 04/06/2012
Boris Johnson wrote "if gay marriage was OK - and I was uncertain on the issue - then I saw no reason in principle why a union should not be consecrated between three men, as well as two men, or indeed three men and a dog.

Where does this stop? A woman married the Eiffel Tower..... People have married animals http://psycheskinner.hubpages.com/hub/People-Who-Married-Animals

Really...... where does this madness stop? Monty Python would be hard pressed to beat this lot.
10:12 AM on 04/06/2012
But can you honesty take what Boris says seriously?
10:40 AM on 04/06/2012
As opposed to ' dishonestly' taking Borris seriousily ?
10:59 PM on 04/05/2012
God made Adam and Eve ,Not Adam and Steve.
11:35 PM on 04/05/2012
Yep, thats what the bible said Adam and Eve. The bible also said a lot of other things, do you follow them or do them? Gandhi said if everyone took "an eye for an eye" literally, everyone would be blind! There is nothing in the bible that says homosexuality is wrong.
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11:54 PM on 04/05/2012
Ghandi never got a mention in my bible!
The eye for an eye bit did, Also a tooth for a tooth and a life for a life.
I can't see my dentist because I'm dead- See where I am going (pun)
there are many sections in the old testament that clearly define that man shall not lay with man!
(I do not believe any of the bible and do not have any gay tendency or decry those that do)
10:44 AM on 04/06/2012
Gandhi must surely have known that the biblical injunction about taking an eye for an eye was intended to limit punishment or retribution for wrongs committed. In other words, if someone kills, your your wife, you may take his life but not wipe out his entire family.
Incidentally, Gandhi's misguided economic theories resulted in prolonged poverty in India and one can only imagine how many millions died much earlier than they would have. His status as a living saint, perhaps, needs to be revised.
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Ed438
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12:30 AM on 04/06/2012
"God" didn't make Adam and Eve. They are fictional characters as is "God".

Spare us the old saw about "Adam and Steve". Its got barnacles on it!
10:24 AM on 04/06/2012
Hey Ed438. We don't need God to tell us whats right and wrong. Its a natural instinct we have, and yes somethings never change 'old saw' mate. Adam and Steve just won't ever be fact in a natural world.
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Activist Annie
03:00 PM on 04/09/2012
The story of Adam and Eve are myths ... Myths are stories that tell greater stories notfiction. The creation stories were written during the Babylonian Exile and taken from Mesopotamian myths written to explain how the Hebrews understand creation.
10:28 PM on 04/05/2012
Thank you! It's about time someone said it in public out loud.

I say, the church can slurpit!
09:37 AM on 04/06/2012
Please know that the church as the Body of Christ and the Church as an institution are NOT the same thing....Christ is Love.
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Activist Annie
02:57 PM on 04/09/2012
Amen!

Jesus was executed because he advocated social change.
07:20 PM on 04/05/2012
Why dont gays set up their own church? Ps why dont all males marry and live with each other,that way we can get rid of mankind,after all what causes 99% of the wars in the world. RELIGION.
10:05 PM on 04/05/2012
Man causes wars.
11:36 PM on 04/05/2012
not women then?