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Why I've Stopped Watching My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding

Posted: 16/02/2012 11:43

I suppose this is what it must have felt like before the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Where signs some 50 years ago read 'No Blacks', this year a sign at a Blackburn ice rink was put up stating 'No Travellers'.

I watched the first series of Channel 4's My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding. I found it fascinating, entertaining and shocking in equal measure. Shocking, because the travellers featured highlighted the inequality they experienced on a daily basis. It was heartbreaking to watch a newlywed woman worrying that the hotel she had booked her wedding reception with might turn her away if they realised she was a gypsy; apparently they had done it before.

I had, perhaps naively in hindsight, buoyed the first series' ratings figures because I believed we could learn something significant about a long-standing community which, until the 2011 census, had not been recognised as an ethnic group.

I won't be watching the new series, though. The advertising billboards, stating 'BIGGER, FATTER, GYPSIER' disgust me and have resulted in complaints to the Advertising Standards Agency. I wish I could take credit for the defaced poster I spotted on Chapeltown Road in Leeds, which has 'MORE RACIST' graffitied under the strapline. Indeed, it seems Channel 4 has sided with those racists - I don't use the term lightly - who watched the first series and responded with derogation.

Examples of the kind of language I've read and heard used openly abound in the comments section on the previous link regarding the 'No Travellers' sign - incidentally taken down because it was illegal under the Equality Act 2010 - including "scum bag", "sub-human garbage" and "lying, cheating, thieving bunch of scum who give sewer rats a bad name". Those commenters must be rubbing their hands with glee at these posters; using the word 'gypsier' has implications of racism just as 'Jewier' or 'blacker' do.

A Channel 4 spokesperson has said. "The word 'gypsier' refers to the fact that this series offers even greater access and insight to the communities featured, and the terms 'gypsy' or 'gypsier' are not being used in a negative context."

It's a nice line, but it stinks of exploitation. Channel 4 even leans on the David Brent defence - remember when he asks his black employee whether he is personally offended by a racist comment? "Everyone featured in the campaign has seen the posters and is happy with them," says Channel 4.

I hope that, sooner rather than later, society will accept that racism directed at anyone is ridiculous and unacceptable. If it was any other minority community which was being exploited and having new terms coined for the purpose, I'm sure more of us would be outraged. 'Bigger, Fatter, Gypsier, More Racist' indeed.

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I suppose this is what it must have felt like before the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Where signs some 50 years ago read 'No Blacks', this year a sign at a Blackburn ice rink was put up stating 'No Trave...
I suppose this is what it must have felt like before the Civil Rights Act of 1964. Where signs some 50 years ago read 'No Blacks', this year a sign at a Blackburn ice rink was put up stating 'No Trave...
 
 
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01:51 PM on 02/20/2012
I wish people would distinguish more carefully between Gypsies and travellers. Gypsies tend to be or Roma stock and are following the traditions of their families. Travellers tend to be of Irish stock and tend to be petty and not so petty thieves.
12:34 PM on 02/18/2012
Ali, great article. Human nature is peculiar and these gypsy shows throw two aspects into stark relief:

1. We want to stare at things that are strange to us. Think of the uninhibited child being told not butyrate. Mostly we learn not to but at the core is a more fundamental behaviour to build a shared identity with our own community. We build our identities by identifying those that are different and saying, "We are us, they are different."

2. People generally try to reduce risk. I used to work in a hospital in Ireland where sometimes traveller groups would mob the canteen. They would move through it like a storm and some felt they did not pay for three quarters of what was taken. I don't know whether they stole or not but if you were a shop keeper and had a similar experience, you might think twice about letting a large group of travellers into your shop. The councils in that part of Dublin now build 1.5 foot high concrete walls around open green spaces to avoid travellers setting up camp because of the cost of the clean-up operations sometimes required after they leave. If parts of the traveller community leave rubbish strewn behind them and are considered to steal, then many people are going to avoid the risk of paying for the clean up or having their stuff stolen and not welcome any travellers. I'm not saying it's right but it is understandable.
04:34 PM on 02/17/2012
Have you ever heard of Travelers who left a site better and cleaner than it was before they got there? There is a good reason for a lot of the negativity they receive, I'm not saying its right as stereotypes are difficult to break but they are their own worst enemies when it comes to their own PR.
12:38 AM on 02/19/2012
There was a used car dump also used by the local council to store old hardcore cement, bought by some Irish Travellers, who relandscaped the area and built very tidy houses and plots on it.

Years later, after a decade-long struggle to be able to live on the land they had refurbished, the local council came and bulldozed the area, leaving it looking like WWI trenches. The council, which was already planning to build massively on greenbelt land, claimed they were kicking the people out because the former dump was "greenbelt".

That was Dale Farm. There are many things people never hear about, because they aren't talked about.
10:00 PM on 02/16/2012
Why o Why does it have to be racist, why am I bothering to respond ? We have been conditioned to think everything has a hidden or nasty theme, its an advert !!!!! Did I do anything today that could have offended anyone ? Let me think about it for the next 8 hrs ....................................
09:18 PM on 02/19/2012
Freedom of speech is great just don't mildly offend the easily offended or for that matter make up new words that bored people watching your show can then complain about.
09:38 PM on 02/16/2012
There is only one race - the HUMAN race! The idea that humans belong to different races is a total social construction. Of course, like most 'classifications' the intentions (identifying and eradicating social inequality) are good but the outcomes aren't always. Gypsier?! In this day and age? Are some Gypsies more 'Gypsy' than others? How does one define and measure levels of Gypsiness? This type of language reeks of stereotypes based on our perceptions of ethnicity and that is the surest route to discrimination and disadvantage. Of course we could be deliberately ignorant and bleat about 'political correctness' and how 'people are always crying racism' to avoid facing up to the consequences of language like this. That's always an option too and one that a surprising number of people are more than happy to utilise.
08:12 PM on 02/16/2012
I was apawlled by a version of this poster that has 'BIGGER, FATTER, GYPSIER' emblazoned across a childs face! Truely digusting, appart from being racist did that child really give informed concent to his image being used like that
06:01 PM on 02/16/2012
some people actively look for racism in everyday life- I feel extremely sorry for them, which word or term is racist in this tag?
07:53 PM on 02/17/2012
Yes, the experience of racism is just so wonderfully addictive that reams of people are out there just looking for it, aren't they?
03:32 PM on 02/16/2012
can I just remind you that being a gypsy is not being part of a race group. One of the problems with racism is the lack of understanding as to what a race is and therefore what racism is. This is discrimination against a community, the gypsy community and is deplorable but it is NOT racism.
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04:33 PM on 02/16/2012
I think it's a question of ethnicity. I consider Roma, Gypsies and Travellers as an ethnic group, which can therefore be a target for racism. The Racial and Religious Hatred Act 2006 could be used to suggest that perhaps even some of the comments on the link for the 'No Travellers' sign story for instance could be pulled up for Incitement to Racial Hatred
05:12 PM on 02/16/2012
Don't get me wrong, there are some vile comments surfacing on articles that is real persecution.
I do not fail to recognise gypsies as a group or community of our society, but I just call to question whether they are a race or ethnic group, which is a group of people of the same race.
I fail to recognise any clear genetically transmitted physical characteristics (what defines a race) that are different to a Caucasian European.
This is not a slight on your article it is well written and I agree with your points as a whole but I just feel the word racism is not right for this situation, as it wouldn't be if the programme was about a synagogue or a mosque. Race is not about religion, lifestyle, community beliefs, it is simply about physical characteristics which is passed on genetically.
06:01 PM on 02/16/2012
How are Gypsies not a race? Isnt that like saying the Jews are not a race?
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05:29 PM on 03/11/2012
No, I for one am not convinced, I cannot tell a traveller, gypsy or jew's "ethnicity" by looking at their faces - they are simply nondescript looking white people like me.
Maybe there is a higher incidence of some gene or other. But so what? If they looked hard enough they could probably find some special gene in our family too - and we're a bunch of mongrels.

I strongly resent their dilution of the word "racist" by white trailer dwellers; racist means black or brown people being discriminated against because of their skin colour.

What really sets these groups apart is a separate, non mainstream culture. And THAT is the crux of the matter here, so debate their culture, not their genes.
03:07 PM on 02/16/2012
People said the same thing about Archie Bunker in the US, but it probably had more to do with improving racial relations in the states than any one other factor. Watching actors reflecting the lunacy of real llife behavior, in some magical way, allows even the most rigid bigots to begin to see themselves as they really are when looking in the mirro.
01:58 PM on 02/16/2012
Did you watch gypsy blood?
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02:47 PM on 02/16/2012
Yes I did. Worrying wasn't it? But it didn't tell me anything I didn't already know. Tough people have tough lives and bring their kids up to be tough.
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03:00 PM on 02/16/2012
I haven't seen it but it sounds like another programme to watch while remembering that a documentary following a few people's lives isn't necessarily representative of a whole community