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Male and Female Psychopaths Get More Sex - New Research Uncovers the Character Traits Which Predict Sexual Success

Posted: 01/09/2012 01:00

In one of the largest studies of its kind ever published, US psychologists have found a particular aspect of personality in men and women, predicts what the researchers refer to as 'hypersexuality'.

The 'hypersexual' have more sexual partners than the rest of the population, fantasise more about others than their current partner, and tend to favour more sex without love. They take greater pleasure in casual sex with different partners, and don't need attachment to enjoy lovemaking.

Hypersexuality was found strongly linked with a particular aspect of personality.

Another especially intriguing aspect of this research, conducted on 482 people aged 17-56 years old, was that this personality feature applied equally to both men and women, in predicting hypersexuality.

Psychologists are beginning to concur that it's this unique element of character which most powerfully predicts higher numbers of different sexual partners, as well as impulsive one night stands, and a gamut of risky sexual behaviours.

This character trait is - Psychopathy.

Psychopaths are linked in the popular imagination with criminals and sex offenders, but psychologists Rebecca Kastner and Martin Sellbom from the University of Alabama, who conducted this study, entitled, 'Hypersexuality in college students: The role of psychopathy', emphasise they were studying features of psychopathy which are more common in the general population than may be realised.

Psychologists believe everyone falls somewhere along the spectrum of psychopathy, and have more or less of these traits. It would seem the more aspects of psychopathy are reflected in a person's character, the more they embrace 'hypersexuality'.

The psychopathic personality is characterised by a callous and manipulative approach to others, lack of remorse, plus deceit all covered up by superficial charm. Not a particularly alluring package at first glance, so psychologists have been probing deeper inside the psychopath's mind, unlocking the secret of their success in the bedroom.

Rebecca Kastner and Martin Sellbom found from their study, just published in the academic journal 'Personality and Individual Differences', that it's the 'Fearless-Dominance' aspect of psychopathy, combined with the 'Impulsive-Antisocial' element, which actually explains why psychopaths dominate the medal tables in the sexual Olympics.

Fearlessness and dominance means psychopaths appear charming, grandiose, risk-taking with little regard for consequences, combined with absence of anxiety. They don't anticipate and aren't bothered by performance failure - which is a consideration that appears to put the rest of us off being too hypersexual. These factors can also be positively associated with a hard work ethic, even heroism, confidence and achievement; all characteristics that women value in a male partner.

Kastner and Sellbom also contend it's the relative immunity from stress and fearlessness of psychopaths, which explains why they are less inhibited than the rest of us. As a result, they seek thrilling, dangerous, and otherwise anxiety provoking sexual situations.

Psychologists argue its the 'impulsive-antisocial' element of their character which ensures they use others ruthlessly for their own gain. This exploitative social style helps generate the higher number of sex partners and short-term mating. Impulsivity means as well they act on possible reward (i.e., sex) without considering the consequences. They also disregard social norms and standards (e.g., one shall not be promiscuous, break the law, etc.).

One theory is that male and female psychopaths end up hypersexual through different routes via contrasts in personality - it's the antisocial aspect in men, but instead the impulsive thrill seeking in women.

Psychologist David Kosson and colleagues from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, found in their research that of more psychopathic individuals, 58% report using flattery, 40% argument and 40% exploitation of an intoxicated person, to achieve sex. These figures from this study, entitled 'Psychopathy-Related Traits Predict Self-Reported Sexual Aggression Among College Men', and published in the 'Journal of Interpersonal Violence', were about twice higher than in the non-psychopathic.

Luna Muñoz and colleagues from the University of Central Lancashire researched sexually coercive tactics after being turned down by a partner, including sexual arousal and touching; emotional manipulation; exploiting by intoxication; and physical force. The study entitled, 'Sexually Coercive Tactics Used by University Students: A Clear Role for Primary Psychopathy', and published in the 'Journal of Personality Disorders', found men and women rated high on psychopathy were more likely to be sexually coercive.

Based on our clinical experience, we find psychopathic women are more likely than others to engage in sexual coercion, when they encounter conflict in their relationship. Clashes, in their minds, are solved by sex. Perhaps psychopathic women view sex as a tool for manipulating others and achieving what they want, whilst psychopathic men favour deceitful emotional engagement.

One of Dr Helinä Häkkänen-Nyholm's clients described (she reports this with his permission) an attempt to leave the marital home after announcing his intention to divorce, following years of mistreatment, betrayal and abuse. While standing in the corridor, he witnessed his wife undressing and suggesting sex.

Research has found psychopaths are also more interested in violent, coercive, and sadistic sex, so this insight might unlock one of the secrets to the success of the best-selling novel '50 Shades of Grey', where sado-masochistic coupling appears to be part of the appeal of this publishing phenomenon.

But this latest study reveals that any medal winning sexual athlete has to be more psychopathic than we had realised before.

So does the best-selling novel Fifty Shades of Grey, with its sado-masochistic themes, expose that deep in the recesses of all our personalities, is a sneaking admiration for psychopathic success in the bedroom?

 
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In one of the largest studies of its kind ever published, US psychologists have found a particular aspect of personality in men and women, predicts what the researchers refer to as 'hypersexuality'. ...
In one of the largest studies of its kind ever published, US psychologists have found a particular aspect of personality in men and women, predicts what the researchers refer to as 'hypersexuality'. ...
 
 
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05:42 PM on 09/14/2012
Excellent article by Persaud and Nyholm. The only thing missing is a postulation on the domino affect that this personality type's dominance may have on our society as a whole. I see no indication of it being anything other than the caveman or cavewoman with the biggest stick(s) (no pun intended) beating everyone into submission, whether physically or psychologically, and the rest of the hairy onlookers grunting loudly with mob approval. Kind of explains both the gang rape phenomenon and the media's incessant idolization of sexual impulse gratification all in one study.

Welcome to the new world order of psycho-sexual Darwinism where the "chemical imbalance that was previously known as love and compassion for another living being" has been exterminated by the scientifically ordained, sadist mandated genocide of our collective experience. And with that, my cellular "deviants" who continue to value sentient empathy, all has been lost in the petri dish clusterphuck that has become this little blue marble...
07:45 PM on 09/14/2012
Great post!
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jf12
When I saw her I marveled greatly.
03:34 PM on 09/08/2012
It's easy to understand why "easy" women have more sex. All they have to do is agree. But why do bad men who treat women badly, get more sex?
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Laatab
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07:02 AM on 09/02/2012
I've been a dab hand at spotting the type of women described here and they have used me crueling doctor:)
04:07 AM on 09/02/2012
I believe it is important to bear in mind that all of these labels being bandied about are simply artificial and arbitrary constructs we have devised in attempt to describe relatively complex behavioral patterns. There are a good many possibilities and considerations when looking at underlying dynamics of human behavior. For example, the effects of relational trauma in the life of the individual. There are likely many many people who manifest symptoms of psychopathy who simply have habitual maladaptive coping patterns resulting from less than ideal, problematic, or overtly abusive relational interactions in their primary family systems.
04:05 AM on 09/01/2012
Thank you for pointing out and commenting upon this new research. The role of "Cluster B" personality disorders (such as narcissistic, borderline and antisocial) as primary drivers of hypersexual, chronically deceptive or similarly problematic sexual activity is an important diagnostic consideration that is often overlooked when assessing such behavior. It's clear that significant narcissism and entitlement are common characteristics of people who persistently violate their sexual commitments to others and/or their adherence to socially acceptable conventions and even legal boundaries. Determining whether constantly self-reinforcing cycles of sexual compulsivity (i.e. 'sex addiction') highlight and intensify underlying disordered personality traits rather than the other way around requires careful diagnostic consideration rather than immediate labeling, because the answer implies significantly different prognostic and treatment considerations. I just provided a link to both this article as well as the research finding it addresses at www.everythingsexaddiction, which curates information about every possible aspect of this complex behavioral phenomenon.
12:09 AM on 09/05/2012
Well, you are one stuffed up and preening sex addict. I'll say that. Strut on, you muther, strut on!
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realitytrumpsbull
Two 'alves of coconut!
12:04 AM on 09/01/2012
Psychologists are trying to come up with one blanket term to describe this phenomenon. So far, some suggestions have been: 'born horny', 'hound', 'sex machine', 'mac daddy', and, 'Tiger Woods'.
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Lykos
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08:42 PM on 08/31/2012
Makes sense to me... i overthink things, am plagued with guilt, am a pretty good empathiser... been over a decade since i've been kissed/kissed anyone else (er. Odd phrase, as if i've been snoggin' *myself* something rotten! lol - but you know what i mean). So it makes sense that sociopaths and psychopaths wouldn't trip themselves up so much, seem more confident, be able to portray a dishonest view of themselves happily, and put what they want ahead of others' needs, manipulating for their own intent. Yep - all sounds logical to me. [goes into the bathroom and gently wails a bit.]
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gundaw
I know nuffinck!
01:52 PM on 09/01/2012
On the other hand- hooray, we're both no psycho/ sociopaths! I'm quite happy about that.... :)
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Lykos
Nobody Never Eat No Fifty Eggs
02:22 PM on 09/01/2012
Hooray!  (And lol only "quite" happy?!  lol)How're you today, Gundaw-the-Great?!
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Peter Leary
So long and thanks for all the fish.
08:09 PM on 08/31/2012
Well I never... According to you two I am a psychopath. This will come as a shock to my family, obviously. And I had better amend my CV. It's all rather exciting though in a way... O_O