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Women's Sexual Fantasies - the Latest Scientific Research

Posted: 17/05/2012 00:00

A team of psychologists led by a woman has uncovered some surprising findings on one of the most secret aspects of female sexual fantasy.

While almost everyone has sexual fantasies, previous research into the subject has found between 31 and 62% of women have rape fantasies. To be sexually aroused by such an imagined scenario represents a psychological mystery. Why fantasise about a criminal act which in reality is repulsive and harrowing?

To investigate these and other riddles at the heart of female erotic fantasy, a team of researchers based at the University of North Texas and the University of Notre Dame studied 355 young women.

A part of the research involved the participants being read a rape fantasy scenario over headphones, to investigate how aroused they became.

In the study, published in the academic journal Archives of Sexual Behaviour, participants were instructed to close their eyes while listening and to try to imagine themselves as the woman described in the narrative. This scenario was derived from story lines typically found in much women's romance literature, so it portrayed an erotic rape fantasy, rather than a literal portrayal of actual assault.

This was the scenario: a male acquaintance is strongly attracted to the female character. He expresses a yearning for sex with her, but she's clearly unresponsive. He attempts without success to convince her. When she continues to openly refuse, he overpowers and rapes her.

The female character is resistant throughout the interaction and at no time gives consent. However, as the man is attractive and he provides erotic stimulation, she does experience gratification from the forced sex. The scenario places more emphasis on the use of coercion than on the sexual pleasure.

The results of the study, (which also explored other sexual and aggressive fantasies, self esteem, attitudes to sex and other personality testing) are that 52% of the women had fantasies about forced sex by a man: 32% had fantasies about being raped by a man: 28% - forced oral sex by a man: 16% - forced anal sex: 24% - incapacitated: 17% - forced sex by a woman: 9% - raped by a woman: 9% - forced oral sex by a woman. Overall, 62% reported having had at least one of these fantasies.

The team of researchers lead by Dr Jenny Bivona, based at the University of North Texas found that overall, 62% of participants reported having a rape fantasy of some type.

Of the women who reported having the most common rape fantasy rape fantasy, ''being overpowered or forced by a man to surrender sexually against my will,'' 40% had it at least once a month and 20% had it at least once a week. The authors conclude these results indicate rape fantasies play a significant role in the sexual fantasy lives of many women.

It's important to note that while headline writers may focus on the fact women have sexual fantasies about coercive sex, this research finds it's an occasional daydream, not a preoccupation. It would be similarly unfair to tar men with the brush of an occasional fantasy they may have. When these female fantasies are erotic in character, the male protagonist is always described as highly attractive or otherwise desirable.

According to this study, entitled Women's Rape Fantasies: An Empirical Evaluation of the Major Explanations, a previous common psychological theory as to why women should fantasise about rape or forced sex was termed 'sexual blame avoidance'. This theory was about women avoiding taking responsibility for sexual desires. The hypothesis argued that women have been socialised by our culture to work hard at not being perceived as promiscuous or overly sexual. For example, stigmatising labels, such as ''tramp'' and ''slut,'' are invoked which control or restrict female sexuality.

'Sexual blame avoidance' theory argues that, for some women therefore, fantasies of consensual sex could generate self-blame, guilt, and anxiety. So by letting the fantasy take the form of rape, the woman in the fantasy is being forced to do something she doesn't want to. It follows then she can't be blamed for the occurrence of sex. In contrast to a consensual sexual fantasy, a forced sex theme enhances sexual gratification by allowing the fantasiser to avoid blame and guilt.

The results of this study found no support for this theory.

The authors of this new ground-breaking research concede that 'sexual blame avoidance' may have been true in the past when we lived in more sexually repressed times, so it's possible that over recent decades changes in attitudes to sex means the stress for women of being viewed as overly sexual has disappeared. Now few women appear to have rape fantasies to avoid blame from having openly consensual sexual fantasies.

In direct contrast to 'sexual blame avoidance', is the 'openness to sexual experience' theory. Instead of being driven by repressed sexuality, this supposition is rape fantasies derive from a generally open, tolerant and guilt-free attitude toward sex. It was this theory which received the strongest support in this new research by Dr Bivona and colleagues.

A notable finding is that women who reported being less repressed about sex were more likely to have rape fantasies, but were also more open to fantasy in general, more likely to have consensual fantasies, and more likely to report a higher level of arousal to rape fantasies.

Interestingly, the women who reported having frequent rape fantasies were also likely to report having fantasies about "overpowering or forcing a man to surrender sexually against his will."

Fantasising about being a stripper also predicted a tendency to fantasise about rape. Another intriguing result is women who report rape fantasies were more likely to have high self-esteem.

These results suggest that having fantasies about things we would never endorse or choose to do in reality, are not necessarily signs of psychological disturbance. In fact, according to this research, women who have rape fantasies also tend to have more positive attitudes toward sex, high self esteem, and more frequent consensual sexual fantasies.

This study in no way condones or tries to justify rape, which remains a violent and reprehensible crime no matter what the research on sexual fantasy of either gender might turn up. While some may even believe that publishing results such as these is going to assist some rapists in justifying their actions, the reality is these violent criminals are not scanning erudite academic research searching for justifications for assault. The editors and armies of academics who consider research submitted for publication in academic journals such as Archives of Sexual Behaviour also clearly believe this kind of study deserves publication, and wider dissemination in the field.

Fantasy is a deeply problematic area for many people and for psychiatry and psychology - why do some people convert strange ideas into actual deeds - as in the case of Brievik the Norway mass murder scenario - while others just enjoy their vivid, creative and somewhat unusual imaginations without taking action. Why do various individuals become disturbed about fantasies of which they don't approve? As a result much psychosexual therapy involves exploring and confronting the mysteries of sexual fantasy.

We don't yet know the answers to many of these questions, but this kind of scientific investigation is assisting in our search for understanding.

Dr Raj Persaud is a Consultant Psychiatrist based in London, Dr Jenny Bivona graduated from the University of North Texas and now works as a clinical psychologist.

 
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JShankel
I want my country forward
02:46 AM on 05/25/2012
"Why fantasise about a criminal act which in reality is repulsive and harrowing?"

Because one is fantasy and the other is reality?
10:28 AM on 05/18/2012
The nature of sexual fantasy is no doubt endlessly fascinating, but I'm not convinced by these attempts to 'rationally' understand it. The mystery is why this particular one should be seen as especially mysterious. Fantasy often - perhaps by definition - contains an element of transgression, which means that it will often involve socially unacceptable or even repellent ideas. People may enjoy these as narratives or scenarios in the heat of the erotic moment; even in daily life people's inner speech may contain all manner of material they wouldn't dream of enunciating in public. The particular fantasy - or, more likely, range of fantasies clumped together - investigated here seems strange to those (like myself) who don't share it. But that is true of all fantasies, hence their endless fascination.
07:35 PM on 05/17/2012
I wonder if those women want to be desired by somebody so irresistably that even it is a sin and a crime, those attractive figures can not help themselves but rape them.
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
03:15 PM on 05/17/2012
So women want to be taken against their will, except only when and where they want to, and only by attractive strangers, so it's not really against their will. What else is new?
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crumpets
02:24 PM on 05/20/2012
Mate thats exactly what I was going to write.

The key reason they fantasise about this is because actually in the fantasy they find the man attractive and kind of want to have sex with him anyway.

Women seem to be contradictory and nebulous down to their very core.
03:11 PM on 05/17/2012
Is it just me?
They're not attracted to rape.
They're attracted to a fantasy pseudo-rape-that-isn't-actually-rape. The horror, helplessness, violence and general repulsion of the crime of rape is not something that turns these women on. As the article states, they are turned on by the "rape"r being attractive and overpowering and somehow the whole situation being erotic. So what is turning them on isn't really rape - although if they call it rape it seems even more dangerous and exciting - because it is just a fantasy.
07:56 PM on 05/17/2012
Well said. It's faux transgression which is all the rage though it is past its sado-masochistic sell-by date as Late Modern adventurism into a fake postmodernity, masking the fear of the heterosexual expressing the raw eroticism to be found in a sexual encounter with a stranger, a modality gay culture dined out on for twenty years.

In a culture where couples getting to know each other talk about their sexual pasts, demystifying themselves with the hum-drum, eroticism is murdered by familiarity. Littler wonder the fantasy of the stranger rises from the totally bored unconscious whose erotic nature is being stifled by relationships mimicking soap opera.

The woman in fantasy is taken, not raped. But the cold scientists do not know how to differentiate ''taking'' from ''rape.'' They worship the family and are rational.
10:12 AM on 05/18/2012
Interesting Bataille-like post. Lots of food for thought.
Can the unconscious be bored?
What is authentic as opposed to 'faux' transgression, and how can you tell the difference?
If sexual fantasies have sell by dates, who creates, polices and reads the fantasy fashion calendar?
Does the commodification of sexual fantasy negate it?
01:35 PM on 05/24/2012
You make some really interesting points. I need to chew on them. Thank you!
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Nathan0316
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02:04 PM on 05/17/2012
Quick question: Where do I find one of these women who enjoy fantasies, have high self-esteem and regularly engage in consensual sex?
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
03:12 PM on 05/17/2012
They are in fiction.
10:12 AM on 05/18/2012
seek and you shall find
lastpost
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02:00 PM on 05/17/2012
"To be sexually aroused by such an imagined scenario represents a psychological mystery."
Then sirs, I would suggest the presence of that paradox indicates a flaw in psychology. Since one is the reality and the other mere rendition.

"To investigate these and other riddles at the heart of "
our understandings we have to realize something. We are attempting to rationalize a fabrication.

"The hypothesis argued that women have been socialised by our culture"
If we hadn’t all been socialized by that conditioning, how would it constitute being a “culture”?

"The results of this study found no support for this theory."
Must be wrong then. As experimental investigation is entirely comprehensive and thus unchallengeable.Unless there be a fundermental overriding requirement. That “civilized scientists” aren’t factoring for.

"violent criminals are not scanning erudite academic research"
Maybe they’re more in touch with their feral sides.

"why do some people convert strange ideas into actual deeds"
Perhaps they mistake the unique artificial rendition inside their head, for an accurate representation of the real reality outside that hermetically sealed enclosure. But then who doesn’t, to some degree?

"therapy"
AKA, replacing one narrative with another.

"We don't yet know the answers to many of these questions"
And the chances of us knuckling down and devising questions that are simple enough for us to answer, don’t look good.