Last year I quit my well paid job and started my own business. This meant that my family and I went from being well off and having all the securities full time employment offers, to having very little money. I was, and am still, very happy with the change in career and I have the support of my family - we feel that even if we will have very little for a while, with this new business I have a chance to create something that will provide even more security than working for someone else gave us.
But shopping on a budget was something I really had to learn. I had never done it before. I Googled, I asked around, I made mistakes, I paid too much and then I learned from my mistakes. After 4 or 5 months I felt I had the budget shopping down to a fine art... I even shared this newfound "art" of shopping on a budget on www.MummyMoneySaver.co.uk. Here are my Top 10 Money Saving Tips:
1. Shop online and don't give in to temptation.
The main reasons why shopping for your weekly groceries online, is the number one piece of advice for money savers, is that 1. You make sure you buy the products you need at the cheapest price because you have the option to compare all that's on offer easily on your screen, and 2. You are able to check your basket value, and adjust according to your budget, before you confirm your purchase.
When you have to make your money stretch, the way to do it, while also making sure your family gets everything they need, is to buy the things you need at the lowest possible price. And the only way to do that, is to do price comparisons, and then shop where the items you need, are cheapest.
Also, in this country, no supermarkets offer the lowest prices on the largest amount of products than Tesco and Asda. Whatever the adverts you see on TV say about any other supermarkets, nowhere will you find the food you, your family and your pets eat, and the household items you use, cheaper than in Tesco or Asda. So that's where you should do your weekly shop.
2. Buy the supermarket's own value brand products.
The supermarkets own brand everyday items are the best value for money out there! Tesco's "Everyday Value" and Asda's "Asda Smart Price" is around 500 everyday products at extremely low prices and, for the most part, of a good quality.
If you have a little time, do a comparison online on their websites and see your basket total if you substitute the items you normally buy, with the value items. You will be amazed! You can cut your total down as much as 50-70%.
I shop with Tesco and we buy mainly Tesco's "Everyday Value" items. My family consists of my husband and me, our two 4-year-old twins and our four dogs. Since I started shopping on a tight budget, we spend no more than £50 a week on groceries, pet food and household items. This is at least a 150% saving from what we used to spend weekly!
3. Get the Cookbook out.
Ready meals are notoriously expensive and have no place in the fridge of those on a budget.
4. Comparison websites.
Yes, the adverts are rather annoying and the time you have to spend on these sites might be several hours, but at the end of it, you will not be sorry, as there are hundreds and thousands of pounds to save on insurance and fuel cost especially.
Example: I shopped around for car insurance for mine and my husband's car on a number of comparison websites. I spent a good few hours on this one evening but at the end of the evening, I had saved no less than £600 by changing car insurance provider - that's worth two or three hours of your time any day, I'd say.
5. Don't use credit cards! Don't borrow money.
The money deals are all around us, there's no shortage of credit cards or loans out there, but DON'T DO IT! There are ways to live on almost ANY budget and as boring as it is, saving is better than spending on credit in the long run.
6. Shop around and realize your worth
You need phones and a TV and the like, but shop around to find the best deal. Go online to find out, what's out there and then phone your current provider to let them know you will be leaving them if they don't offer you what their competitors are able to offer. 9 times out of 10 they will offer you what you ask right there and then - your business is worth a lot to them!
7. Sell what you don't use.
We all have tons of stuff, we don't use anymore - just take a look in your cupboards, drawers, attics and closets and you will find loads of things you haven't seen in a while. Sell your things on eBay or at your local boot sale. Not only will you have some spare cash, you will also have less clutter in your house.
8. What have you got to offer?
Saving money is one part of living on a budget, but you could also be earning extra cash. Think what skills you have to offer and set up a little side-business - it could be anything from dog walking and babysitting to knitting or starting a shop on eBay. Every little helps, and what starts as a little venture to make some extra cash, could even become a real business some day. If you don't try, you will never know what could have been.
9. Quit the gym and stop spending a pound or two.
Things like gym memberships, magazines, coffees from cafes and so on, are all things we can do without. Go without until you're in a place where you don't have to worry about your finances - start thinking of these extras as luxuries that you can easily live without.
A gym membership is an expense you can live without. Take your dog out instead, you can both use the exercise, and walking and running in nature is free. If you haven't got a dog, borrow your neighbour's or, better yet, set up a dog walking business and get paid while you're exercising (see point 8).
10. Stop caring what other people think and be honest.
I wrote a piece here on The Huffington Post about what I like to call Middle Class Poverty - "Middle Class Poor? You And Me Both!" It was well received and, especially among my friends and acquaintances who spoke with me about the piece, many told me they, too, felt the pressure of constant money troubles and that it was relief to open up about it. So, although technically not a money saving tip as such, you might find doors opening once you are completely honest with those around you about your situation, so do give it a go.
A couple of our great friends gave us a bag of their son's old toys for us to give to our younger son for Christmas - had we not been honest with them about our situation, they would have probably never thought to give these items to us, they might still be in a cupboard or they might have just been thrown out. But instead, they turned up under our Christmas tree making us, and more importantly our son, very happy.
Often there is a certain amount of embarrassment attached to not being well off and to having to live on a tight budget. Get over it!!! There is NOTHING embarrassing about not having a lot of money and if someone judges you, they're the ones that should be ashamed of themselves, not you!
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Sorry, I know I'm being terribly picky and making a very sweeping assumption, but I noticed your use of the first person personal pronoun when saying who does the shopping in your household. I've got it, this is simple division of labour: you cook and shop, he does all the cleaning and washing. Don't you?
BTW: I've had a credit card for decades and have never paid any interest. I've a direct debit that always pays it off every month. It's not that different from a debit card,I suppose, though you do get some benefits when buying anything over £100.
I second the comment about a pressure cooker. Never understood why so few people use them. Cooks dried beans and pulses in minutes without the overnight soaking. Stews & soups are easy-peasy, too.
Thank You :)
If you live in a town, shopping for the very reduced items is great, but for many, shopping in shops mean driving far and spending money on petrol - I live in the country and the nearest town with many shops to look through for bargains, is a 20-minute drive away so any savings would be drowned out by the cost of petrol to get there.
I, too, have credit cards but only to be used "in case of emergency", but you are right, they are good to have, of course.
Kind regards, Mette
Tips for a real budget - get off your computer online shopping and start visiting different shops, including lots of non supermarkets. Online shopping does not give you access to reduced items in supermarkets - pints of milk at 4p each that are still good for a couple of days or can be frozen, veg for pence, bread etc even meat - you can find a cooked whole chicken for less than 50p. It does not give you access to budget stores where things like toilet roll, washing detergent, pet food, etc are cheaper than supermarkets. You wont find everything in one shop true but if you want to save you need to buy a few things here, a few there etc.
You do not NEED a TV. Or a lot of other things for that matter.
Gym membership? PMSL at the idea of having it in the first place.
Seriously this article describes how to live on a reasonable budget not a tight one - there are thousands of people living on much less without making a fuss to whom this is light humor.
I respect your opinion, of course, but I disagree with you completely :)
Online shopping is the only way to truly save for parents who do not have the opportunity to trawl through shops to find the odd bargain - when you work and have children, you don't have that kind of time.
These tips are great for anyone who wants to save, but they are certainly also tips for those who have to live on REAL tight budget - I don't know many who thinks £200 a month for food, clothes, household items and pet food is a reasonable budget for families of 4 people, but maybe that's the norm where you live?
Kind regards, Mette...
Of course everyone runs their budget differently and what is seen as something that can be sacrificed to one is essential to others - obvious examples being car and internet. There are also different costs associated with different areas - there are places where supermarkets are so far away as to be out of reach and there are no cheaper alternatives. There are also different dynamics - shopping for 4 individuals will cost more than shopping for a group of four so while £50 for 4 is tight but can be cut further £12.50 for one is not at all good.
As for parents and trawling - there are parents who do work and have little money who will tell you in a flash which shop reduces what products at what time and how you can combine your daily exercise with quality time with children with getting the very best bargains which are far from odd in occurrence without taking vast amounts of time.
An additional benefit is that once it comes to pressure you can reduce (by nearly 50% !) the amount of energy required to maintain pressure - just turn down the heat until the barest whisper of steam emerges - this indicates it is at the correct pressure, you gain absolutely nothing extra by maintaining full heat when at desired pressure.
But it's good advice, that's for sure... Thank You!
I do think, however, that cashback sites encourage spending and that's the last thing you need when you're trying to save - that's why I didn't put it on the list... but let's make it Tip 11 :)