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How Much do we Really Need to Know About Joanna Yeates' Death?

Posted: 17/10/11 01:00 BST

Every day last week I read about the Joanna Yeates murder case in more and more detail.

We now know much of the heart-breaking minutiae surrounding the fact that a 25-year-old woman was strangled to death in her flat a week before Christmas 2010. We know that she told a colleague she was 'dreading' spending the night alone from her boyfriend, that as she walked home she texted several friends in the hope that one of them would be available to keep her company (we have seen the exact transcripts) and that, when she finally decided to go back, she bought a couple of bottles of cider on the way that we know remain untouched and unopened in her kitchen.

And we know that shortly afterwards she sustained 43 injuries in a violent struggle that killed her. Vincent Tabak, the Dutch engineer living next door, has admitted to manslaughter in the trial, but not murder. It's alleged that later that evening he was cruising a supermarket aisle with Joanna's body outside in his boot, texting his girlfriend to claim he was 'bored'.

Each of these details has made a fresh headline, and as I've sat each morning like thousands of others absorbing the pitiful story I've arrived time and time again at the same question: what is the point of me knowing all of this? Being privy to the sad, lonely story of Joanna's death feels at best like a prolonged act of empathy with no real purpose and at worse, a type of morbid voyeurism.

I understand the point of reading about murder and violent crimes in retrospect. The methodology involved in solving high profile crimes and their cultural impact make them gruesome but fascinating subjects. But in the here and now, as the court, her family and her friends are still just putting the pieces together, how do the rest of us justify knowing the intimate details Joanna Yeates' death?

The first reason we allow ourselves to read 'bad news' or stories of others' misfortune is to feel empathy for the victims, and it's true - the finer details of a case can make that reaction all the more acute. As someone not particularly fond of my own company, I understood why Joanna was 'dreading' her night in alone, why she tried to spend it with friends and why she ultimately bought some booze, presumably for company instead. Reading that made me identify with her more than just the basic facts of her death did, and made me feel a deeper sense of sadness for what happened.

But what is the function of that empathy, and what do I do with it next? In some cases, you can react to stories of vulnerable people or victims of crime by donating money to them or a charity. Red Nose Day and Children In Need are shining examples of how this transaction works to do wonderful things. But in Joanna's case there is no logical place to donate anything.

Nor does her case highlight any worrying social trend we can become more aware of and adjust our own actions and views in response to. She'd didn't 'do' anything wrong. She wasn't wondering around a dangerous part of town. She didn't meet Tabak over the internet. She wasn't drunk in the back of an unmarked taxi. There is no cautionary tale for us or our children - she simply went home at a reasonable hour and was the victim of an unprovoked attack carried out by a man with no personal relationship to her who, seemingly, had no motive whatsoever.

Stories from the front line of war or from the most troubled sections of our society often also make unpleasant reading, but they are instructive. They give us a deeper understanding of where our political system is succeeding or failing, the state of our communities, and the possible consequences for our own futures.

But in this sad, insular story of one woman's dreadful and illogical death, what are we truly standing to gain by knowing, for example, that when her body was discovered by the side of a road, her white pants were visible beneath the fallen leaves and snow and an icicle, stained red with blood, hung from the end of her nose?

It seems undignified that Joanna's bewilderment and pain should become a temporary soap opera for the rest of us to read in installments on our way to work. This is why I've decided to tune out until the conclusion of the trail when we learn what really matters: how the person responsible is going to be punished. The rest of it - the unopened Christmas crackers in her flat, the frantic Googling of 'body decomposition' by her killer - feel like pointless intrusions that threaten to make entertainment from a tragedy.

 

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Every day last week I read about the Joanna Yeates murder case in more and more detail. We now know much of the heart-breaking minutiae surrounding the fact that a 25-year-old woman was strangled to...
Every day last week I read about the Joanna Yeates murder case in more and more detail. We now know much of the heart-breaking minutiae surrounding the fact that a 25-year-old woman was strangled to...
 
 
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09:17 PM on 11/15/2011
Seems grotesque and slighlty odd to critique an approach with such sordid and unwarranted detail in own article ... some so love to act as saviours of morality ...
09:15 PM on 11/15/2011
Seems quite peculiar and grotesque to recount the details in a piece which claims to critique such approaches ... poor judgement
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05:02 PM on 10/19/2011
I disagree with the author. This article serves as an additional warning to young women that they should not invite strangers into their homes without first getting to know them either in public or with the presence of friends.

Jo unknowingly invited a monster into her home, a monster who tried to rape her and then murdered her when she resisted. Women need to understand that if they invite an unknown male into their homes, then he will almost certainly be expecting intimacy, and violence can result if he is denied. If the revelation of all the sordid details in this case serves to save one girl from treading the same path, then it's worth it.

Never be afraid of the truth, we can only learn from it.
02:36 PM on 10/19/2011
I disagree with the article's main argument. In a world where serial killers are the subject of trading cards, where their artworks sell on the internet for big bucks and where some of the more notorious ones have their own little fanclubs, I think it's extremely important to humanise the victims of murder. The reporting of Joanna Yeates' death has done that extremely well, I think. Contrast that with - say - the reporting of the Ripper case back in the 70s - who can remember a single victim's name?
04:45 PM on 10/19/2011
This is a good point and one I hadn't considered. Humanizing victims is clearly important when you consider that criminals can be glamorised by some. I suppose I was thinking more about how the details of the case affect 'right-minded' people, rather than those who idolise serial killers.

To those below asking why I repeated the details from that case - it was meant as a way to make my point, i.e., if people felt uncomfortable reading them here then they'd be able to emphasize with my argument. My mistake was probably to assume that most people would already be following the case and would have heard a lot of it already.

'Arrogant plagiarism' aside (don't people get excited on internet message boards!) everyone's criticisms and comments have been really useful and interesting, so thank you.
02:19 AM on 10/19/2011
Then why do you start this article with yet another rehashing of the sad lonely details??
04:25 PM on 10/18/2011
I agree with everymonde - this article just repeated back to me all the lurid details the writer was complaining about from others, and then acted like he was above it all. I came away feeling kind of dirty for hearing all the gory minutiae in even more microscopic detail, and annoyed that he was just as creepy and hypocritical as the journalists he so condescendingly criticized.

I don't call that great writing - I call it arrogant plagiarism, and I suggest you learn to write for yourself, or get another line of work.
03:03 PM on 10/18/2011
An excellent piece but since UK juris prudence is based on public trials with the only limitations to protect minors or national security, there is nothing to be done except trust that Tabak is having a fair trial. His defence team might even have the temerity, as entitled, to achieve the verdict it is paid for by disparaging Joanna Yeates and her life style. The prosecution is bound do whatever it can to make the strongest possible case, the media have expanded but there is nothing new about the reporting style, 100 years ago the prurient public would have been paying for each instalment as it was rushed from the court steps to Grub Street. A full trial involves the making public of full details, that is why the trial takes so long. 21st century Grub Street knows what its readers will pay for. Perhaps there is a piece waiting to be written about all the dreadful and illogical deaths that occurred around Christmas 2010?
08:15 PM on 10/17/2011
This article bemoans the lurid details and yet in spite of itself tells us all of them - does the writer have an understanding of irony.
I knew next to nothing about this case until I cam across a journalist telling me all the details in an article which at the same time proscribed this type of journalism - I am confused...
10:48 PM on 10/17/2011
The intention was to emphasis my point -- that reading these details feels uncomfortable/intrusive. All of the details here have already appeared in headlines in court reports from the case. It's all in the public domain already. Accept your point about the irony though!
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06:26 PM on 10/17/2011
I have nothing to add to your compassion and empathy except my need to let you know that this is one of the best pieces of writing I have read in a very long time. If this article gets few responses, it's probably just because you really have said it all.
10:50 PM on 10/17/2011
Hi MolliBlum. That's extraordinarily kind of you to say so. Thanks for much for commenting.
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03:34 PM on 10/17/2011
This was a very enlightening article to read...insightful and compassionate...a touching tribute.
04:04 PM on 10/17/2011
Thank you very much, glad you enjoyed it.
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01:49 PM on 10/17/2011
A beautiful and touching piece Sam
04:04 PM on 10/17/2011
Thank you Melanie.
12:13 PM on 10/17/2011
There are days when reading the newspaper becomes totally toxic. I wish there were more positive news occasionally and we did not linger on sordid details, either about celebrities, or celebrity killers.
04:05 PM on 10/17/2011
I've often thought this too!
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09:58 AM on 10/17/2011
I wonder if the point of all this wasn't a message to all of us to pay more close attention to our intuition?

Perhaps she had REASONS to fear her super-creepy neighbor next-door, but didn't tell anyone because she was trying too hard to be "sensible" and not "childish"?

Who knows? Perhaps calling someone and saying, "My neighbor is giving me the creeps because of x, y and z -- can I come crash at your flat and talk with you about it?" might have saved her life?

Most of us, if attacked, are attacked by someone we know, if only tangentially. The school coach, the second-in-command at work, the nice neighbor's weird husband, the odd plumber's helper, the relief post-man.

If someone or something is making you so uncomfortable that you're afraid to sleep in your own bed, there might be something REAL there that would bubble up if you wrote out your fears or talked them out with a respectful friend. What would it hurt to get your feelings out in the open for closer examination?
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07:05 PM on 10/17/2011
I don't know. I hadn't read anything so far that indicated she was even aware of him. That wouldn't be at all surprising if she had just moved in quite recently. So, yes -- while you say we should voice such fears (and I agree) it's quite possible those fears didn't even exist.
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03:00 AM on 10/18/2011
Yes, I agree. And it is a very sad story, I'ved read the story, and I found the article very compassionate and thoughtful, as well as your excellent post.