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Dr Jessamy

Clinical Psychologist, Author and Commentator

Dr Jessamy Hibberd (BSc, MSc, DClinPsy, PgDip) is a Clinical Psychologist, author, commentator and mother of three. She works with adults experiencing common mental health problems like anxiety, depression or low self-esteem. Jessamy is on a mission to make psychology more accessible. She is co-author of the bestselling “THIS BOOK WILL…” series (sold in 14 countries), which aims to help people understand themselves better and to gain more from their life. Her motto is: “What we do every day makes the biggest difference. It’s small steps that lead to the greatest changes.” She shared this message, as well as her personal and professional experience of how to find happiness, in her TEDx talk 'Adventure of a Lifetime.’ As part of which she highlighted three simple changes anyone can make to feel happier, more content, and live a daily life that fulfils.
Why It's Ok To Be

Why It's Ok To Be Sad

I've been putting off writing about the recent tragedies we've seen in London and Manchester. It's hard to put your feelings into words. Such senseless loss of lives leaves you questioning everything - angry but with an overwhelming sadness.
28/06/2017 16:38 BST
Take It Slow - Bringing Mindfulness To Your Every

Take It Slow - Bringing Mindfulness To Your Every Day

I keep having moments of wishing that time would slow down. Being on holiday recently and my littlest turning one a few months ago has made me more aware of time passing. I want to take it all in and make sure I'm not missing anything!
13/06/2017 11:46 BST
Surviving Or Thriving - Mental Health Awareness

Surviving Or Thriving - Mental Health Awareness Week

All too often life can feel like a competition to see who is the busiest. Our lives are filled with rushing, stress, anxiety and exhaustion. It's all about just getting through each day, ignoring tiredness and powering through. We're less in tune with our bodies and minds and there's little time left over to simply 'be'.
11/05/2017 14:31 BST
Hello World! Why It's Good To Regularly

Hello World! Why It's Good To Regularly Unplug

I love technology and social media. I love its ability to connect people and share information. To help me find my way (I have no sense of direction), to check a fact or find out where I've seen someone before, but I do sometimes have a yearning for the days when we weren't quite so in touch.
03/05/2017 16:29 BST
10 Steps To Kickstart Your

10 Steps To Kickstart Your Confidence

Confidence is essential in all aspects of our lives. It helps us reach our goals, try new things, make decisions and be independent. It enables us to manage stress and equips us to deal with emotional, practical and physical problems.
15/03/2017 13:54 GMT
The Rise Of Imperfect

The Rise Of Imperfect Motherhood

To me (in the words of Winnicot) it's about being a 'good enough' parent and recognising that it's ok not to get it right all of the time. In fact, not only is it ok not to be perfect, it will actually give your child benefits in their journey through life.
22/02/2017 13:01 GMT
Procrastination And How To Beat

Procrastination And How To Beat It

Ring any bells? Procrastination is pretty familiar to most of us. We're all guilty of putting off chores or unpleasant tasks from time to time and it's understandable to put off the things that aren't so much fun. But procrastination doesn't just affect the things that don't matter.
30/01/2017 17:24 GMT
What Is Depression And How Can You Beat

What Is Depression And How Can You Beat It?

Depression is a cheat. It doesn't play by the rules, it will twist and manipulate anything and everything to support its cause. It devalues all you do and makes you only pay attention to the things that fit with the 'you're crap' narrative.
24/01/2017 11:44 GMT
Dream Big - How To Set New Year's Resolutions And Keep

Dream Big - How To Set New Year's Resolutions And Keep Them

Despite this, I'm a big fan of "NYRs" and believe they can be beneficial for both mental health and general well being - as long as they're made in the right kind of way. The key to good NYRs is using them to celebrate your successes and basing them on what you hope to gain, rather than give up.
31/12/2016 12:37 GMT
Why I'm Hoping Ed Balls Syndrome Is

Why I'm Hoping Ed Balls Syndrome Is Contagious

Enter Ed Balls... A real life example that shows that practice does not make perfect - and that it really doesn't matter. Someone like us (obviously not in run the country sense, but in a normal person doing strictly way) giving it his all, despite not being brilliant.
21/11/2016 16:23 GMT