Families 'Pressured To Buy Material Goods Instead Of Spending Time With Their Children'

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First Posted: 14/09/11 07:46 BST Updated: 13/11/11 10:12 GMT   PA

A leading children's charity has called for a ban on television advertising aimed at under-12s after a study revealed that many families feel pressured by a materialistic culture in the UK.

Unicef UK called for the move after research has shown that children feel trapped in a materialistic culture and don't spend enough time with their families.

The charity said the research provides some insight into the underlying issues behind the English riots - which saw children as young as 11 looting stores.

The study, conducted on 250 children from Spain, Sweden and the UK, found that youngsters' happiness was dependent on spending time with a stable family and having plenty of things to do, especially outdoors, rather than on owning technology or branded clothes.

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But despite this, parents in the UK said they felt tremendous pressure from society to buy material goods for their children, a Unicef UK spokesman said. The pressure was felt most acutely in low-income homes, he added.

The research suggests that parents in the UK lose out on spending time together as a family, due in part to long working hours, and often try and try and make amends by buying their children gadgets and branded clothes. In contrast, in Spain and Sweden, family time is prioritised and people feel less pressure to own material goods, the study found.

As a result, the charity has asked for the Government to consider following the example of Sweden by banning television advertising aimed at children under-12.

Unicef UK's executive director David Bull said: "Right now politicians are grappling with the aftermath of the riots and what they say about our society, culture and families. The research findings provide important insights into the pressures children and their families are facing and may speak to some of the underlying issues relating to the disturbances. It is vital that those in power listen to what children and their families are saying about life in the UK."
Children's Minister Sarah Teather responded: "We know strong, stable families are the bedrock of a successful society. We want to make sure all families have the help and support they need.
"That's why we are consulting on plans to help parents better balance work and family life through more flexible and generous parental leave and flexible working. We are also looking at ways to give families better access to advice and support on parenting. We share Unicef's concerns about the rise of consumerism among children, and it's worrying to see that in some cases parents are under the same pressures."

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07:06 AM on 09/15/2011
Pagans have been saying this for a long while. When money becomes your god and the grubbing after more than you need becomes the wheel in your hamster cage- then we forget how to be human.

We also forget the humility that all the Gods say must be our way forward. Work to have enough, make sure that enough is just that, enough, a serviceable vehicle, if one is needed, a good home, food, good clothing and- enough. They you will have time for your duties at home.
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05:13 AM on 09/15/2011
I am a stay at home mom in the USA, my husband works from home and we home school our kids. We have a fancy big car, big nice house all our kids have work stations, ipads and we eat 3 meals a day together, we do not lack family time because of material things being purchased when they can't be afforded. We pay cash, if you cant dont buy stuff! The car is to not ever breakdown, and if we get hit by 2 cars again we will live because it has great safety features, and the house is nicer then our last even though its way less then we really could afford it shouldnt burn down like our previous while we we in it (fingers crossed!). Sometimes material things like ipads and computers are for educational reasons and keeping up with the high tech world in which we live. My 3 year old has been on a computer for over 2 years. The fancy car and nicer house hopefully will spare us grief in wrecks and lordy not another house fire!
09:51 PM on 09/14/2011
Following Sweden's example would be a great step forward.
When kids grow up in a culture where they're taught to define themselves primarily by what material goods they own and not what they can contribute to the general well-being, it can only serve to breed and perpetuate a society of pointless and asocial consumerism.
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one1byke
Easy no Man.
01:24 PM on 09/14/2011
... we'll be back to simple soon enough... we'll have no choice...
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Nanaama
12:38 PM on 09/14/2011
Consume-terror, that is the bedrock of the capitalist economy, and these days the yardstick with which even governments measure "growth" aka happiness and success and stability.
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10:59 AM on 09/14/2011
I was born in the early 1940's, I never knew my father as he was killed in the war, but my mother and grandmother brought me up, they spent time with me, taught me to read and write by the time I was three. My days were spent in a happy family circle, I had outside activities when I got older like cubs, and I went to a choir school which kept me very busy.

We did not have alot of money and so called material things were non existant, we played board games and cards, but we were content with what we did have, unlike most children today.
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There are no tyrants where there are no slaves
10:16 AM on 09/14/2011
This is the consequence of decades of pampering the consumer because they were seen as the driving force of the economy. While consumer spending has always been important to the economy, it was during the Reagan and Thatcher years that this was brought to the forefront. Since then, the consumer has been king and economic policy was skewed toward encouraging consumer spending. George W. Bush acknowledged this as a pillar of economic policy when, right after 9/11, he exhorted Americans with these immortal words: "When the going gets tough, the tough go shopping".
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the grange gorman
Rachel Corrie is the greatest person since Lennon
09:26 AM on 09/14/2011
I would hate to be a teenager now , the selfish boomers have let them down.
11:05 AM on 09/14/2011
True in part. However, time flies. It's mainly the boomers' kids that are raising teenagers.

(E.G. Born 1960, Kids 1980-1985)
05:36 PM on 09/14/2011
you said it right there "the Selfish Boomers" they created a world of narcissistic kids.

Facebook puts it all on steriods. No longer do we have local heros, entertainers and communtiy because we focus only on the talents of the chosen few rather than the talents of a vast variety of people......

It is a sad difficult world....