Cambridge University Dons Told Don't Shake Hands With Muslim Or Disabled Students

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First Posted: 14/12/11 10:44 GMT Updated: 14/12/11 12:02 GMT

Cambridge University has warned its dons not to shake hands with Muslims or students with disabilities for fear of offending them.

The top university has cautioned its academics not to proffer their hand automatically in case the gesture causes an upset. A directive has also gone to admissions tutors which explains that some people are "culturally sensitive" to the traditional British style of greeting.

"Suitable body language conveys welcome just as well," Cambridge advises. But some dons are infuriated by the "advice", with one telling the Daily Telegraph they are being treated as "social misfits".

"It seems to be totally bonkers," one said. "We know when to shake someone's hand and when not to."

The academic, who asked not to be named, added that it all seemed "a bit stupid and pointless" and would make interviews "even more awkward".

The advice, published on Cambridge University's website, states "Apparently insignificant details of behaviour and language can offend disabled people."

Other "helpful" guidance includes:

  • You can use a common saying like ‘see you tomorrow’ with a visually impaired person
  • Don't lean on their wheelchair, if they have one
  • Talk to the disabled person - and not to their assistant or dog
  • Lip-reading is tiring; do trim your beard and moustache


A spokesperson for Cambridge University said the instructions only applied to Muslim women and people with certain disabilities.

"Dons should read the situation properly and bear in mind not all people will want to shake hands."

The university added the guidance had been blown out of proportion and it was "practical advice" for interviews.

Universities and Colleges Union General Secretary Sally Hunt said academics were "intelligent enough" to know when to shake a person's hand.

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Cambridge University has warned its dons not to shake hands with Muslims or students with disabilities for fear of offending them. The top university has cautioned its academics not to proffer thei...
Cambridge University has warned its dons not to shake hands with Muslims or students with disabilities for fear of offending them. The top university has cautioned its academics not to proffer thei...
Cambridge University has warned its dons not to shake hands with Muslims or students with disabilities for fear of offending them. The top university has cautioned its academics not to proffer thei...
Cambridge University has warned its dons not to shake hands with Muslims or students with disabilities for fear of offending them. The top university has cautioned its academics not to proffer thei...
 
 
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05:02 PM on 12/21/2011
Why are those of us raised in a Western culture expected to abdicate our traditions and cultural expectations to differ to the expectations of foreigners? While I respect foreign traditions, when a person moves to a new country they are expected to assimilate as much as possible. The residents of the country they move to should not have to assimilate any further than being tolerant. The responsibility to learn the language and manners of a country as much as possible is on the immigrant. If a muslim (or anyone else) doesn't wish to shake hands, they can say so. What about all of the interviewers who would think less of an interviewee for not observing basic manners like offering a proper greeting and friendly handshake? Not to mention how rude it would be to not shake a disable person's hand because of their disability? What strange advise, Cambridge.
03:37 AM on 12/21/2011
Last year in the UK I visited my kin. At the Manchester Airport, I was grilled by a custom official for about a quarter of an hour. After that, I needed drink of water. There were no water coolers in the airport. 'Where's the water coolers?" I asked. "Gone" I was told. People had been washing their feet in them. People move to the UK for the quality of life. Yet what's the quality of life if the little things are prohibited for the narrowest of reasons?
11:12 PM on 12/20/2011
People need to wise up about whats happening in this country!
03:24 PM on 12/20/2011
Wrong warning from Cambridge. Some disabled people are rightfully offended if they are treated differently from anybody else.
01:54 PM on 12/20/2011
omg, are these cambridge lot and even our own general population (judging by the replys below) so far detached from our society. Pakistanis greet each other how.... By shaking hands. Your ignorance is only exceeded by your total disassociation with the country as it stands. This is britain as it stands, it needs such change.
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11:06 AM on 12/17/2011
Riham005. muslims did NOT introduce soap to Europe. Soap was in use by the Romans throughout Europe centuries befre islam existed.FACT!
12:58 AM on 12/20/2011
Bravo ...
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01:25 AM on 12/17/2011
perhaps its time we realize where we come from and where we are headed to; its amazing to me ,for the sake of respecting any type of "ethnic ,religious or social etichette to categorize individuals and to assume they obediently follow such stereotypes-irrespective of their basic human right to exercise their freedom of choice;while i must admit being sensitive and aware of such stereos is a plus at the end of the day one must admit that we are here all brought together to interact and shape a universal and current code of behavior that will supersede in time all previous inherited ones
01:04 AM on 12/20/2011
Could somebody please translate this into English ..??
01:54 AM on 12/20/2011
In English-Yes Sir,pronto!In other words while it may be a fact that some Muslims dont want to shake hands the fact remains that they chose to live within a democratic society where such social behavior rules are not imposed by a higher autocratic authority but endorsed by the people .Shaking hands is based on this underlying principle and and either invites a meanigful consensual intelligent interaction between human beings i.e a dialogue or -as a result of such interaction-confirms it.The idea of simply prohibiting it is an attempt to throw us back in the Dark Ages by eliminating alltogether our fundamental right of shaping our own code.The Dons duty is to stand up as our representatives and defend the dialogue process
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12:21 AM on 12/17/2011
Many Muslims I have met have initiated handshaking. Perhaps they didn't want to offend me.
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11:42 PM on 12/16/2011
I find these stories all have a theme... They start with a statement like 'Cambridge University says' and eventually narrow it down to 'A spokesman for the University'. But we never get a name.
'The Government says', 'The Airline says', 'The Corporation says'... NO THEY DON'T... It all starts with some individual, social psychopathic, control freak who gets away with such nonsense because they are guaranteed anonymity by the news media.
Who was it at Cambridge University (Government department, Corporation, etc.) who first birthed this oddball instruction? Who spoke the edict into life in the first place? Name names please so in future we'll know who the real loopy misfits are.
10:55 PM on 12/16/2011
Thank God I went to Borstal................
01:17 AM on 12/20/2011
Bravo ....
09:43 PM on 12/16/2011
Maybe they should do a remake of One few over the Cuckoo's nest at Cambridge!
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06:56 PM on 12/16/2011
Not really a big deal is it?

Just wait until a member of the opposite sex extends his/her hand to you.

Strictly observant Jewish people will frequently not wish to shake hands with a member of the opposite sex -- if I understand it correctly.
03:20 PM on 12/20/2011
If you are standing in front of a member of the opposite sex, both of you belong to the opposite sex... so which one of you should wait?
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03:38 PM on 12/20/2011
Well, I guess you've just to play it by ear if you've no idea whether the other person is Muslim or Jewish, observant or not.

If you offer your hand and the other person doesn't reciprocate, then that's a pretty good indicator ;-)
04:50 PM on 12/16/2011
This sounds like a Common Purpose directive.