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Why Women Should Become Mentors

Posted: 23/01/2012 23:00

It's over 100 years since the women's rights movement was born, but some predict it will be another 100 years before women executives in the UK finally achieve equal pay.

The UK of course is not the only country where this problem still exists. A sizeable pay gap between men and women's wages also persists across the rest of Europe and in the US. Across the world, women are less likely to get promoted, be appointed to board level or become successful entrepreneurs.

The reasons why are well-known. I've often spoken on how more needs to be done to support women with childcare and how quotas are now necessary to ensure equal representation of women in boardrooms, and these remain important for progress. But there is another way forward - women can also help themselves through mentoring. I'm not referring to women seeking mentors, important as that is. Rather, I want to focus on women becoming mentors themselves. Women who mentor others' experience benefits to their own careers in the process of helping someone else.

It's national mentoring month in the US, with a focus on youth mentoring, and this is a wonderful way to get involved. One of my favourite UK charities, Kid's Company, is a great example of youth mentoring done well. Whether its youth mentoring or someone within your company or an entrepreneur, being a mentor offers a way to build up your own skills and give back at the same time.

Five reasons to start mentoring today:

1) Build up leadership skills

Mentoring is a natural way to build up leadership skills. Nurturing talent is an important part of being a leader and mentoring someone is a great way to develop that skill.

2) Expand your horizons

When you engage in a mentoring relationship, you're forced to see things from another's point of view. Whether it is because you're working with someone from another culture, dealing with another type of business or working with a different age group, mentoring gets you thinking in new and different ways.

3) Network with like-minded businessmen & women

Join a mentoring programme where you are able to talk with other mentors and network. Being a mentor can offer an opportunity to expand your own business contacts and work your way up the ladder.

4) Revitalise interest in your own career

By helping a mentee clarify his or her goals, you'll re-examine your own. Mentoring can be the spark that leads to renewed commitment to your own business or career.

5) Give back to others in need

This is reason enough. As one of my foundation's mentors said, it is reward enough to know that I've helped a small business owner in Palestine achieve her dreams. It's an incredibly rewarding way to give back to others - not a hand-out but a hand up. Being a mentor can provide you with an opportunity to help the mentee achieve what he or she aspires to be.

My foundation runs an e-mentoring programme with male and female mentors who give inspiration and advice to pioneering business women in Africa, Asia and the Middle East. These mentors boost the confidence of the women entrepreneurs in the programme, improve their business performance and ultimately help them increase profits in the long term. In return, mentors benefit from training, networking and the opportunity to give back.

Find out how you can get involved: www.cherieblairfoundation.org/mentoring

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It's over 100 years since the women's rights movement was born, but some predict it will be another 100 years before women executives in the UK finally achieve equal pay. The UK of course is not the...
It's over 100 years since the women's rights movement was born, but some predict it will be another 100 years before women executives in the UK finally achieve equal pay. The UK of course is not the...
 
 
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03:45 PM on 03/05/2012
Another hundred years Cherie? you'r ahead of the game then.
11:04 AM on 02/08/2012
I agree with all 5 points that she has given why people should mentor, interesting read.
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07:45 PM on 02/03/2012
If Cherie Blair is such a strong advocate of womens' rights why is she not using her position, legal experience and the equalities act to challenge the changes to womens pensions?
I have no problem with the pension age being raised and men and women being equal - but I do have a massive problem with the blatant mistreatment of Women who are significantly affected because they were born after 1952. The changes need to be graduated and phased in to allow time to prepare.
Two sister born 24 months apart- I already getting state pension, bus pass, and other benefits. The younger one now has to wait until 2018. Where is the equality in that.
09:46 AM on 01/30/2012
What a totally inappropriate woman to try and sell this point! She's disgusting, her husband did nothing more than JAM his face into the history books by starting an illegal war that MILLIONS demonstrated against, whilst spending us into near bankrupcy with the highest level of national debt since WW2. He ALSO slyly tried giving away Gibraltar, and tried very hard to shoehorn us into a europe we dont want anymore.
All the while, this vile woman sat rubbing her hands with glee as the "uman rites" act was forced upon us, costing our legal system untold millions, and seeing HER law firm make untold millions from it! She's a disgrace to this country, and her gender, the worse possible example to ANYONE, let alone women! I am 100% FOR equal rights, but with this woman anywhere near the campaign, its doomed from the dtart!
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05:05 PM on 01/29/2012
Yes, if women ran the world they may not allow war profiteering like her husband did or government drug smuggling with packages of cocaine arriving in diplomatic pouches.
06:07 PM on 01/29/2012
"...they may not allow...", check your evidence, bud.
02:26 PM on 01/29/2012
News flash Cherie ! Women all over the world mentor every day ( without your direction ) this is just one of the wonderful and natural traits women possess.

No need for any so called foundation for this path......women today can walk it proudly all on their own .

Can I suggest a more ' genuine ' path for you.
01:07 PM on 01/29/2012
Oh dear, with Tony making his zillions around the world as a peace envoy, that deserves a laugh surely? I am surprised Mrs Blair can take herself so seriously, or expect others to,male or female.

She has showed dreadful lack of judgement on numerous ocassions, so l would not feel happy if any off my offspring were mentored on her say so, male or female.
10:35 AM on 01/29/2012
The best person should get the job. Male or female. Weve had quotas for many things and they do not always have the desired results. Think again Cherie....in fact no don't bother.
06:31 AM on 01/29/2012
Like her husband Tony the phony Blair this dreadful lying woman cannot appear in public or in newspapers in her home country as she is despised by the British public and now trying to fool Americans
04:33 PM on 01/29/2012
Why is she "despised by the British public"? Really? I'm American and not that knowledgeable about British politics.
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02:34 AM on 01/30/2012
They say that about all the ones they don't like.
06:02 PM on 01/25/2012
Please just go away, please.
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04:02 PM on 01/25/2012
Very rich indeed mam. Now, how could you have applied all this to discourage your husband to not have invaded Iraq based on false information, you know like the "Downing street minutes", that told "....But the intelligence and facts were being fixed around the policy." It also quoted Foreign Secretary Jack Straw as saying that it was clear that Bush had "made up his mind" to take military action but that "the case was thin", and the Attorney-General Lord Goldsmith as warning that justifying the invasion on legal grounds would be difficult."

Now when YOU try to "teach" something, (when the general concensus back then from those of us in the "outside", knew your husband and the whack job from Crawford,Texas, we're making it all up), do you understand why we just don't pay attention to your ilk anymore than the cat next door?

Word of advise, retire for good. Your husband destroyed Iraq, millions of people paid with their lives because of fabricated "evidence".
Good night.
06:35 AM on 01/29/2012
The dreadful Brown's now the even more dreadful Blair's trying to fool Amercans because no British media will entertain these frauds and liars
03:27 PM on 01/25/2012
5) Give back to others in need

Does that mean hubby is giving away any of his £25million?
08:26 AM on 01/29/2012
Hubby doesn't even pay the legitimate tax due on his earnings. He consigned some £8 million to administrative costs in one year's filing. He's shameless. So is she! Always in trouble over money issues when they are not committing war crimes. The latest news is the complicity of his government in illegal rendition to Libya where Gaddafi was handed over dissidents of his brutal regime. Needless to say, they suffered torture at his hands.
03:19 PM on 01/25/2012
more P R , did u get paid for this C, C is for Crap and not Cherie,
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02:57 PM on 01/25/2012
Ah, nice to see Mrs B telling us what to do!!!! So while she was off mentoring one palestinian, her husband was destroying TWO countries - Iraq AND the UK. OH wait a minute - Mrs Bliar is the Human Rights advocate who sweet talked her maggot of a husband into adopting the human rights act in the UK, as long as it is not the human rights of the uk law abiding taxpayer!!! Hypocrites the pair of them!!! Go rot or better still, why not go live with some of those who now walk our streets freely after commiting atrocities overseas!!.
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02:57 PM on 01/25/2012
I agree, we should allow women to mentor our society and our children. Like this women for example: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/politics/labour/4949555/Harriet-Harman-under-attack-over-bid-to-water-down-child-pornography-law.html:
Or maybe this women: http://abcnews.go.com/US/female-teacher-accused-sex-students-months/story?id=12876527#.TyAVyWDDO_E
Or well I don't no what about this women:
http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/local-national/northern-ireland/police-woman-accused-of-stealing-mamps-boots-16055185.html

Now I'm all for equality and every Human being treated the same and given the same respect and dignity. But when I was growing up, I was always taught that respect and trust had to be earned. Positions of trust have to be earned by demonstrating your a trustworthy person and that level of trust is dependant on your level of demonstration. Lets face it, would you allow Rose West to mentor your kids? Before you suspected her of murder she was at some point deemed a responsible adult? Every Police women who has been convicted of a crime was at some point deemed and experienced responsible person. Harriet Harmon is an active member of the house of commons, an MP and so called respectable member of the community yet its amazing how this women can water down incest and child pornography and child abuse?