It's not been a great few weeks to be a woman. Against the backdrop of recent allegations of sexual misconduct in politics and a thoroughly sexist Oscars ceremony, Twitter was all a flutter over the past weekend as it discovered t-shirts being sold through Amazon with the slogan 'Keep Calm and Rape Her'. The t-shirts, supplied by company Solid Gold Bomb, contain slogans that are supposedly generated by a computer algorithm with no human input and therefore no human to take responsibility for them. Realizing that there was massive outcry the company said:
"We have been informed of the fact that we were selling an offensive T-shirt primarily in the UK. This has been immediately deleted as it was and had been automatically generated using a scripted computer process running against 100s of thousands of dictionary words".
So far so good. Twitter then looked closer at Amazon and found t-shirts with the slogan 'Statistically 9 out of 10 people enjoy gang rape' supplied by seller CharGrilled.

Even funnier right? Amazon were quick to remove both rape t-shirts and most people thought that was the end of the story. However, they are still selling t-shirts that have the slogans "Keep Calm and Cut Her" and "Keep Calm and Knife Her" and a whole host more, again supplied by Solid Gold Bomb.
Is this just random algorithm or something more sinister? If it was random surely you would expect to see all the same verbs applied on the 'Keep Calm and ... Him' t-shirts, right?
No, because there are no 'Keep Calm and .... Him' t-shirts. This particular joke is reserved for women. Why is that? This must have been a decision made when a human being was programming the algorithm in the first place. Why is 'Keep Calm and Knife Her' a funny t-shirt while 'Keep Calm and Knife Him' is not?
You also don't see t-shirts bearing the phrase 'Keep Calm and lynch them' or 'Keep Calm and gas them'. Why not? Surely if the random word generating story is true we should see all these options? Imagine the public reaction to those items of clothing. We'd be utterly shocked and appalled and demand they were taken down. The reason they are not up there in the first place is because the people making choices about what words to combine know that, they know that racism and anti-Semitism are not funny and not acceptable. They do not seem to know that sexism and rape culture are not funny.
This is the problem. As some one put it on twitter "Hate crime is only funny when it's about women". We still live in a culture where slogans like this can be sold on the assumption that no one will bat an eye. This is rape culture. This is patriarchy.
It's good news that Amazon are taking action to remove these items. The clothing companies need to have a word with themselves and investigate what culture they have that allows these 'jokes' to slip through. The press also needs to look closer at what passes for excuses. The algorithm story alone doesn't stack up. Will this become the new excuse, in place of 'It's just banter!' when horrendous sexist and misogynistic comments are made in public? How come, since the eating of the apple, it's never men's fault.
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I also object to the widespread belief that a man must not defend himself against a woman. If a woman (or man) were to attack me, I'd use reasonable force to neutralize the threat, as is my legal and moral right.
So clearly women rfind sexual violence against men acceptable/funny!
Specifically I must take issue with the description of the Gang-Rape T shirt as being 'sexist'. I assume that men, and not just women, can be attacked sexually by gangs of other men. It's still mildly gross, and I don't personally find it amusing, but it's not 'sexist'.
I do know that you can't remove a post, but you CAN have it removed. Don't worry, i'll be ignoring you in future. I know you only post comments to increase your response-rate, which counts towards the "popularity" of your blog anyway.
Most of the facts and figures given in feminist agenda is very selective and they leave out any that don't premote their deminisation of men (Pizzey also said that)
Here is how somw feminists behave if anybody dare to disagree with them
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdUsl4Rz-gA
I find that depressing!
(1)A person is guilty of an offence if, with intent to cause a person harassment, alarm or distress, he— .
(a)uses threatening, abusive or insulting words or behaviour, or disorderly behaviour, or .
(b)displays any writing, sign or other visible representation which is threatening, abusive or insulting, .
thereby causing that or another person harassment, alarm or distress.
Says it all really.
Unfortunately, the society we live in uses these phrases as a means of communication, humour and entertainment.
I hear kids of various ages (and I mean as young as 5 and 6) saying, "I'll rape you" and swearing offensively at each other without understanding the full import of what that actually means.
Where do they get this from?
Pretty much everywhere. Sometimes their parents; at school; often their role models like actors and actresses in the movies they watch; sports men and women sometimes; music; especially the mysoginistic rap music; from the internet: and now this.
A mate of mine chatted up a bird on FB who claimed to be in her late 30's. When she finally admitted to being only 20 (and maybe not even that) she said, "When can we meet so you can rape me?" He unfriended her after that comment.
Is that what young women are asking these days?
That sort of comment and the humour and speech is unacceptable. But how do you change society from children right the way through to adults?
Ask them to wear one of these would you?
Just asking!